Are you jealous when you saw another room got a lot tipped ?

[pugpug]

Truthful answer >> YES
If i saw some room did not show much. But people tipped her a lot !!! LoL

 

[ChainsNLace]

We just started and I snoop on other rooms to get ideas and yea I get jelouse when people bring in $$$$$$$ when I know we could do better lol

 

[CatBBW]

Nope. Good luck to her


ETA: I like to think that when I get high tipped, there's my fellow camladies cheering for me in the corner

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I'm just happy for her. If anything it gets me feeling competitive (in a healthy way) to try and figure out a way to get big tips too

Jealousy is a natural human feeling but its' not a healthy one to feed. It wont help you cam better. Jealousy is about your own self esteem.


"If i saw some room did not show much."

Remember that camming is not just about how 'much' you show. There are many MANY ways to fill peoples needs. If people just want to 'see' something they can go to porn sites. Camsites are about interactivity.

All of my highest tips have come from the relationships I've developed with members. It doesn't look like I'm doing / showing much when i get a 5 figure tip but they are usually tipping because of the time and energy i've put into making them happy.

 

[HaileyJade]

Not really. I get excited for other girls. It does make me wanna jump online and cam though! Its motivation.

 

[Emberblaze]

I love hearing about or seeing other models doing well. It inspires me to do better. One of my good friends is a model that makes WAY more than I do and I LOVE hearing about her success. It motivates me to work harder knowing that type of success is possible.

 

[SaffronBurke]

Nah. When I watch shows and models get tipped lots, or they share high tips/bulk sales, I'm like GET THAT MONEY GIRL.

As for "not showing much", getting nekkid is one of many things that a model can make dat moneh from. Some people pay for a fun hangout and conversation. Some pay for nudity and sex acts. Some pay to be told that their dick is tiny and they will never satisfy a woman. Tastes vary sooooo much.

 

[shybuns]

We get super excited when we see it and truthfully it does lead to a sad realization if we don't make that much on our stream but at the same time we only did that when we first started and were watching ~10minutes of popular streams & unpopular streams to see what they were doing right and wrong so we can learn and after we took in all the info we needed we made a new rule to limit watching other models after we finished setting our profile / pricing and how our shows generally go so that we don't compare ourselves to other people and just focus on what we have going.

 

[AudriTwo]

Nope. I want her to give the biggest high five. If you are finding yourself getting bitter at all watching other models' cams, you should probably stop.

 

[xXDollFaceXx]

I'm happy for them and more-so get feelings of admiration or inspiration to do better myself so I can get to that point.

 

[Violet Dawn]

Yes and no. If they started at the same time or after me then yeah. Otherwise no, not really. Even if they started around the same time as I did I eventually figure it's because they work harder than I do, lol.

 

[AJLive]

Not at all! It makes me very happy for her, along with motivating me to work harder to get big tips as well!

 

[SaffronBurke]

Even if they started around the same time as I did I eventually figure it's because they work harder than I do, lol.

Same. I've been camming since 2011, but I'm so inconsistent, I see it as more, "oh, that's what motivation to keep a schedule looks like".

 

[Zana]

I'm always happy for them. But I will admit sometimes the devil on my shoulder is like "why not me bitch". But you have to brush off those feelings and try to be/do better.

 

[H0twife420]

Nah, I'm happy for the high earners! If they're getting it, they're earning it.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Truthful answer >> YES
If i saw some room did not show much. But people tipped her a lot !!! LoL

Good for her for attracting the big spenders ready to make it rain $$$ in her room.

Any model can stare at a screen, and go through the motions of flashing boobs. *shrugs shoulders* This girl probably had a cool-ass personality, and engages with viewers beyond the 'You tip, I flash' routine. And I think it's refreshing to see members tipping models for other things besides just tits/ass/pussy...not that there's anything wrong with that. It's just nice, as a model, to get those occasional "Just because you're awesome" tips with nothing expected in return.

Also, I never could stand the folks who'd witness a big tip, and be like "HOLY SHIT! That definitely deserves a cum show!" *eye roll* Uh...no. That model can do whatever she pleases with those guys' tips, if they were "just because" tips not going towards anything specific.

 

[Magnolia]

Nope. In fact I get all giddy when I see awesome camgals get big tips.

 

[jameslee]

I get jealous of the girls, I must admit. We males mostly get a ton less viewers but I'm actually not sure we get toooo fewer tips from what I've seen. But yeah when you see a big name model with 6000 viewers on 16,000 tokens you do think DAMN! Never seen a dude on that!

 

[Emberblaze]

I get jealous of the girls, I must admit. We males mostly get a ton less viewers but I'm actually not sure we get toooo fewer tips from what I've seen. But yeah when you see a big name model with 6000 viewers on 16,000 tokens you do think DAMN! Never seen a dude on that!

I would see this as not necessarily jealousy towards the model but maybe instead dissatisfaction with sexism within the industry. Camming is one of the few industry's where women are WAY more successful. I would like to see things change where men make just as much but I don't think that will happen until sexism is dead everywhere. Female sexuality is sadly seen as a hot commodity but male sexuality isn't. *Gets back off her feminist soap box*

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

If you have time to be jealous, you have time to be working harder to get those big tips for yourself! Try to turn it into motivation, rather than spending time dwelling/comparing yourself to them.

 

[Gen]

I don't think jealousy is inherently negative or unproductive. Maybe we're all working with different definitions here? When I see a big tip I think "that's awesome" and "I wish someone tipped me that much". The wishing, to me, is jealousy, but it's not maladaptive or negative. It can be inspiring (or sometimes not -- I'm jealous of people who are really fit while also knowing they literally work their butts off and I don't want to). Either way I'd say yes I get a bit jealous while also thinking "fuck yeah, good on ya lady".

 

[SophiaSophia]

I don't think jealousy is inherently negative or unproductive. Maybe we're all working with different definitions here? When I see a big tip I think "that's awesome" and "I wish someone tipped me that much". The wishing, to me, is jealousy, but it's not maladaptive or negative. It can be inspiring (or sometimes not -- I'm jealous of people who are really fit while also knowing they literally work their butts off and I don't want to). Either way I'd say yes I get a bit jealous while also thinking "fuck yeah, good on ya lady".

yeah_ I think it absolutely rocks when someone scores really well
and sorta simultaneously wonder what the magic sauce is- its not negative tho- like, how can I utilize this without ripping it off type thought process

 

[MysticalFires]

Sometimes I am depending on what the model is doing. Some will be doing absolutely nothing and just sitting there. Not even talking.

 

[zoober]

A different slant on chaturbate is the whole grey, blue, purple thing. A guy turns up in a room goes chat chat chat and is a purple but don't tip dick. So he saying, I tip other models plenty, my colour is proof of this, but you? not so much Why I always select light blue as my colour

 

[Brittney Snow]

Sometimes I am depending on what the model is doing. Some will be doing absolutely nothing and just sitting there. Not even talking.

YES I do not understand that at all

 

[Brittney Snow]

Truthful answer >> YES
If i saw some room did not show much. But people tipped her a lot !!! LoL

YESSS!!!
Especially the girls who aren't even showing any skin fully clothed I will stick around and watch people throw money at them wondering what are they doing that I'm not? And I really can't find anything. I do notice though they normally have over 100,000 followers. Which I assume mean they have been doing this for years before it was more mainstream I'm sure they have their regulars who love them

 

[Hereiam]

i didn't read all comments before my but honestly i have to say ... yes and no ... can i call it jealousy ... i mean i want being tip high me too, i would like have 4000-6000-10000 tok night .. but at same time i'm happy for the performer .. maybe she/he cam since years and years and built fan base so they work hard for those tips. I deserve me too ?? Surree lol

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Jealousy is probably the wrong word for my emotion. Jealousy implies that I am upset in some way, or am even bitter about it.

Envy perhaps, yes I definitely get a bit envious of girls who earn a lot, but I also appreciate how well they do and am happy some girls are doing so well. I think "wow, that's so amazing they get tipped so much! I wonder how I could learn from them and maybe improve my room."

I don't think it's worth getting jealous of other girls, you can say "I could do it better", but that's bullshit. What you see in a few sessions is not remotely representative of either that models earnings, or their room. You cannot see any of the backwork they do. They could be uninteresting or quiet in the public chat but amazing in private shows/pm chat and sell great videos. You just do not know. You also need to understand that different people like different things. I have seen so many girls over my 6 years on myfreecams who have gone from lower camscores to high camscore and consistent top 100 or even top 20.
Some girls are lucky in that they are liked by guys with money. Some girls are lucky that they have a popular "look". Some girls are lucky that they have a popular personality type, or enjoy a popular fetish. Some girls are lucky enough to love cams and love all the creative back work that goes into it so they never miss sessions and stay on for long hours entertaining. There is no "I could do better", because they are the best at being who they are. And you can be the best at being who you are.

There is a lot that takes doing well, some of it is luck. Some of it is hard work. Usually it is a mixture of both. There is no point in feeling jealous of this because it will lead to nothing. You cannot be another camgirl. You might as well hate an actress because she's in hollywood when more talented actresses struggle. All you can do is be the best version of yourself and feel motivated and happy that there is success in the cam world.
I used to look at some rooms and wonder how they did it, now I can see pretty quickly why certain girls are doing incredibly well and where I have gone wrong. I have also accepted that I do not have what it takes to be a top model. I think they're awesome for their dedication, but I have no interest in being at that level. I enjoy camming, but it will never be my career. Since realising that, camming has become so much more enjoyable. I guess when you realise that these women are not your competitors, some of them are playing a completely different game, and attract completely different members, it's easier to relax.

My only advise to anyone who is feeling jealousy, is that it has probably happened to all of us at some point in our camming careers, so don't beat yourself up about it. But try to let it go and find whatever it is that makes other girls bother you. Jealousy will not serve you, it may lead to resentment and bitterness which will show when you're on cam.

 

[Mira_xo]

I will be honest in that I do get jealous sometimes -- but it's really only when I'm in a low state or feeling insecure myself. At these times I just choose not to watch other camgirls. I suggest for you to do the same if you get these feelings.

Most of the time I am inspired by other models' success. I see someone get a big tip and I feel awesome for her and feel lucky that we have an industry that those types of donations are possible. Other girls doing well normally gets me really pumped to get on cam and work my shit!

 

[Hereiam]

Jealousy is probably the wrong word for my emotion. Jealousy implies that I am upset in some way, or am even bitter about it.

Envy perhaps, yes I definitely get a bit envious of girls who earn a lot, but I also appreciate how well they do and am happy some girls are doing so well. I think "wow, that's so amazing they get tipped so much! I wonder how I could learn from them and maybe improve my room."

I don't think it's worth getting jealous of other girls, you can say "I could do it better", but that's bullshit. What you see in a few sessions is not remotely representative of either that models earnings, or their room. You cannot see any of the backwork they do. They could be uninteresting or quiet in the public chat but amazing in private shows/pm chat and sell great videos. You just do not know. You also need to understand that different people like different things. I have seen so many girls over my 6 years on myfreecams who have gone from lower camscores to high camscore and consistent top 100 or even top 20.
Some girls are lucky in that they are liked by guys with money. Some girls are lucky that they have a popular "look". Some girls are lucky that they have a popular personality type, or enjoy a popular fetish. Some girls are lucky enough to love cams and love all the creative back work that goes into it so they never miss sessions and stay on for long hours entertaining. There is no "I could do better", because they are the best at being who they are. And you can be the best at being who you are.

There is a lot that takes doing well, some of it is luck. Some of it is hard work. Usually it is a mixture of both. There is no point in feeling jealous of this because it will lead to nothing. You cannot be another camgirl. You might as well hate an actress because she's in hollywood when more talented actresses struggle. All you can do is be the best version of yourself and feel motivated and happy that there is success in the cam world.
I used to look at some rooms and wonder how they did it, now I can see pretty quickly why certain girls are doing incredibly well and where I have gone wrong. I have also accepted that I do not have what it takes to be a top model. I think they're awesome for their dedication, but I have no interest in being at that level. I enjoy camming, but it will never be my career. Since realising that, camming has become so much more enjoyable. I guess when you realise that these women are not your competitors, some of them are playing a completely different game, and attract completely different members, it's easier to relax.

My only advise to anyone who is feeling jealousy, is that it has probably happened to all of us at some point in our camming careers, so don't beat yourself up about it. But try to let it go and find whatever it is that makes other girls bother you. Jealousy will not serve you, it may lead to resentment and bitterness which will show when you're on cam.

i'm french canadian my english are not so good but if i have perfect english i have wrote most of those words ... thank you IsabellaSnow hope other will read this and learn