Are you talking about like porn or something with a little less penetration? Cause if you are talking about porn, if you're ok with your partner getting up and going off fucking other people, good for you? But I can't do it, I'm selfish that way. Cause having my wife walk in and say "Honey, I broke a world record today! I swallowed 2 gallon of jizz!" really wouldn't make my day...just sayin<no idea if there is a world record for that or what it is>Cassidy Nicole said:
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Guys: Would you date a girl in this industry?
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Cassidy Nicole said:
Look at the poll Cassidy :lol: 31 said they would, 0 said they wouldn't haha
I'd consider it and depending on what she exactly did, I'd take that into consideration. Cam girl, no problem there. Hooker, not thanks.
Neudiin said:
Well since the original poster said this:
LiciousLily said:
I am pretty sure I was talking about camming, reading is fundamental.
I am not saying YOU guys on this thread would have a problem with dating a cam girl, I have encountered people in my personal life who have had a problem with me being a cam girl and on the internet, so I was giving my two cents.
I had originally voted "No", but the question is confusing. Just by thinking of an answer, we're "considering" it.
After having been in relationships with women who are not in the industry, and seeing that they did not work out, I doubt things would turn out better with women who are. That's just me and my trust issues, though, and not a reflection on the women. Anyway, there aren't a lot of models who would "consider" a guy my age, so the point is moot.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I imagine that a model in a relationship might approach her cam work differently from the way a single model would, just like any single person would view his or her relationships with members of the opposite sex differently from a person in a relationship. For one thing, their emotional lives would, in a healthy relationship, be more stable and they would be a lot less vulnerable to the head games some members play. They would also be less likely to carry their work around with them, and have off-camera, i.e., IM, email, and other personal contacts with members.
After having been in relationships with women who are not in the industry, and seeing that they did not work out, I doubt things would turn out better with women who are. That's just me and my trust issues, though, and not a reflection on the women. Anyway, there aren't a lot of models who would "consider" a guy my age, so the point is moot.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but I imagine that a model in a relationship might approach her cam work differently from the way a single model would, just like any single person would view his or her relationships with members of the opposite sex differently from a person in a relationship. For one thing, their emotional lives would, in a healthy relationship, be more stable and they would be a lot less vulnerable to the head games some members play. They would also be less likely to carry their work around with them, and have off-camera, i.e., IM, email, and other personal contacts with members.
That's the difference between an actress and a skank.
An actress wont be comparing you, her lover, to anyone. It's acting, or at least if she's getting off, it's just getting off and not love.
A skank will....and might just leave you for better. A skank is always looking for "better". Or richer, or dumber.... depending on what she (or he) wants that week.
Since sex is mostly in your head, one could argue that any man who works around women might be comparing his wife to every pretty face he works around. I'm sure that's a major back-of-the-skull-eater for some women about their men.
Is that bastard comparing my tits and ass to that chick he works for/with? Does he want her more than me?
The sex industry doesn't have a monopoly on temptation, or fodder for comparison.
I'm a girl and I'd date a girl in this industry.
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Just sayin :whistle:
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Just sayin :whistle:
Definitely dont have a problem with dating a cam girl... I don't know though if I'd want to date someone who worked in hardcore pornography. I don't mind my girfriend fucking other women, but other dudes? No thanks.
I wouldn't mind dating a girl in the adult industry at all, but it probably wouldn't get serious if she was fucking other guys on a regular basis. I'm just not built that way. That said, cam whores fall into a different category for the most part. Heck, I wouldn't even mind if my daughter did it when she reaches the appropriate age if that's what she wants to do, provided she has a good education first or while attending college.
Not sure whose quote this was, I just saw it in Paulie's post.
If you love someone, you don't compare them to others in that way do you? How can you compare someone you have an intimate, loving relationship with, to some random stranger?
How do you objectify someone who's so important in your life as your spouse? Surely you see them as unique, not as a set of attributes with a penis/vagina attached.
If you're talking physically, well we're all attracted to other people whether in a relationship or not - but speaking for myself if I'm serious with someone, and I see a hot blonde walking down the street I might appreciate her beauty (without my girlfriend next to me that is, lol) but I'm not comparing - "oh she has bigger tits, oh I prefer blonde hair to my girlfriend's brunette hair...etc etc".
It just seems a kind of moot point to worry about being compared to others because if this IS a concern, then you should be asking yourself deeper questions about why you don't trust your spouse and try to figure out what it is that makes you concerned you don't have a unique place in their life and heart. :twocents-02cents:
Jupiter551 said:
Some models like me and enjoy doing things for me, but when when they look at their partner you can see love in their eyes. There is nothing similar with what they do for work and what they do with the person they love.
Yes, but I think for the relationship to be successful I would have to be reasonably comfortable with everything that my partner was doing, saying, and being asked or told and she would have to be willing to be honest with me about it. If she was hesitant to dump on me the generalities or specifics of something bad that she'd experienced that night, I would be less able to help her (what little I could); we would both know this fact, and it would eat at me (if not both of us).
Believe it or not, for me, this would be a lot like dating an MD. She puts up mental walls and hides some or all of her emotions behind them (as the only way she can do her job). But at night she can't drop the shields, and her partner is forced to wait outside the barriers until he grows tired of trying.
Believe it or not, for me, this would be a lot like dating an MD. She puts up mental walls and hides some or all of her emotions behind them (as the only way she can do her job). But at night she can't drop the shields, and her partner is forced to wait outside the barriers until he grows tired of trying.
Cassidy Nicole said:
Considering that the poll is currently 45-0 in favor of dating cam girls, there seems to be little to no reluctance to do so, at least from the members in here.
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ComicOzzie said:
I said further down that this post was not directed just at YOU GUYS ON THE FORUM. I have encountered people in my personal life who straight up told me they couldnt do it, so I was giving my two cents. This was about opinions on the subject so I gave mine.
Depends on how high their camscore is.
I am pretty much in line with most of the earlier posts. Dating a cam girl would be fine... I have no problems or issues with that whatsoever, its no biggie... but going to the other end of the scale, dating someone who did hardcore, sorry but no thanks.
I have dated a few [strippers and 2 cam models] and for the most part its the same concerns as any non sex worker relationship. The trust and fidelity will make or break anything. We all have a past. :twocents-02cents:
Camgirl or stripper? Sure
Cumdumpster that gets nutted on by random dudes daily(porn "stars")? Naw Couldn't do it for many reasons. Would make me look bad, I'd get jealous, I wouldn't be able to respect her or take her seriously, I would never want to have a kid/family because of the shame the kid/s would eventually feel when they see Mom was in Anal Whores 23, etc.
P.S. Voting no because it's odd that nobody else has just to be weird
Cumdumpster that gets nutted on by random dudes daily(porn "stars")? Naw Couldn't do it for many reasons. Would make me look bad, I'd get jealous, I wouldn't be able to respect her or take her seriously, I would never want to have a kid/family because of the shame the kid/s would eventually feel when they see Mom was in Anal Whores 23, etc.
P.S. Voting no because it's odd that nobody else has just to be weird
If my daughter, or son for that matter, was to be involved in the porn industry I would prefer to know, not for kinky, insect reasons but so as to offer support in what is otherwise considered a not very nice industry. Not only that but if she has nothing to hide then the threats of, I know where you live and who your parents are, do ______ or I will tell, etc would be empty threats and life would be that much easier for them.
And as long as I know it will reduce the chances I would see something I'd rather not.
They are after all our flesh and blood just trying to make a living. I don't have to like the choices my children make, I am expected to love and support them, no mater what.
Yep, I,m a porn supporter and proud.
P.S. I have no children and at my age never will.
Are you guys purposefully taking names out of quotes for some reason? It's nice to be able to see who you are quoting, so please don't cut them out.
SirLes said:
eww, kinky insect reasons??
http://www.somethingawful.com/d/horrors-of-porn/bug-eater-cockroach.php
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