Hi,
I’m aware that there is a lot “omg I found a girl on cam that I like! is this real that she likes me too?”
However maybe this one is a little different. I’m looking for advice on how to manage this situation
I’ve been single 1.5 years, about 5months ago I end up on a cam site and find this Colombian girl 23 y/o (I’m 28 from uk) the first couple of times we have private sessions and have fun, thinking nothing of it other than damn she’s really beautiful.. so I go a couple times a month as I’m happy with the service (bare in mind these aren’t long private sessions I’m just having the fun and leaving) then one time I enter free mode and we start talking and we clicked very naturally, getting to know each other, making each other cry laughing, this must’ve been over a couple of hours inbetween some people taking her private.
So from then on we did the free mode a lot more than private’s and sometimes I feel bad for sitting in free and her not getting any money so I tip her (only £10 as that is max per tip) and she gets a bit bothered and tells me that’s not something that I need to do now, she doesn’t see me as a customer etc
fast forward to last month and she gives me her work number to talk to her on, which we did on and off but it wasn’t her main phone so after 2 weeks of that she gave me her main phone number so “we can be closer” and we’ve called a few times and text almost everyday, she’s funny, flirty, we have a lot in common and the language barrier isn’t too difficult either. She has told me multiple times she adores our connection and how she’s saving to fly over even if it’s meeting half way (sending screenshots of her saving etc) but sometimes she gives mixed signals, on occasions she doesn’t seem to fancy talking as she gives 1 or 2 word replies to questions I ask or general messages , so when I try to give her space and she realises this she will come back and start a conversation then not reply for a day.
Now at the minute I do like her I do feel a connection but i obviously have the thoughts in my head second guessing it all. Like is she genuinely interested and is it just their culture that she doesn’t need to speak to me every day.
Her wanting to fly so quickly kind of feels like a red flag . But also the fact she works for a studio she’s risked a lot letting me have her phone numbers, which itself says a lot I would assume?
I understand this is fairly early on too, do I carry on and just go with the flow. Or could there be something dodgey about this?
I’m aware that there is a lot “omg I found a girl on cam that I like! is this real that she likes me too?”
However maybe this one is a little different. I’m looking for advice on how to manage this situation
I’ve been single 1.5 years, about 5months ago I end up on a cam site and find this Colombian girl 23 y/o (I’m 28 from uk) the first couple of times we have private sessions and have fun, thinking nothing of it other than damn she’s really beautiful.. so I go a couple times a month as I’m happy with the service (bare in mind these aren’t long private sessions I’m just having the fun and leaving) then one time I enter free mode and we start talking and we clicked very naturally, getting to know each other, making each other cry laughing, this must’ve been over a couple of hours inbetween some people taking her private.
So from then on we did the free mode a lot more than private’s and sometimes I feel bad for sitting in free and her not getting any money so I tip her (only £10 as that is max per tip) and she gets a bit bothered and tells me that’s not something that I need to do now, she doesn’t see me as a customer etc
fast forward to last month and she gives me her work number to talk to her on, which we did on and off but it wasn’t her main phone so after 2 weeks of that she gave me her main phone number so “we can be closer” and we’ve called a few times and text almost everyday, she’s funny, flirty, we have a lot in common and the language barrier isn’t too difficult either. She has told me multiple times she adores our connection and how she’s saving to fly over even if it’s meeting half way (sending screenshots of her saving etc) but sometimes she gives mixed signals, on occasions she doesn’t seem to fancy talking as she gives 1 or 2 word replies to questions I ask or general messages , so when I try to give her space and she realises this she will come back and start a conversation then not reply for a day.
Now at the minute I do like her I do feel a connection but i obviously have the thoughts in my head second guessing it all. Like is she genuinely interested and is it just their culture that she doesn’t need to speak to me every day.
Her wanting to fly so quickly kind of feels like a red flag . But also the fact she works for a studio she’s risked a lot letting me have her phone numbers, which itself says a lot I would assume?
I understand this is fairly early on too, do I carry on and just go with the flow. Or could there be something dodgey about this?
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