I didn't make personal attacks on you, despite you looking like a complete tool in your picture. I don't know why you went there.
yes, yes. phoenix is a giant tool. we all know this. let's stay on topic, please? also don't be jelly of his sick abs.
He brought up your age because you seem a little emotionally immature. That isn't a bad thing. Just gives your situation more perspective.
So why do you need to slowly ween her off? I'm sure it's for you because you sound emotionally needy as fuck if you can't cut it off immediately.