I find it interesting how so many members try giving models unsolicited advice about their camming careers.
Now lets take a step back a second. These are
women they are talking to. Anyone who knows anything about women will know that they do not take unsolicited, obvious personal advice well. My question is, are people so blind? I mean how can you really go through life knowing so little about the opposite sex? Fair enough if you were gay, but someone hanging out on a camgirl site clearly isn't.
This is where men and women are wired very differently. Women will have a problem, they'll go to their friends and they'll talk about it. If they go to their female friends they'll offer comfort and maybe mild advice if it seems necessary, but most of the time the girl is just going to her friends for a pat on the back and some comfort. If they go to a male friend he will try to fix it. It's the difference. With men although many of my male friends do come to me for comfort and just to chat, they don't do it as much. If a man hears a woman has a problem he will offer a suggestion that comes to mind. Here is where the problem lies... if someone is going through a problem then they will have thought it through a lot. They will have thought of possible outcomes, what's possible etc. The reason usually there's a problem is because none of the obvious things are working. So the man gets told the issue and in 5 minutes comes up with the first few things that pops into his head. There's a reason it only took him 5 minutes to think of. Because it's bloody obvious.
What makes this worse, is most of the girls on here do not have a problem with these things. We're not coming to anyone with our problems, we're just minding our own business and being happy with our success.
It is not always the advice, it's the person who's giving the advice, and the situation where the advice is made.
I wish people would just remember that we're women doing a profession that I doubt any of them could pull off. Not all models become successful camgirls, and many really good looking girls crash and burn. This means there must be more to it. Unless someone has actually done said job, it's just not his place to make this kind of advice.
And again in case people didn't hear it the first times, we are WOMEN. This means we are very different from men, we can be a little mentally unstable, we can get VERY angry at men we do not know interfering with our lives. We can get just as angry when men we do know interfere with our lives. We over think everything by nature, we talk to each other as much as possible. We're usually more comfortable sharing in depth things about our personal lives.
Why is it that people seem to understand in real life that we're all a bit nutty with stuff like this yet they act shocked when we act like this online? Yes some members like camgirls to be wonderful perfect online people, but essentially the whole reason for camgirls is that we're not actresses, we're real people behind the screens. Which means we can tell members to go to hell as much as we like!