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Perhaps. And you're right I do assume too much. I'm also a bit insecure despite my age 🙁
Ok so you're projecting yourself onto him and what maybe you would do if you were in his shoes at his age.

[Where's Audri with her "therapists/sex workers" gif.]
 
This is life as a male cam model on CB right now.

Also going to throw in a dont go into other models rooms while you are broadcasting, dont know if you do or not but I know it's a pretty common thing, its like rolling into starbucks with your own coffee maker and expecting not to get thrown out.
Dude, I'm figuring that out 🤣
And I'm not some young dude showing his face either 😉
 
Ok so you're projecting yourself onto him and what maybe you would do if you were in his shoes at his age.

[Where's Audri with her "therapists/sex workers" gif.]
It was stolen from twitter first (by me)
Whoever the original maker was, did our community a huge service by making it though 🤍
and I admire them greatly!
 

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It was stolen from twitter first (by me)
Whoever the original maker was, did our community a huge service by making it though 🤍
and I admire them greatly!
Thanks for the "tough love," Marie. 😉
It was stolen from twitter first (by me)
Whoever the original maker was, did our community a huge service by making it though 🤍
and I admire them greatly!
 
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It was stolen from twitter first (by me)
Whoever the original maker was, did our community a huge service by making it though 🤍
and I admire them greatly!
Aw sweet! I did not mean to take away credit, I remember seeing her post it. ;)
 
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Aw sweet! I did not mean to take away credit, I remember seeing her post it. ;)
Yeah I'm worried people will think I'm taking credit too. I definitely never made it, but it's awesome :party:
 
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Thanks for the "tough love," Marie. 😉
I'm still not saying I have an opinion or understand your situation though. I just wanted to provide the pic.
Because at times it's pretty apt.
 
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Guys, thanks for all the replies and insight. I have a CB friend who is a mutual viewer of the guy I watch (and he watches me) tell me some things and while it was harsh, I agreed with him. I have no problem with people being honest and telling me where I'm wrong. I know I'm a mess 😉
 
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Guess I didn't communicate my issue well enough and I'm supposed to be good at that 😉
Could be I'm not receiving/ understanding the message well too. I wouldn't worry about it 🤍

ETA; Cam sites are supposed to be fun, when they're not fun any more it's time to dip. I feel like it's probably likely this (whatever it is) likely boils down to that.
 
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Could be I'm not receiving/ understanding the message well too. I wouldn't worry about it 🤍

ETA; Cam sites are supposed to be fun, when they're not fun any more it's time to dip. I feel like it's probably likely this (whatever it is) likely boils down to that.
Marie, it's not that it's not fun anymore. I just started camming again April 14 after about a 3 1/2 year absence.
Yes, I'm a "hobby wanker," here more for fun than tokens. Any tips I get go to people I watch and I don't watch that many.
I'm finding I enjoy camming more than viewing even with a handful of viewers. All I need is one.
It's hard sometimes switching from the cammer getting all the attention to the viewer basically sharing someone.
I understand how it works, but that doesn't mean it can't be frustrating. But only if I let it, right?😉
 
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This is life as a male cam model on CB right now.

Also going to throw in a dont go into other models rooms while you are broadcasting, dont know if you do or not but I know it's a pretty common thing, its like rolling into starbucks with your own coffee maker and expecting not to get thrown out.
LOL
 
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Don't ya love those rude fuckers who drop in with their first comment being "pm" :rolleyes:
And then proceed to do nothing but talk dirty for free, but hidden from the rest of the room. Then leave without leaving a tip. I've seen thousands of those and I can count on one hand how many of them converted to tips.
 
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And then proceed to do nothing but talk dirty for free, but hidden from the rest of the room. Then leave without leaving a tip. I've seen thousands of those and I can count on one hand how many of them converted to tips.
I see that in a room I frequent. I think it's rude unless you're setting up a private show. But 30 minutes of free play while public chat dies is rude, IMHO
 
I see that in a room I frequent. I think it's rude unless you're setting up a private show. But 30 minutes of free play while public chat dies is rude, IMHO
I've cut back on "PM bb" requests in my room on CB . I know how it feels to be alienated in public chat and don't want to do that to viewers.
 
I wouldn't have any viewers if I cut off people who can't tip. 🤷‍♂️
But maybe it would encourage the colored users to tip. 🤔
I've gained 200 followers in 3 days by not allowing people to chat without tipping first.
 
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But you're an experienced female model. I'm an older male cammer who has great stream quality (with OBS now) but very limited viewers. Its taken me since April 14th to get 224 viewers. I usually have a good time with the people who show up, sometimes no.
 
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