Fustrated - Beta male rant

[TaylorBlanc]

I came to these sites for the fun of it. Anyway I like to hold my head up with integrity. I don't do anything that I don't feel comfortable with. And my fans are usually comfortable with this. But I am not exactly comfortable with demands.

I have rules in my room and I stick to them. Yesterday morning someone came into my main room and paid me 23 tokens. I had "cookies" in my title (I only know how to change the title with certain apps but I forgot to turn it off) and kept explaining that I wasn't going to be doing anything and that no one has to tip. We were all just having a nice discussion. And then he came along and tipped me and started acting like he owns me.

Besides he didn't meet the normal room goals or anything. He demanded that I flash my breasts. Now I had surgery on my chest (Breast reduction to make them both symmetrical in weight) and so he said "Flash your c*nt then" which is not something I am comfortable with yet. Besides I am menstruating currently.

He got really nasty and started threatening me and other users in my room and so I let it go on as a last time I kicked someone like this I got falsely banned for being underaged. So I took a few screen shots.

It's just so dumb that people can get away with this stuff. He was in the room for a while. I am positive he heard me explain that I am not doing any thing in that show other then getting ready for the day. I reported hi to chaturbate.

 

[JickyJuly]

Work on a site that allows you to ban without fear instead.

 

[AmberCutie]

Work on a site that allows you to ban without fear instead.

Wait, does Chaturbate not let models/broadcasters ban?

 

[Mila_]

Wait, does Chaturbate not let models/broadcasters ban?

You can ban anyone you want. There is no limit to how many people you can ban, and bans are permanent. Banning someone will also remove every single message that he posted in your chat.

It sounds like she banned someone in the past and she got banned because someone reported her at the same time. So she believes (with reason) that it was the dude she banned who reported her for being a minor. It sounds like she is trying to avoid having this happen again.

But OP, ban anyone who fucks with you. Seriously, I am ban happy and I never had any issues. If you do get reported for anything, you just write to support and they will eventually lift it.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Wait, does Chaturbate not let models/broadcasters ban?

I think I read in Chaturbate's very sensible TOC's that it depends on whether or not there was an easterly wind in the geographical area of the model who administered the ban on the day of said ban. If there was an easterly wind and the ban occurred between Monday and Wednesday, then the ban was within Chaturbate's rules and guidelines, so the model won't be banned. If however, the ban occurred between Thursday and Saturday, then the model will have run afoul of Chaturbate's rules and will be summarily banned. If the ban occurred on a Sunday, then Chaturbate will defer to their usual method of deciding whether or not a model will be banned by flipping a coin and asking a nearby pigeon to explain how a coin toss works.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Lol at "alwayswinter"

 

[Phoenix4987]

Lol at "alwayswinter"

And aussie_mitch. lol, bobby it's a dollar.

 

[Rosy]

I wish I had your patience and manners I start to sound like Scarface when people start acting up.

He was on cam and I told him he isn't very nice and he banned me

 

[BobbyB]

Just for the record, it was not me , there seem to be more Bobby's out there.

Apart from that I would ban at the first sign of trouble, the situation will likely only get worse if you wait.

 

[Serenity_Tam]

This is going to always happen. tbh this isn't even that bad, but I can understand feeling like it is when you're new.

You will ALWAYS get jerks like this. If you can't handle it then camming isn't for you, it will just end up breaking who you are down. Otherwise as has been said ban. Ban. Ban. Banning saves the humanity of camgirls.

 

[Snowie1969]

I think I read in Chaturbate's very sensible TOC's that it depends on whether or not there was an easterly wind in the geographical area of the model who administered the ban on the day of said ban. If there was an easterly wind and the ban occurred between Monday and Wednesday, then the ban was within Chaturbate's rules and guidelines, so the model won't be banned. If however, the ban occurred between Thursday and Saturday, then the model will have run afoul of Chaturbate's rules and will be summarily banned. If the ban occurred on a Sunday, then Chaturbate will defer to their usual method of deciding whether or not a model will be banned by flipping a coin and asking a nearby pigeon to explain how a coin toss works.

Unless there is a full moon in Virgo and Venus in Sagitarius.. becuase then clause 12333 section 4 will come into play

I came to these sites for the fun of it. Anyway I like to hold my head up with integrity. I don't do anything that I don't feel comfortable with. And my fans are usually comfortable with this. But I am not exactly comfortable with demands.

I have rules in my room and I stick to them. Yesterday morning someone came into my main room and paid me 23 tokens. I had "cookies" in my title (I only know how to change the title with certain apps but I forgot to turn it off) and kept explaining that I wasn't going to be doing anything and that no one has to tip. We were all just having a nice discussion. And then he came along and tipped me and started acting like he owns me.

Besides he didn't meet the normal room goals or anything. He demanded that I flash my breasts. Now I had surgery on my chest (Breast reduction to make them both symmetrical in weight) and so he said "Flash your c*nt then" which is not something I am comfortable with yet. Besides I am menstruating currently.

He got really nasty and started threatening me and other users in my room and so I let it go on as a last time I kicked someone like this I got falsely banned for being underaged. So I took a few screen shots.

It's just so dumb that people can get away with this stuff. He was in the room for a while. I am positive he heard me explain that I am not doing any thing in that show other then getting ready for the day. I reported hi to chaturbate.

No one owns you. Ban him. Do what you feel comfortable doing. Any non-douchebag will understand. Have fun in camming.

 

[DrNecessiter]

As a fully paid-up beta male who supports models and their right to do, or not do, anything they want whether for tips or whatever, this guy is a knob-end and does not represent me and my kind

 

[Carmita Bonita]

I just would ban as soon as anyone made a dramatic fuss like that. He doesn't deserve extra attention just because he feels entitled to more from 23 tokens. My advice is just ban before it escalates to something vile like that.

If anyone pms anything like 'cunt' just ban and move on. He didn't get flashes he wanted--but he sure got a lot of attention. He is only 'getting away with it' because he isn't being banned and is being allowed to act abusive and his behavior is resulting in disrupting the room. It's YOUR room, you're the one in control. There's no reasoning with some people.

The longer I cam, the more I realize you can't please everyone. And it still can bother me even after 4 years of camming. Of course we want everyone to be happy in the room and feel appreciated but I saved myself a lot of grief and drama as soon as I got rid of the jerks right away. I've banned tons of guys on CB for 3 years and never got any trouble for it. If anything were to happen again, you have the screenshots.

Don't be scared and use that ban button when someone is being a douche

 

[DonaDiabla]

I would have banned after he said cunt. Trust me, banning keeps your room drama free and fun

 

[AudriTwo]

 

[BobbyB]

I just would ban as soon as anyone made a dramatic fuss like that. He doesn't deserve extra attention just because he feels entitled to more from 23 tokens. My advice is just ban before it escalates to something vile like that.

If anyone pms anything like 'cunt' just ban and move on. He didn't get flashes he wanted--but he sure got a lot of attention. He is only 'getting away with it' because he isn't being banned and is being allowed to act abusive and his behavior is resulting in disrupting the room. It's YOUR room, you're the one in control. There's no reasoning with some people.

The longer I cam, the more I realize you can't please everyone. And it still can bother me even after 4 years of camming. Of course we want everyone to be happy in the room and feel appreciated but I saved myself a lot of grief and drama as soon as I got rid of the jerks right away. I've banned tons of guys on CB for 3 years and never got any trouble for it. If anything were to happen again, you have the screenshots.

Don't be scared and use that ban button when someone is being a douche

Yep, you can see it really from the business angle.

You offer a certain product in your room and normally there should be only customer in your room interested in your offer.

If the customer is looking for something different you are only wasting your time and also his time by keeping him in the room.
So the best solution is to assist him finding a more suitable model - by banning him....
Nothing personal - just a business decision