havent tried mfc in a few months

[Paris_Lee]

i only tried mfc for a couple days an really didnt have a lot of luck with it except with my regulars who came over to support me. id really like to give it another go becuase as i said before i really like the versatility of the site.

i was going toe Domme angle on there before and it failed miserably. sadly thats what i like the most.

so do you guys think i should just try and be myself aside from the domme stuff? id like some tips so this time maybe i do a bit better. im going to hop on tonight and just hang out tonight and not try and expect to make much xcept impressions on paying members.

its a shame i cant make the domme angle work on there but thats just not the crowd it seems.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Maybe you could find a happy medium. Do the "vanilla" stuff in public chat but be sure to list in your tags and in your topic that you do the whole domme thang in private. Then those that are into that sorta thing can seek you out and you can make them your bitch in a private show without scaring away those that aren't into that kind of thing.
Really though, I'd say just be yourself

 

[Evvie]

Hmm. I feel like I get super subby in public chat, but compared to a lot of other model's it's nothing.

If topping is part of your natural personality, then just behaving like yourself will attract more submissive men. And I can assure you there are lots of kinksters out there looking for a strong lady. I get a lot of men who approach me seeking a dominatrix figure. I suppose just the fact that I'm in to the kink makes me a viable candidate.

I'm with Bob on this one. Advertise your skills for private shows, do whatever tickles your goat in public and you'll do well.

 

[Paris_Lee]

thanks guys. any advice for a first night? should i just hang out and not strive for tokens or should i set a countdwn goal for a public show? i feel like the first couple weeks can make or break you on here so i want to kno what would be best to do the first few times i work. hang out and accept pvts and skypes? or do countdowns or hope for group? go with the flow? haha oy. this is the only site ive ever found difficult to make money on so i really need you guys advice. im nt expecting much id like to make at least 100 for my time, im hoping that itll happen.

 

[Diana Blake]

There are a couple girls that really make the Domme angle work but from what I've seen it works best if you're versatile. One of my good friends Miss_Lollipop does both. She's mostly a sub herself but she switches and she does really well with a few really lucky subs. If you ever get the chance you should sit in on her room sometime and see how she handles things. She can go from spanking herself to small dick humiliation almost seamlessly.

 

[eclipse76]

If you haven't been there for a while, you'll probably have the "She's back" over your icon on the main page. With you great looks, I'm pretty sure people will come. In the long run, try to stick to a schedule planning and "regulars" who notice your style should come you way.

 

[Evvie]

thanks guys. any advice for a first night? should i just hang out and not strive for tokens or should i set a countdwn goal for a public show? i feel like the first couple weeks can make or break you on here so i want to kno what would be best to do the first few times i work. hang out and accept pvts and skypes? or do countdowns or hope for group? go with the flow? haha oy. this is the only site ive ever found difficult to make money on so i really need you guys advice. im nt expecting much id like to make at least 100 for my time, im hoping that itll happen.

It depends. Some ladies do very well with only privates; some do only group; some do only public, others can do all three.

I would say just go with whatever feels right at the time. I've never done group (maybe once or twice in eight months), but I've had amazing success with privates before.

You might try a mix of privates/countdowns, where you set a countdown to something softcore like a lotion show or gettin' nekkid, and reserve everything heavy for privates. If you keep the countdowns small and manageable, and not take privates when it would interfere in a major way with a countdown, you could pull it off.

 

[RogueWarrior]

Umymm, yeah, I could pretend to have a clue as to what I'm talking about and construct a couple of paragraphs of rambling incoherence. However, I'm quite sure that would not be beneficial to you.

However, if you'll let us know when you're gonna be on, then I'll drop by for a bit, because, well, ya know......I can.

 

[Alexandra Cole]

Oh. Oh. Oh. Don't fight the urge to top. MFC is rich with kink, ultra-rich if you include the easily corrupted and the darkly curious. It would be such a shame if you held back because you thought it would be off-putting.

I top and it's more than fine. (For reference, as a top, I'm soft-spoken, more tease than bitch. Heavy on sex, light on mockery.) I don't always top, but I do it often enough to know that MFC isn't allergic to kink. I'm just open about what I like on my profile, sometimes I ramble in public about something that's on my mind. If someone has questions, I answer. If someone has questions and it's pretty obvious they're jerking off while they ask them, I still answer, because I'm kind of into that.

Point being: MFC's definitely receptive to domination, but it's also very social. It does feel like the best way to go is to be open and natural, but I know that can conflict with certain forms of domination. So instead of thinking of domination as an angle, try thinking of it as part of who you are, and if it isn't something you can incorporate naturally, try what Bob and Evvie suggested and tread a line by keeping kink in privates.

In terms of advice for your first night back, just roll with it. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, embrace the absurdity of those awkward moments, and if it stops being fun, log off for a bit, then try again.

As for public/group/private, I'd experiment with it. Public shows are a mystery to me, so I don't have any advice there. All I can offer is that if you want to focus on privates, you can. And if you get that guy who insists that nobody EVER does privates and you're destined to fail, just ask him to elaborate, then click 'ban' before he can answer. And just do your thing.

 

[Paris_Lee]

thanks everyone maybe i had bad luck on there. i dont want to do public shows of the normal sort. i dont want to play games either. iw ant to focus on pvts and groups. im hopeing this can be done.ill probobly give it a go next week sometime. maybe monday or tuesday. im really not sure.

i really wan tto have good luck with mfc its the only site in my career i cant figue out the best angle to go with!