morment said:
Jupiter551 said:
Also apparently it's the same neighbour who was lurking on his porch during yesterday's show lol...so who knows when he first saw and how many days he's been spying
Really though, thats super awkward, she's gotta live next door to the guy :/
Ah, yeah that would be super weird.
It's ok, in my mind at least, if he accidentally saw something, but it becomes creepy if he's lurking around hoping to do that.
Yes I would agree, but let me add. My mother lived next door to a couple who were big-time exhibitionist. Leaving the cartage/stdio she rented behind the landlords large house late one night, she asked me to put a beg of garbage in the can on the way out. The trash cans sat next to the detached garage and in between the properties. When I dropped the beg in the can, it spooked the male half of landlord who was just the other side of the can, and this in-turn spooked me. He said something like '
'oh garbage too'. Yep, I turned, but before I had taken two steps I realized that this made no sense. The guy was on the back side of the cans? I went back in and told my mother. We ended up leaving it at, well maybe he over shot the can and was retrieving the bag from the other side. I thought it was very unlikely that I would not have picked up some movement unless he had been standing motionless. Also, the proximity of bedroom windows to were dude was worked for the peeper theory. In the following weeks my mother brought it up twice. She could not believe the cover story we had made for him, and she was not so much concerned with any conceived threat to her, but by her feeling she had some duty to warn the other neighbors. ( which she had ruled out, but it bugged her.)
Then sitting in the dark driveway that split the houses late one night talking with my GF, we suddenly were treated to a couch show of the neighbors through the large bay windows of the front room. besides the fact that I had noticed, and verified by my GF, that the curtains had been closed with the front room light on when we got there 9ish, and then open at 11ish, she was also almost unbelievably over the top too loud. After this happened a second time a few weeks later, we were all convinced dude had been offered show opportunities@theater near the round. It was really sorta funny how totally relieved my mother was, she figured he was prolly taking a pretty big risk of getting caught by his wife, (if he was doing it on an ongoing basis), but she never mentioned it again, except to jokingly nag at my Gf and I, to not be hanging out in her driveway all night.
I'm not saying the Miss Mew is intentionally being an exhibitionist, only that, the neighbor might reasonably be a bit confused if he first accidentally saw a show, then after he thinks she must have been aware of him, the view is not blocked. I mean just trying to think how that could be seen as something along the lines of permission, or not the opposite for sure.
