Shutterbuck said:
:angry4: I just fucking hate it when a model becomes obsessed with me! :angry4:
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Yeah, god dam those bitches! I mean all I do is lurk around rooms filling up the room chat with inane shit, then like, I decided to tip for pm and she actually started pming me! And now every time I try and lurk in her room she pm's me saying "hi". Chick is obsessed.
As for lying, well, technically almost every single thing a model does on cam is a lie.
Do women sit around the house scantily dressed/naked with full make up on? No. I'm sorry to burst your bubble guys, but that'd be both very cold and also terrible for your skin!
Do models actually get that excitable and happy when they're working? No. Many model really enjoy their jobs, and sometimes camming genuinely can be super fun, but for the most part it's just for show.
Do we really scream loudly and writhe around while masturbating? Hell no. That's all just for your benefit guys! I masturbate like a ninja!
Do we really enjoy blowjobs so much that we like to suck dildos when real cock isn't available? Mmm no, I love giving head, but not on toys so much.
Though these things aren't lies so much, they are also acting out a fantasy. They are not real. Camgirls are real people, but the person you get to know is only a small part of that person. Just the same as a waitress in a restaurant will be nice to you, wait on you, clear up for you and laugh at your jokes, but that same waitress also can't wait to curl up in bed and is nothing like her waitress self when she's at home.
As for many other things, well, some lies are for safety, like names, locations etc. This is essential. Other lies are for business, like how much we might love deepthroating or how we much prefer older men to guys our age. Those things might be true, but they are also things a camgirl might say to appease her audience and draw them in.
Some girls will say they love regulars, even if they just mean as a friend. Remember there may be a generation/culture gap. In my generation we tell everyone that we love them. I say it regularly to all of my friends. I say it less on mfc because of the implications, but it doesn't mean it's not true. Loving someone and being in love with them are also different things. I basically wouldn't read into anything a camgirl says along these lines too much. What you have is an online friendship, nothing more (though some models do genuinely fall for members, I'm assuming by your levels of distrust this isn't true in your situation). Of course she could be trying to draw you in/make you fall in love with her so you'll get attached and spend all your money on her. Most models don't do this, but it's not unheard of.