Crushing Moment

[AudriTwo]

for me it's something strange seeing another man's woman

 

[Just_A_Guy]

Should there be feelings of jealousy, anger, hurt, or just brush it off as another day?

Don't want to come across as either rude or unpolite, or anything, but you seem a bit lost and in need of a reality check: she's not your friend or anything. Does she have your number? Does she call you when she has a problem she wants to talk about or just want to chat? Do you guys hang out together? Just take camsites for what they are.

 

[MarieElise]

Oh also something to think about: If instead of a mysterious random other dude she had a wife of 10 years she did content with, would this bother you in the same way?

If it doesn't, you have some shit to sort out for yourself my dude.

I have no problem watching another man's woman, another woman's man, another man's man, another woman's woman... other men's men, or other women's women.

There must be something wrong with me

 

[AudriTwo]

I have no problem watching another man's woman, another woman's man, another man's man, another woman's woman... other men's men, or other women's women.

There must be something wrong with me

Fucking love watching another person's spouse show me their genitals.

 

[maskedsissyslutforyou]

There must also be something wrong with me.

My response to the original post about a penis suddenly showing up in a female's models room would have been: "Cool, this is going to be a couples show"

 

[MarieElise]

There must also be something wrong with me.

My response to the original post about a penis suddenly showing up in a female's models room would have been: "Cool, this is going to be a couples show"

Yeah ... it was "lubed and huge"... oh Heavens to Betsy, the horror !!

 

[Delroy]

Most cam girls from my experience are in relationships, some are open about it (and for some men it's a turn on to know it) and others hide it either because it's their personal life or because they think by saying they are single they will get your tokens

I personally find it difficult to view a model I know is in a relationship, for me it's something strange seeing another man's woman so i'd probably leave if I knew she was not single. Did she ever mention her relationship status to you or did you just assume she was single.

She is on a cam site. She isn't exclusive to you so why does it bother you that there is one more person she engages in a sexual act with?

The only problem I would have if I knew that she had agreed to be exclusive in a way that precluded cam work and then was doing without their partner's knowledge. However my dislike is due to the model's dishonesty and untrustworthness.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I personally find it difficult to view a model I know is in a relationship, for me it's something strange seeing another man's woman so i'd probably leave if I knew she was not single.

Good grief. If every man on cam sites thought like this, these women would never make any money. Lol. Maybe this is why so many models don't like telling y'all that they have boyfriends or husbands...because of reactions like yours, and them being penalized for it. Y'all do realize the relationship status of a cam model is IRRELEVANT, right? She's not meeting you in person...she's not fucking you in person...it's all VIRTUAL. She may pretend in a private show that she's feenin' for your cock, but that is a performance. How many times must I post on this forum...this isn't Tinder! Maybe I need to make that my new ACF signature or something.....

 

[GraysonDrake]

Good grief. If every man on cam sites thought like this, these women would never make any money. Lol. Maybe this is why so many models don't like telling y'all that they have boyfriends or husbands...because of reactions like yours, and them being penalized for it. Y'all do realize the relationship status of a cam model is IRRELEVANT, right? She's not meeting you in person...she's not fucking you in person...it's all VIRTUAL. She may pretend in a private show that she's feenin' for your cock, but that is a performance.

Exactly. I get super hesitant about talking about my relationships on cam because I don't know who's gonna be a little pissbaby about it and it fucking sucks. Be adults pls.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I have no problem watching another man's woman, another woman's man, another man's man, another woman's woman... other men's men, or other women's women.

There must be something wrong with me

Is porn star legend Peter North somebody's boyfriend or husband? Lol. Because I used to love watching those retro porn scenes with him. What a cutie! And when he did scenes with Black women, I used to be like.....

 

[yummybrownfox]

I don't know who's gonna be a little pissbaby about it and it fucking sucks. Be adults pls.

Like when that one Black guy on MFC said he was disappointed in me for having a White dildo. Lmfao. Well he must've been really butthurt when he found out that my nun blowjob video was with a White guy. LOL. Boy, BYE! You'd better build a bridge and get over it..... I had no idea men on cam sites could be such crybabies.

 

[GraysonDrake]

Like when that one Black guy on MFC said he was disappointed in me for having a White dildo. Lmfao. Well he must've been really butthurt when he found out that my nun blowjob video was with a White guy. LOL. Boy, BYE! You'd better build a bridge and get over it..... I had no idea men on cam sites could be such crybabies.

Oof. Dildo colorism in 2021.....

 

[yummybrownfox]

Oof. Dildo colorism in 2021.....

This was some years ago, but yeah...still ridiculous!

 

[MarieElise]

Is porn star legend Peter North somebody's boyfriend or husband? Lol. Because I used to love watching those retro porn scenes with him. What a cutie! And when he did scenes with Black women, I used to be like.....

I have no idea who Peter North is, but I'm googling him now!

My pet peeve (or one of them) is guys who only just came in my cam room asking if I am single. I'm not, but even if I was, my answer would be the same to the type of guy who asks that of me in that context; "No... and I NEVER will be!". First off a guy that has never spoken to me before, being that desperate as to ask such an intimate and commitment-loaded question, after just looking at me, is immature AF. 2nd it's a CAM site. You are right, guys like that obviously aren't there to use porn at all. Not deep down.

The only way I would find that understandable, is if some affiliate marketer was marketing the site under the guise of a dating site, and that's how that specific person had reached my room.

The best non-confrontational response I've come up with (because we all know usually those types freak TF out at even the hint of rejection) is; "Why, do you wanna get married?".
That way I won't get verbally abused, because they then think leaving my room was their idea, and don't realize I manipulated them into it, because I wanted them out.

It's insane, and exhausting, that there are so many Princesses out there that have to be handled like they are so fragile like that.

 

[Garygoldenballs]

Fucking brutal, OP. I know the feeling because I've gone through something similar in the past

Let me tell you my story, try to put yourself in my shoes here

Just imagine: You are relaxing, watching your favorite cam model. Well, yes they are all your favorite, but this girl...
You have known her since you first signed up for the site 3 years ago.
She somehow became a part of your life.
Your life is so busy with work, on call 24-7, you don't have time for a real relationship.
You may get home, kick your boots off, and your phone is ringing to go back to work. Sometimes, you don't see your bed/home for days.
She was, "convenient". She spent about 10 hours a day broadcasting. Mon thru Wed, she would be on during the day, 6am to 4pm. Thu thru Sat 9pm thru 7am. If her room was full of generous tippers, she would stay on until whenever.
Conversations with her carried over into your regular lives, off camera, via the WhatsApp and Snap. She gave them to you out of the blue one-day saying, "I would like to get to know you a little better."
You can even say you've got a little crush on her.
Due to the amount of distance between you and her, there is no way in hell that anything would really develop into more than just a good, long distance friendship.
A couple of nights ago, you visit her room. There's about 20 good viewers hanging around.
She keeps looking to the side of her room, smiling and talking to someone. Nothing new. She has had friends visit before.
She PMs me to tell me one of her friends is visiting her at work for an hour or 2. Again, nothing new.
When she talks to her friends, or anybody that may pop into her room, she tries to turn her microphone off and on.
A viewer tipped for her to perform dildo/anal party.
She moves to all 4s in the doggy position on the couch, and starts getting her holes lubed up.
Muting the mic, she says something to her friend. Mic back on.
She grabs one of her toys and plays with it on her cl!t and starts to play around other holes.
Then it comes out of nowhere!!!
It is lubed and huge!!
A COCK belonging to a real man.
Not a dildo, not a fuck machine. Some dude.
How should one feel in this situation?
Yes, you guys are friends, thousands of miles away, but in 3 years nothing like this has happened.
Not even a mention of a boyfriend/fu*k boy, anything.
Hell, you've discussed some of your one night adventures, but never nothing anything from her.

Should there be feelings of jealousy, anger, hurt, or just brush it off as another day?

 

[yummybrownfox]

^Deja vu!

 

[rockin_rod]

If you find someone attractive, by appearance or personality - or if lucky, both - how does their relationship status change that?
Simple - it shouldn't. If it does, it means you have some deluded idea that you have a chance with them. Time to take a good hard look at yourself.

 

[NotYou]

^Deja vu!

I got half way through before realising lol.
I think he removed the quotes by accident? I don't know lol.

 

[yummybrownfox]

I got half way through before realising lol.
I think he removed the quotes by accident? I don't know lol.

I was like...wait, why does this goofy shit sound so familiar? Completely forgot it's from the first post. And when I first saw this thread, I thought it'd be about that fetish where guys want the model to crush things...like bugs or something.

 

[MallorieReese]

Going back to the original post, it already lost me at "Just imagine...". Dude, models have to make it a living - you are not entitled, she does not belong to you, it's her job & body, she can do whatever she pleases. This is wrong from so many points of view... not to mention that the fact that you copy-pasted your story twice makes it even worse.

 

[AudriTwo]

Is porn star legend Peter North somebody's boyfriend or husband? Lol. Because I used to love watching those retro porn scenes with him. What a cutie! And when he did scenes with Black women, I used to be like.....

That man can fuck a hole cut into a cantaloupe and I'd still be like "do me like that pls "

 

[GraysonDrake]

I got half way through before realising lol.
I think he removed the quotes by accident? I don't know lol.

Nope. This post has now evolved into a copypasta, if it wasn't one already.

I feel like this one could somehow be combined with the one about the haunted Majora's Mask cartridge....

Honestly though, I understand where OP is coming from.

Let me tell you my story, try to put yourself in my shoes here

Just imagine: You are relaxing, watching your favorite cam model. Well, yes they are all your favorite, but this girl...
You have known her since you first signed up for the site 3 years ago.
She somehow became a part of your life.
Your life is so busy with work, on call 24-7, you don't have time for a real relationship.
You may get home, kick your boots off, and your phone is ringing to go back to work. Sometimes, you don't see your bed/home for days.
She was, "convenient". She spent about 10 hours a day broadcasting. Mon thru Wed, she would be on during the day, 6am to 4pm. Thu thru Sat 9pm thru 7am. If her room was full of generous tippers, she would stay on until whenever.
Conversations with her carried over into your regular lives, off camera, via the WhatsApp and Snap. She gave them to you out of the blue one-day saying, "I would like to get to know you a little better."
You can even say you've got a little crush on her.
Due to the amount of distance between you and her, there is no way in hell that anything would really develop into more than just a good, long distance friendship.
A couple of nights ago, you visit her room. There's about 20 good viewers hanging around.
She keeps looking to the side of her room, smiling and talking to someone. Nothing new. She has had friends visit before.
She PMs me to tell me one of her friends is visiting her at work for an hour or 2. Again, nothing new.
When she talks to her friends, or anybody that may pop into her room, she tries to turn her microphone off and on.
A viewer tipped for her to perform dildo/anal party.
She moves to all 4s in the doggy position on the couch, and starts getting her holes lubed up.
Muting the mic, she says something to her friend. Mic back on.
She grabs one of her toys and plays with it on her cl!t and starts to play around other holes.
Then it comes out of nowhere!!!
It is lubed and huge!!
A COCK belonging to a real man.
Not a dildo, not a fuck machine. Some dude.
How should one feel in this situation?
Yes, you guys are friends, thousands of miles away, but in 3 years nothing like this has happened.
Not even a mention of a boyfriend/fu*k boy, anything.
Hell, you've discussed some of your one night adventures, but never nothing anything from her.

Should there be feelings of jealousy, anger, hurt, or just brush it off as another day?