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Hm... I definitely agree with other girls that I'd rather not know if you can't tip TONIGHT. I don't expect anyone to tip me every time they're in my room. However, if a member who normally tipped me was going to stop or slow down because of financial reasons, I'd appreciate privately knowing that it's because he can't afford it right now and not that he's stopped enjoying my shows/company. I would totally assume I did something wrong otherwise, but maybe I'm just paranoid! It has nothing to do with getting others to tip in his stead.
 
Those dudes who assume you'll give them a deal "because it's a holiday". They get a response of "I'm a scrooge, I don't celebrate anything holidays, not even my own birthday."

Bah. Humbug.
 
SweetSaffron said:
Those dudes who assume you'll give them a deal "because it's a holiday". They get a response of "I'm a scrooge, I don't celebrate anything holidays, not even my own birthday."

Bah. Humbug.
Ha! Alternatively, tell them, "Oh, I'm a Jehovah's Witness, we can't even talk about celebrations."
 
NataliaGrey said:
Hm... I definitely agree with other girls that I'd rather not know if you can't tip TONIGHT. I don't expect anyone to tip me every time they're in my room. However, if a member who normally tipped me was going to stop or slow down because of financial reasons, I'd appreciate privately knowing that it's because he can't afford it right now and not that he's stopped enjoying my shows/company. I would totally assume I did something wrong otherwise, but maybe I'm just paranoid! It has nothing to do with getting others to tip in his stead.

Yes!
I mostly only addressed the issue of a member being finished for that particular night, or just a day or two. Especially if I'm just getting my cam set up, it kind of sets a negative tone for the whole evening since I'm usually already nervous no one will be there.

If it's a long term thing I don't mind a private heads up at all for the reason Natalia pointed out, though I do not personally expect it.
 
Most of mine came from my Chaturbate days. I HATED the idiots who could not grasp the concept of moderator. I've been told more than I cared to hear that I was being a bad mod because I "wasn't promoting the model and trying to get people to tip." (funny, I always thought that moderators were there to moderate the chat...).

I did have some fun with them from time to time though. Every once in a few minutes someone would pop up and say something to the effect of "moderator me" or use a smiley that said something similar. My response was to silence them and say "There, you're moderated, you happy now?"

And then there were the guys who kept asking for information that they could have found sooner if they'd just scrolled down instead of asked. Or the idiots who got upset when the models wouldn't just tell them exactly where they lived.

The absolute worst, though, was the crowd that felt that the prices were too high and started harassing the people who paid for content.

Actually no, the worst were the few guys I came across who would go into a room and start belittling and insulting the model because they feared that she would get too big an ego otherwise.
 
Leon_Omega said:
Most of mine came from my Chaturbate days. I HATED the idiots who could not grasp the concept of moderator. I've been told more than I cared to hear that I was being a bad mod because I "wasn't promoting the model and trying to get people to tip." (funny, I always thought that moderators were there to moderate the chat...).

I did have some fun with them from time to time though. Every once in a few minutes someone would pop up and say something to the effect of "moderator me" or use a smiley that said something similar. My response was to silence them and say "There, you're moderated, you happy now?"

And then there were the guys who kept asking for information that they could have found sooner if they'd just scrolled down instead of asked. Or the idiots who got upset when the models wouldn't just tell them exactly where they lived.

The absolute worst, though, was the crowd that felt that the prices were too high and started harassing the people who paid for content.

Actually no, the worst were the few guys I came across who would go into a room and start belittling and insulting the model because they feared that she would get too big an ego otherwise.

I frequently have people ask if they can be a moderator when there's fewer than 50 people in the room. I think I can handle 35 dudes on my own, especially since only 3 are talking, thanks.
 
JoleneBrody said:
NataliaGrey said:
Hm... I definitely agree with other girls that I'd rather not know if you can't tip TONIGHT. I don't expect anyone to tip me every time they're in my room. However, if a member who normally tipped me was going to stop or slow down because of financial reasons, I'd appreciate privately knowing that it's because he can't afford it right now and not that he's stopped enjoying my shows/company. I would totally assume I did something wrong otherwise, but maybe I'm just paranoid! It has nothing to do with getting others to tip in his stead.

Yes!
I mostly only addressed the issue of a member being finished for that particular night, or just a day or two. Especially if I'm just getting my cam set up, it kind of sets a negative tone for the whole evening since I'm usually already nervous no one will be there.

If it's a long term thing I don't mind a private heads up at all for the reason Natalia pointed out, though I do not personally expect it.

Yeah, telling a model in private is key. Personally, I don't even need to know. It's understandable that many people can't tip every night they're on MFC but here's the most annoying thing to me...

Telling me you are broke in public chat. It starts the "broke train". One person after another saying publicly they are broke and it almost gives the freeloaders an OK to freeload. It changes the vibe of the room and well.. it's annoying.
 
NataliaGrey said:
Hm... I definitely agree with other girls that I'd rather not know if you can't tip TONIGHT. I don't expect anyone to tip me every time they're in my room. However, if a member who normally tipped me was going to stop or slow down because of financial reasons, I'd appreciate privately knowing that it's because he can't afford it right now and not that he's stopped enjoying my shows/company. I would totally assume I did something wrong otherwise, but maybe I'm just paranoid! It has nothing to do with getting others to tip in his stead.

You're probably safe to assume that tips or no, as long as someone is in your room (and has been there a while), they're enjoying your company. At any one time, there's at least a thousand other models whose room a member could be in instead of yours, so really, the only thing keeping them in your room, whether they're currently tipping or not, is that fact that they be digging what you're doing enough to stay :twocents-02cents:
 
AedanRayne said:
JoleneBrody said:
NataliaGrey said:
Hm... I definitely agree with other girls that I'd rather not know if you can't tip TONIGHT. I don't expect anyone to tip me every time they're in my room. However, if a member who normally tipped me was going to stop or slow down because of financial reasons, I'd appreciate privately knowing that it's because he can't afford it right now and not that he's stopped enjoying my shows/company. I would totally assume I did something wrong otherwise, but maybe I'm just paranoid! It has nothing to do with getting others to tip in his stead.

Yes!
I mostly only addressed the issue of a member being finished for that particular night, or just a day or two. Especially if I'm just getting my cam set up, it kind of sets a negative tone for the whole evening since I'm usually already nervous no one will be there.

If it's a long term thing I don't mind a private heads up at all for the reason Natalia pointed out, though I do not personally expect it.

Yeah, telling a model in private is key. Personally, I don't even need to know. It's understandable that many people can't tip every night they're on MFC but here's the most annoying thing to me...

Telling me you are broke in public chat. It starts the "broke train". One person after another saying publicly they are broke and it almost gives the freeloaders an OK to freeload. It changes the vibe of the room and well.. it's annoying.

I have NEVER been able to bring a room back from this. Not even once.
Extreme trolls, arguments between regs, crybabies, a silent room, those are all relatively easy to turn around. As soon as the broke train starts up I just sign out because there is no hope left.
I had it happen last night where people started talking about having to eat "struggle soup" and stale english muffins.
 

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I know I've said this in this thread before but... using my full username. I know you can't possibly be grasping your cock so hard that it cuts off the blood flow to the brain so much you can't use a tiny bit of initiative and pick up on everyone else calling me Jas or JJ, it is so distracting and hard not to laugh when people call me jjasione/jjasi and insist on using it at the end of every sentence.

Especially when people are trying to talk dirty. Nothing dries me out faster. Staaaaahp.
 
Judging someone else's kinks, be it a member's or a model's. Tam it down yo!

The sex industry is enough judged from the outside, but hearing someone else on a camsite that looks down on someone because they perform acts that might be against their own ethical/ moral or whatever reason, I just find it disgraceful and wrong.

Hold your gawdamn tongue and move on, from that sort of chatroom to something that fancy your tickle without putting everyone one else down for their own kinks and quirks. S'ok, your fav model might not want to know you don't fancy anal when she's ready to try that new butt plug she's been eager to try on, or wear that new outfit that's against any simple social norms. It's called a kink for a reason.

Sex is judged enough to the core, no matter the way you are doing it. Hearing that on site that deals with sex primarily, in any form, seems quite silly, pointless, harsh and hypocritical.
 
JJasione said:
I know I've said this in this thread before but... using my full username. I know you can't possibly be grasping your cock so hard that it cuts off the blood flow to the brain so much you can't use a tiny bit of initiative and pick up on everyone else calling me Jas or JJ, it is so distracting and hard not to laugh when people call me jjasione/jjasi and insist on using it at the end of every sentence.

Especially when people are trying to talk dirty. Nothing dries me out faster. Staaaaahp.
For that matter, ending sentences with the person's name in any form is kind of passive aggressive. Like:

1. JJ! I love your new frock!
2. You like wearing frocks like that, don't you, JJ?

No matter the intention, the second example seems to be accusing in some weird, subtle way, and when they end EVERY sentence with your name it gets downright creepy. :)
 
*I get totally weirded out when I see other people called JJ... not that it's a big deal it's just... weird.* :shifty:
 
but it's my half bday

Even worse than begging for your actual birthday! What do you think this is, Wonderland?
 
yossarian said:
JimsX said:
"PM"

"Read my PM babe"

"I sent you a PM honey"

:roll: I'm sure she is perfectly capable of seeing you sent her a PM. If she is not replying, she has a reason, so shut the fuck up

OH GOD. This is my pet peeve. Leave her the fuck alone, she's busy.

Guy did it five times in 5 minutes today. I wanted to punch him through the internet.
 
yossarian said:
JimsX said:
"PM"

"Read my PM babe"

"I sent you a PM honey"

:roll: I'm sure she is perfectly capable of seeing you sent her a PM. If she is not replying, she has a reason, so shut the fuck up

OH GOD. This is my pet peeve. Leave her the fuck alone, she's busy.

Guys on CB seem to LOVE doing this mid-cumshow. Excuse me, but I'm preoccupied with the dildo in my twat. I'll read your four hundred fucking "MMMMM" PM's when I'm done.

Yes, it's usually something that stupid.
 
Dunno if this is the best thread for this, but it is both annoying and hilarious. A model had a topic like 1200 for topless, BUT any tips from her slave would increase the topic.

I left when it was at 1500 and a guy was bitching about how it was all a scam, yet he never tipped. A scam when she clearly states what the topic is and 1 dude is out-tipping 75? :lol:

Funny/annoying how everything is a scam when it does not involve instant nudity.
 
JoleneBrody said:
*I get totally weirded out when I see other people called JJ... not that it's a big deal it's just... weird.* :shifty:

Haha! Before I joined ACF I had absolutely no idea there was another JJ out there and I was super worried you were going to think I copied you :lol: it kinda weirds me out too so I'm kinda glad most just go with Jas nowadays.
 
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JimsX said:
Dunno if this is the best thread for this, but it is both annoying and hilarious. A model had a topic like 1200 for topless, BUT any tips from her slave would increase the topic.

I left when it was at 1500 and a guy was bitching about how it was all a scam, yet he never tipped. A scam when she clearly states what the topic is and 1 dude is out-tipping 75? :lol:

Funny/annoying how everything is a scam when it does not involve instant nudity.


Not being familiar with the model, my first thought would be the "slave" gets a share of the profits somehow. Significant other or studio owner, so that their household or studio is receiving back a portion of whatever they tip. Costing them significantly less than what it costs others users to tip. With models who work in studios, there are many common schemes, scams, or whatever you want to call it, that involve this sort of situation. Fits right in with the scam-like behavior many webcam studios use when signing models up in the first place. :shifty:
 
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