I Made a Model Cry...

[Omne35]

Wow. That sounds all sorts of fucking complicated. And a hell of a gamble.

Yep, it is. Russians have a hard time traveling. We met in Prague for New Years in 1999 (great place to spend it) and she took a train. The Czech Republic was one of about 7 countries she could go to without a visa. I had to send her $300 in cash by DHL so she could show it to the officials at the Czech border to prove she could pay for her trip, otherwise they wouldn't have let her in.

 

[Mxxxcie]

I'm going to reply with the assumption that this is all true.

Are there no breaks in this doctorate program?

Also, even if she wasn't a cam girl, WHY would you not spend money on your girlfriend if you have it? Being in a long distance relationship makes it difficult enough to express your love..you can't take her anywhere or touch her, so I'd think you'd want to take advantage of the things you can do for her.

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

This guy is an emotional tourist. We see this shit all the fucking time. I think if you wanted to see if you could get a seemingly unobtainable girl to fall for you, you should at least compensate her for her time when she actually does.

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

Perhaps the most unfortunate part of this tale.


Now I think any man susceptible to romance (and who has had some experience with it) can testify that during periods like this, the male brain loses a great deal of it's ability to think critically. Meanwhile females seem programmed to root out such situations and exploit them.

The internet being an equalizer in this situation by removing the physical differences, OP may be in a situation where he is at a huge disadvantage. There is a power imbalance here (potentially).

Having not given consent, and in fact having clearly said "NO", we may have a situation here where this man is being, for lack of a better term, psychologically raped. This is something that is hugely under-reported. Small wonder; the powers that be have no interest in this individual's pain. There is simply no way for them to profit from it.

So OP may be in the process of being victimized here. Shame on all of you who demanded he pay for the privilege of his agony (if that is what is happening).

But he can truly say "no" by cutting all contact with her and never visiting her room again. He does still have that choice.

 

[Dan Epstein]

I like the term "Emotional tourist", I wish I knew it when I was a bartender. There are dating websites, and there are cam sites, both provide an important service, and perhaps knowing the difference can help all the parties involved. Just my humble take on it, as someone who's assisting models offline on a daily basis.

 

[Pure_emotion]

Yep, that is a HUGE problem on mfc. Models take it as work, while members think it's a dating site lol. Or some type of facebook...Sad, really sad...

 

[Dan Epstein]

I gotta confess, I made trustful contacts with many models, but not due to visiting the sites, simply because I work in the payment processing aspects with them as a colleague. I am not really versed in the dynamics between models and guests, and I wouldn't compare it to my many years of bar tending. I really hope that the content of his post has less truth value than he claims. Models set their goals when they work, and spending their time on a drama queen might not assist it (trust me I'm a drama queen myself).

 

[justjoinedtopost]

This guy is an emotional tourist. We see this shit all the fucking time. I think if you wanted to see if you could get a seemingly unobtainable girl to fall for you, you should at least compensate her for her time when she actually does.

He is also a human being who may have just stumbled into something.

But he can truly say "no" by cutting all contact with her and never visiting her room again. He does still have that choice.

Victim blaming.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

I like the term "Emotional tourist", I wish I knew it when I was a bartender. There are dating websites, and there are cam sites, both provide an important service, and perhaps knowing the difference can help all the parties involved. Just my humble take on it, as someone who's assisting models offline on a daily basis.

I hope you are paying them for the time you spend helping them! (my tongue is in cheek there)




I used to know a waitress. She worked for a small seafood restaurant. I ate there several times; she would serve me delicious food, and I never tipped her once.

This is because she was calling me to come pick her up. She could have gotten her brother or her father to come get her, but she wanted me to. So I obliged. And sometimes I got there early, the laid back owners didn't mind me sitting there waiting for them to close, or her giving me food they were going to throw out anyway. Nice people.

Now this young lady was physically abusive to me at times. There weren't internet forums back then, which is a shame. I feel it would have been very helpful to wander in to a food server community, share what was going on, and have waitresses/customers badger the hell out of me with accusations, and reminders of the purpose of restaurants and the importance of tipping.

It breaks my heart to see how many are willing to set aside their humanity, sometimes for little more than a group identity, all in the name of worshiping at the altar of filthy lucre.

I don't know if OP was a troll/freeloader/scammer. I'm certainly willing to consider the possibility. I am also willing to consider that he may have been an angel who entered unawares.

 

[Jaayy30]

Yep, that is a HUGE problem on mfc. Models take it as work, while members think it's a dating site lol. Or some type of facebook...Sad, really sad...

She calls me almost daily on Skype once she is home and off work, so the picture you are painting isn't based in reality. With that being said, I'm sure this is a problem for some models but you come off as full of yourself and it just doesn't describe my situation.

 

[Phoenix4987]

But why are you still in the picture if you can supposedly never meet her. You seem kinda full of yourself too or emotionally needy to not break it off.

 

[Jaayy30]

No it's not off-topic at all. And your analogy is way off base. In your example, you're making an analogy of treating my girlfriend like a fucking escort.

In my example, I'm saying that if you meet a camgirl on the site you should at the very least tip her for her time, or a tip with a compliment, something because you're at her place of employment and the thing she makes most of her money from is her time. Therefore, she's providing and sacrificing way more than you in the relationship. Whereas you only offer to leech her time and energy, false hopes of meeting, and just no support for her other than kind words. You might as well just be a guest who somehow managed to pull on her heart strings.

I'm not at her place of employment when she calls me on Skype after work and talks for 3 hours lol. And I'm being 100% truthful when I say that it is she who initiates any type of sexual "c2c" on Skype. In any case, the relationship is unattainable. I kind of like the term "emotion tourist", and have actually done a pretty good job at convincing myself that that is what she is, though it is surely unintentional. She is new to this job so will learn in due time to become cynical as are the rest of the models posting here. I think the intention was good on both ends but it was just foolish and immature of both of us to let it progress to what it has become.

 

[AudriTwo]

She calls me almost daily on Skype once she is home and off work, so the picture you are painting isn't based in reality. With that being said, I'm sure this is a problem for some models but you come off as full of yourself and it just doesn't describe my situation.

Your situation isn't special. We've all heard this story before. Models who get attached to members. I don't get the purpose of this thread. Are we here to gloat about making a model cry or you have a cammodel who calls you all the time? Honestly you seem full of yourself.

But that is what happens. People do use camsites as dating sites or looking for someone to talk to. People get lonely, it happens.

 

[Pure_emotion]

But why are you still in the picture if you can supposedly never meet her. You seem kinda full of yourself too or emotionally needy to not break it off.

Exactly this! He is just leading her on to get some attention. If i were her i'd just have ended this thing after he said we will never meet. Thats that. If a guy say this is kinda clear what he wants.

 

[Pure_emotion]

I'm not at her place of employment when she calls me on Skype after work and talks for 3 hours lol. And I'm being 100% truthful when I say that it is she who initiates any type of sexual "c2c" on Skype. In any case, the relationship is unattainable. I kind of like the term "emotion tourist", and have actually done a pretty good job at convincing myself that that is what she is, though it is surely unintentional. She is new to this job so will learn in due time to become cynical as are the rest of the models posting here. I think the intention was good on both ends but it was just foolish and immature of both of us to let it progress to what it has become.

Yea , dude , after 4-5 - 6 guys like you will do the same shit to her I'm sure she'll see the light . LOL

 

[Jaayy30]

But why are you still in the picture if you can supposedly never meet her. You seem kinda full of yourself too or emotionally needy to not break it off.

I don't want to make her cry again so I'm just phasing out communication and allowing her to lose interest. It's been successful thus far.

 

[AudriTwo]

Yea , dude , after 4-5 - 6 guys like you will do the same shit to her I'm sure she'll see the light . LOL

Or she will quit because she can't understand why she isn't making money.. Probably because you talk to everyone for free?

 

[AudriTwo]

I don't want to make her cry again so I'm just phasing out communication and allowing her to lose interest. It's been successful thus far.

Grow some balls and tell her "hey I don't want to talk anymore, I've moved on." THEN SEIZE ALL COMMUNICATION. Ghosting is a pussy ass bitch thing to do. You are really going to make her cry harder if you disappear with no word. She is an adult, she can take it.

 

[Jaayy30]

Your situation isn't special. We've all heard this story before. Models who get attached to members. I don't get the purpose of this thread. Are we here to gloat about making a model cry or you have a cammodel who calls you all the time? Honestly you seem full of yourself.

But that is what happens. People do use camsites as dating sites or looking for someone to talk to. People get lonely, it happens.

The post I made was an honest attempt to get perspective on my situation because it was bothering me, and the message has been clear.

 

[Pure_emotion]

if is bothering for you, imagine how she feels about it.

 

[Phoenix4987]

Ghosting is a pussy ass bitch thing to do..

Goddamn, tell us how you really feel haha. I agree though, if you're not interested man the fuck up. It's one thing to give each other space, absence makes the heart grow fonder type shit. But another if you just up and disappear while leaving things in limbo.

 

[AudriTwo]

Goddamn, tell us how you really feel haha. I agree though, if you're not interested man the fuck up. It's one thing to give each other space, absence makes the heart grow fonder type shit. But another if you just up and disappear while leaving things in limbo.

I'm still bitter after my highschool boyfriend ghosted me when I went off to college.

 

[Jaayy30]

Goddamn, tell us how you really feel haha. I agree though, if you're not interested man the fuck up. It's one thing to give each other space, absence makes the heart grow fonder type shit. But another if you just up and disappear while leaving things in limbo.

I didn't mean ghosting. What I meant was that I don't intent to say "goodbye forever" at the very moment when she is the most emotionally attached/volatile. Rather, let things die off a bit before cutting things off.

 

[Phoenix4987]

How old are you?

 

[Jaayy30]

How old are you?

24

 

[AudriTwo]

24

Grow up.

 

[Phoenix4987]

No further questions your honor.

 

[Jaayy30]

I didn't make personal attacks on you, despite you looking like a complete tool in your picture. I don't know why you went there.

 

[Pure_emotion]

Dont worry about saying "goodbye forever ". Other guy , just like you or who knows even better will come soon in her room. and her life.

 

[Phoenix4987]

I didn't make personal attacks on you, despite you looking like a complete tool in your picture. I don't know why you went there.

But you just did and it smells like jealousy and immaturity. Which is why I asked how old are you, cause you seem very immature.