This makes me so fucking sad even though it's super relatable for me.
I avoid camming/filming/snapchatting sometimes because I think I look disgusting and unattractive, and assume nobody would want to look at it. And inevitably then I do snap a photo and get an immediate reply of regs being like "I missed you!! You're hot!!" etc. And I'm only short-changing them (dudes who've paid for snaps) AND myself (losing out on potentially making $$$ from videos or tips, plus the self-esteem boost that comes from compliments haha).
Ultimately no matter how hot or not you feel, you are still sharing an intimate part of yourself with your dudes. And they are choosing, out of thousands of girls, to pay you for that. Camsite dudes don't tip altruistically (most of the time) -- if they tip for a flash, it's not because it's the cheapest boobs they can find, it's because they want to see YOURS.
And it has taken me years to realize but not everyone wants one specific body type and just settles for "less". There are infinite camgirls with what I'd consider conventionally attractive looks, some who charge a lot and some who don't. Anyone who's looking for a slim young blonde has fucktons of awesome girls to choose from -- but your dudes choose to spend time & money with you because you are what they want. There's no need to settle in Camland. If someone is paying you, it's because you give them tingly boner feels or they enjoy spending time with you. And your sexuality and personality are not worth less than someone else's.
I just really urge you to set prices you're comfortable with, balanced with amounts that let you make your goals -- rather than basing your prices on your own perceived hotness, base it on your current rank and where you want to be. (Like if you're on MFC at camscore 1000, maybe you can't ask 2000tks for shirt off, but do mini goals to get to 2000tks - based on your ranking and with the goal of increasing your overall tokens.) And remember that there are oodles and oodles of members out there who will find you sexy as fuck, exactly as you are. And don't compare yourself so directly to other girls, that will always make you feel awful!!
(Side note: I feel like assessing our own attractiveness is often like assessing our own mental health; we're too close and too introspective to actually see it. Sometimes I agonize over whether my nose looks weird or my face looks too fat in a selfie and literally nobody else will look that close. I bet I've seen snaps from other girls on their "ugly days" and I'm just like "aw there's Camgirl, she's so cute, love her necklace" haha.)
