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eclipse76 said:
I don't have snapchat and I don't know how it works, but don't your snapchat customers send you a lot of snap too?
I'd annoy the shit out of you with pictures from my city and food if I had one :mrgreen:


Yeah, I get lots of snaps from guys! That is actually a lot of fun. Food snaps, pet snaps, silly snaps. It's all great! I just don't want them to expect me to have full blown conversations or for me to reply to every snap they send. But sharing parts of your life through snapchat *just because* is so much fun
 
Violet October said:
eclipse76 said:
I don't have snapchat and I don't know how it works, but don't your snapchat customers send you a lot of snap too?
I'd annoy the shit out of you with pictures from my city and food if I had one :mrgreen:


Yeah, I get lots of snaps from guys! That is actually a lot of fun. Food snaps, pet snaps, silly snaps. It's all great! I just don't want them to expect me to have full blown conversations or for me to reply to every snap they send. But sharing parts of your life through snapchat *just because* is so much fun

I just assume that the guys who send pics to models on Snapchat are sending 99% dick pics.
 
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ComicOzzie said:
Violet October said:
eclipse76 said:
I don't have snapchat and I don't know how it works, but don't your snapchat customers send you a lot of snap too?
I'd annoy the shit out of you with pictures from my city and food if I had one :mrgreen:


Yeah, I get lots of snaps from guys! That is actually a lot of fun. Food snaps, pet snaps, silly snaps. It's all great! I just don't want them to expect me to have full blown conversations or for me to reply to every snap they send. But sharing parts of your life through snapchat *just because* is so much fun

I just assume that the guys who send pics to models on Snapchat are sending 99% dick pics.

I would think most models have a dick pic=insta-ban rule, unless they are the rare few that like getting dick pics. I know I would have such a rule, I don't mind nudes, but close ups of genitals (male or female) are just weird to me.
 
Coming in and asking for replacement downloads because they bought a new computer OR reformatted OR whatever and didnt bother to back their files up. Be more responsible with your things dude :woops:

Its an easy enough fix if the video was bought recently/for the exact listed price/they had a tip note or some point of reference I could quickly look up. But if they bought it in a bulk deal/a really long time ago/won it in a game/etc its a giant pain in the ass for the model to figure it out or even verify what video was bought. Especially if they are on cam and trying to pay attention to their chat.

I recently had a member who hadn't tipped me since 2012 ask for a another copy for a video. Of course, he bought a new computer, chucked the old hard drive without backing anything up. The video had long since been retired & deleted, and when I pointed this out to him he asked if he could have my newest (and way pricier) b/g video to replace it. Errrr no?!

If I bought a Tshirt two years ago, and then accidentally chucked it in the garbage bag instead of the laundry bag I wouldn't go into the shop and ask them for a new one. :banghead:
 
Jessi said:
Coming in and asking for replacement downloads because they bought a new computer OR reformatted OR whatever and didnt bother to back their files up. Be more responsible with your things dude :woops:

Also good advice for models. I've lost track of how many times I've heard of a laptop dying (often from 'liquids' getting on it) and all the models vids have been lost. It's your business, be professional and have a backup of some sorts.
 
JerryBoBerry said:
Jessi said:
Coming in and asking for replacement downloads because they bought a new computer OR reformatted OR whatever and didnt bother to back their files up. Be more responsible with your things dude :woops:

Also good advice for models. I've lost track of how many times I've heard of a laptop dying (often from 'liquids' getting on it) and all the models vids have been lost. It's your business, be professional and have a backup of some sorts.

My own smut, as well as all the smut I've bought, is saved on an external hard drive that a friend recommended when I bought my laptop. I think it was about $75? $100? Not a bad investment if you buy OR make a lot of content. Having an external hard drive is beneficial for multiple reasons:

*Snoopy friends/relatives/etc who use my computer can't find anything I don't want them to see
*If my computer dies, I still have my stuff
*I can upload from any computer
 
SweetSaffron said:
JerryBoBerry said:
Jessi said:
Coming in and asking for replacement downloads because they bought a new computer OR reformatted OR whatever and didnt bother to back their files up. Be more responsible with your things dude :woops:

Also good advice for models. I've lost track of how many times I've heard of a laptop dying (often from 'liquids' getting on it) and all the models vids have been lost. It's your business, be professional and have a backup of some sorts.

My own smut, as well as all the smut I've bought, is saved on an external hard drive that a friend recommended when I bought my laptop. I think it was about $75? $100? Not a bad investment if you buy OR make a lot of content. Having an external hard drive is beneficial for multiple reasons:

*Snoopy friends/relatives/etc who use my computer can't find anything I don't want them to see
*If my computer dies, I still have my stuff
*I can upload from any computer

I have two. I accidentally dropped one yesterday and lost everything on it. :( Luckily, it wasn't anything vital, but still... (winces).

I was laughing as I read Jessi's post though, because I did have some purchased MFC videos on it but it didn't even occur to me to bother the models about it. If I bothered people to replace everything I've broken because I'm a klutz...
 
JerryBoBerry said:
Jessi said:
Coming in and asking for replacement downloads because they bought a new computer OR reformatted OR whatever and didnt bother to back their files up. Be more responsible with your things dude :woops:

Also good advice for models. I've lost track of how many times I've heard of a laptop dying (often from 'liquids' getting on it) and all the models vids have been lost. It's your business, be professional and have a backup of some sorts.

I actually have sippy cups I use if I'm not using a water bottle. I've killed one too many laptops because of clumsiness :lol:
I haven't actually used them while camming though, because I don't want an increase in Daddy role play requests.

Which leads me to my addition to the actual topic, I don't mind it when someone asks about them, because most times they are very polite about it, but when I say I don't do Daddy role plays, it's not code for "ask me another 10 times and I might say yes."
 
So today I had a fun one. There's a guy who's been coming in pretty regularly (fatandsmall) makes comments every now and then, but has never tipped. I was bored today and I got a snapchat from a regular saying he was going to be on soon, and was hoping to see me. I was super excited because I had finally gotten my xbox set up again at home, and was getting to play my "Alice: Madness Returns" game that another member gifted me with recently for the first time. I decided, "Why not get on, and play my game naked while i'm waiting for some people to enter my room?" Well, they actually liked it, for some reason haha.

Well today that member (aka trollll) decided to start the conversation:
"Do your hair like in your picture."
me: "My picture? Oh curly? Maybe tomorrow!"
troll: "You're pregnant."
Me: *furiously playing my new game*
troll: "Your ***notice bad grammar hahaha*** pregnant."
Another member: "Hunter's preggo?"
By this time a few members have commented,
me: "I'm definitely NOT pregnant guys, come on. Y'all know I haven't had sex lately."
troll: "YOUR A VIRGIN!!!!"
Members rumbling: She's a virgin? Hunter's a virgin? Have you NEVER had sex?!
Me: "Guys, I'm not a virgin, and i'm not pregnant. I've had my period since the last time I had sex."
-Side note: I know I should've banned him sooner, and I clearly have no idea why I hadn't, but this all happened SUPER fast as well.
Troll: WHORE
your a whore
whoreeee

*BLOCK!*

I ended up getting off after that to take a 5-10min break. I just found it super annoying that none of the members had said anything to this guy, once he started calling me a whore. -_- I was like, "thanks guys, thanksssss. Be back soonnnn. Peacee."

I've had trolls before, but this is the first time that i've had to deal with the members being openly engaged with the troll. Super annoying.
 
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LilMissMalice said:
JerryBoBerry said:
Jessi said:
Coming in and asking for replacement downloads because they bought a new computer OR reformatted OR whatever and didnt bother to back their files up. Be more responsible with your things dude :woops:

Also good advice for models. I've lost track of how many times I've heard of a laptop dying (often from 'liquids' getting on it) and all the models vids have been lost. It's your business, be professional and have a backup of some sorts.

I actually have sippy cups I use if I'm not using a water bottle. I've killed one too many laptops because of clumsiness :lol:
I haven't actually used them while camming though, because I don't want an increase in Daddy role play requests.

Which leads me to my addition to the actual topic, I don't mind it when someone asks about them, because most times they are very polite about it, but when I say I don't do Daddy role plays, it's not code for "ask me another 10 times and I might say yes."

I love using sippy cups. I spill everything everywhere and it's so annoying. I'm on the level of my little cousins haha.

I don't know what's been up these past few days, but I have gotten the most "daddy/daughter", "brother/sister", "incest", "fiances younger sister" requests ever.
 
[quote="xoxoHunter"
I ended up getting ff after that to take a 5-10min break. I just found it super annoying that none of the members had said anything to this guy, once he started calling me a whore. -_- I was like, "thanks guys, thanksssss. Be back soonnnn. Peacee."

I've had trolls before, but this is the first time that i've had to deal with the members being openly engaged with the troll. Super annoying.[/quote]

To be fair, it's hard to know what to do in circumstances like this. Usually, the model bans the guy right away, but when she doesn't, it's sometimes hard to know if you should feed the troll (i.e. call him out) or just ignore him. In your case, it sounds like you had a bunch of bozos in your room who believed what he said, but I've been in rooms where the models prefer to fight their own battles and get annoyed when members try to defend them. Plus, it fucks up the room dynamic when everyone starts responding to the troll. I think the best practice in the future is to just ban them at the first sign of trolldom.
 
yossarian said:
[quote="xoxoHunter"
I ended up getting ff after that to take a 5-10min break. I just found it super annoying that none of the members had said anything to this guy, once he started calling me a whore. -_- I was like, "thanks guys, thanksssss. Be back soonnnn. Peacee."

I've had trolls before, but this is the first time that i've had to deal with the members being openly engaged with the troll. Super annoying.

To be fair, it's hard to know what to do in circumstances like this. Usually, the model bans the guy right away, but when she doesn't, it's sometimes hard to know if you should feed the troll (i.e. call him out) or just ignore him. In your case, it sounds like you had a bunch of bozos in your room who believed what he said, but I've been in rooms where the models prefer to fight their own battles and get annoyed when members try to defend them. Plus, it fucks up the room dynamic when everyone starts responding to the troll. I think the best practice in the future is to just ban them at the first sign of trolldom.[/quote]

Yeah :) Thanks for the advice. I don't know why I hadn't that day. Probably because he had been in there often, but never again. haha
 
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xoxoHunter said:
troll: "You're pregnant."

I do hate how often people throw this out there.
Any time ANYTHING happens there's always gotta be someone who plays that card. If I mention I'm dizzy- PREGNANT, that I've been craving pepperoni all day- PREGNANT, that my boobs are getting bigger- PREGNANT.
Uhhh no it's just my birth control but thanks for the diagnosis, I wasn't aware I had a gaggle of failed obstetricians in here. :roll:
 
NoelleBright said:
xoxoHunter said:
troll: "You're pregnant."

I do hate how often people throw this out there.
Any time ANYTHING happens there's always gotta be someone who plays that card. If I mention I'm dizzy- PREGNANT, that I've been craving pepperoni all day- PREGNANT, that my boobs are getting bigger- PREGNANT.
Uhhh no it's just my birth control but thanks for the diagnosis, I wasn't aware I had a gaggle of failed obstetricians in here. :roll:

PREGNANT...
 
xoxoHunter said:
I just found it super annoying that none of the members had said anything to this guy, once he started calling me a whore. -_- I was like, "thanks guys, thanksssss. Be back soonnnn. Peacee."

I would not have replied to a troll calling a model a whore either, most of what trolls say has no real value in my mind and tends to get ignored. I would probably be much more upset if it was a member the model liked saying it, I do not like betrayals of trust.
 
Shaun__ said:
xoxoHunter said:
I just found it super annoying that none of the members had said anything to this guy, once he started calling me a whore. -_- I was like, "thanks guys, thanksssss. Be back soonnnn. Peacee."

I would not have replied to a troll calling a model a whore either, most of what trolls say has no real value in my mind and tends to get ignored. I would probably be much more upset if it was a member the model liked saying it, I do not like betrayals of trust.
Yeah, IMO nothing can ruin the vibe of a room faster than a member fight. Most intelligent members know it's best not to engage and allow you to just ban without derailing the room.

Members jumping on a troll is so much more of a buzz kill than a troll... unless of course you let him hang out too long.
 
DuoShi said:
NoelleBright said:
xoxoHunter said:
troll: "You're pregnant."

I do hate how often people throw this out there.
Any time ANYTHING happens there's always gotta be someone who plays that card. If I mention I'm dizzy- PREGNANT, that I've been craving pepperoni all day- PREGNANT, that my boobs are getting bigger- PREGNANT.
Uhhh no it's just my birth control but thanks for the diagnosis, I wasn't aware I had a gaggle of failed obstetricians in here. :roll:

PREGNANT...
:whistle: I have only EVER said that to one model, and it's a bit of an inside joke. She knows I was kidding and making fun of the trolls. :dance:
 
NoelleBright said:
xoxoHunter said:
troll: "You're pregnant."

I do hate how often people throw this out there.
Any time ANYTHING happens there's always gotta be someone who plays that card. If I mention I'm dizzy- PREGNANT, that I've been craving pepperoni all day- PREGNANT, that my boobs are getting bigger- PREGNANT.
Uhhh no it's just my birth control but thanks for the diagnosis, I wasn't aware I had a gaggle of failed obstetricians in here. :roll:
You're getting *awfully* worked up over this. Hormones can do that. Are you sure you're not just a little bit, you know...
 
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random grey (after a more electronic song came up): change song back to rock
me: i could change the song but since you spoke to me like I was Siri I'm not going to
the same dude then said something like this: oh then ill have no choice but to have dirty thoughts about you since you have shitty music ;)
me: ok good luck with that attitude, im not having it here *bans*

like that entitled douche wasnt having dirty thoughts beforehand xD and since when is that an effective threat? Watch out, he's going to have dirty thoughts about you, he might even touch himself! Quickly, get your umbrellas!
 
Randomly throwing fake "topics" into the chat.
I was watching a library show for a bit where there was another girl in the background, and within one minute, there was a guy saying "10000 she gets to finger you lol" and another one saying "1000 tokens to kiss th blonde".

What are they doing? Are they offering to tip those amounts? Are they suggesting that she use that as a topic? Are they trying to convince other members that that's the topic when it's actually not the current topic at all? :woops:
 
If you're a regular visitor of a model and she's having a slow period(weeks or more with little/no tokens), don't take it upon yourself to yell at the room for not tipping especially if you haven't tipped at all that night.

I get that it's frustrating and you want to see your favorite model happy and rolling in tokens, but you are only chasing her potential business away.

Basically developing White Knight Syndrome. My regs are skint, and slowly turning into White Knights. I'm frustrated about the slowness too but I haven't gotten to the point of yelling at members. That solves nothing.
 
mynameisbob84 said:
Guest06790: you have a ton of earning potential..just need to learn some of the top tricks/moves and ch-ching!
Guest06790: I made top ten 4 times cause I learned from an awesome top cammer...

Shit like this... :? :?
Sounds like that belongs in the "annoying things models do" thread.
 
LilyMarie said:
Randomly throwing fake "topics" into the chat.
I was watching a library show for a bit where there was another girl in the background, and within one minute, there was a guy saying "10000 she gets to finger you lol" and another one saying "1000 tokens to kiss th blonde".

What are they doing? Are they offering to tip those amounts? Are they suggesting that she use that as a topic? Are they trying to convince other members that that's the topic when it's actually not the current topic at all? :woops:


Awwww, I have done things like that as a joke. I always assumed the model could read my mind. Now I feel bad. :crybaby:
 
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I have a few things that I cannot stand:

1. I generally prefer Asian models, so this a specific one. A few times a day some douchetaco will come into the room and say "Hey bb, ever fucked a white man before?" ... "Hey bb, I bet you wanna try a real dick, not a tiny Asian one (nothing like some old-fashioned racial stereotyping to turn a woman on :woops: )" ... "Hey bb, wanna come to America? I will support you and you will be able to quit this job." (Saw this the other day in a Filpina model's room, ever after she said 3 times she is happy in the Philippines and has no intention of leaving. But of course if she does not live in the States she must be miserable).

2. Similar to #1. "Oh bb you are so hot! Can I take you out when I am in Manila, Tokyo, Seoul ... ?"

3. Room pimps. Two models I like are friends and usually cam at the same time (on different cams). One idiot is in both rooms all the time saying, "Wow! Those are the best nipples! We should all tip them guys!" ... "Wow! Two groups? I hope my computer can handle both!" etc.....This annoys the SHIT out of me and I am sure many other guys. But I never know how to handle it beyond ignoring the fool. I do wonder if he causes the models to lose tips.

4 a. Guys who pm me to bitch about a model. Last summer I came home drunk and proceeded to make a complete ass of myself on mfc. The model banned me for a day, which I totally deserved. But then another guy started pming me to complain that she never gets naked in public, she is a bitch, etc. I think I confused him when I defended the model who had just banned me. Eventually he stopped.

4 b. Guys who complain about models in general. "She will never be your real friend. She pretends to like you for your money. These bitches are only interested in cash. They will never meet you." And when I pointed out that I have become real friends with a model and chat with her for hours a without any expectations, he says "Just wait for it. She will ask for money and then break your heart." Ummmm.....wot?

And finally, the worst of all ...

5. Assholes who tell me to tip. One of my favourite Filipina models has a prem who loves to lurk in other Filipinas' rooms and then report to all of them (as a guest), "Jim is in ****'s room and *******'s room and tipping in none." At one point he even asked "Does Jim ever tip" in one of his own tipnotes. He drove away one model's prems and then fucked off himself. And he is doing it to another model as I speak. But she won't ban him, even though she knows he is doing it, because right now he is tipping. Sad, and incredible cunty of him.

He also likes to brag about his reward points and how much he helps models, including sending them cash. Stupid fucker actually says that in public chat. *facepalm
 
Annoying things members do - Whine about not tipping.

One of my favourite models has a prem who lately has only shown up as guest (she allows guest chat). Every damn day this jackass guest will say "Mind if I freeload for a while?" Now this model is generally only topless (full nude maybe twice since I met her a year ago) and even then for just a couple minutes after a tip. So there is little to freeload. He cannot pm her and he never participates in the room chat, though he might randomly say, "Sorry I am such a loser freeloader! :crybaby: ) :roll:

The way I see it is he is just an attention whore and needs acceptance of his non-tipping status. I mean fuck, why ask? you are a GUEST! She would never know you are "freeloading!" Honestly I have no idea why she even responds to him.

Anyway ... I hate that guy.
 
JimsX said:
Annoying things members do - Whine about not tipping.

One of my favourite models has a prem who lately has only shown up as guest (she allows guest chat). Every damn day this jackass guest will say "Mind if I freeload for a while?" Now this model is generally only topless (full nude maybe twice since I met her a year ago) and even then for just a couple minutes after a tip. So there is little to freeload. He cannot pm her and he never participates in the room chat, though he might randomly say, "Sorry I am such a loser freeloader! :crybaby: ) :roll:

The way I see it is he is just an attention whore and needs acceptance of his non-tipping status. I mean fuck, why ask? you are a GUEST! She would never know you are "freeloading!" Honestly I have no idea why she even responds to him.

Anyway ... I hate that guy.


When members constantly apologize for not tipping and mention how bad they feel and bring it up over and over again.
Yes, thank you, I noticed the lack of tipping, no need to rub it in my face.
Its like they expect the model to go awww thats okay sweetie! and validate them. ugh, no :roll:
 
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