Perhaps y'all are right, I might have been a bit out of line. It just gets super old watching thread after thread of people ignoring good advice to seek out the one sentence that supports the narrative they've decided upon and run with it.
Honestly, I think turnabout is fair play. I understand that it's a defense mechanism to start thinking the worst of the other person, so it's not totally out of line to provide a little reality check by pointing out that it's just as plausible to believe he's a tragically bad lay as it is to believe she's a con artist.