Why do members insist on being your room helper and giving advice?

[AutumnDayKink]

, I may not have expressed that clearly. I receive "1 more for group" private messages from performers every few minutes. I'm always happy to start the shows for them, but if I'm playing Room Helper at the time, it means I need to turn my attention elsewhere for a few moments.

Let me guess, you pop into the group show for two minutes and then bail, getting the model only a few nickels from you.

 

[WickedTouch]

[QUOTE="EmmEffCee, post: 723925, member: 17248"
My MFC screen name was EmmEffCee when I joined this forum a few years ago, but I've since changed it to Nabi_for_Doki. I freely invite any and all of you to check out my profile page, where you'll see a lot of notes about removal of pirated video and over a hundred comments from grateful performers.[/QUOTE]

Ah... the infamous Nabi_for_Doki. I have personally witnessed your embarrassingly feeble attempts at being a room helper on several occasions and the kindest thing I can say is that your performance is truly woeful.

 

[EmmEffCee]

For the record, I have never used free chat to ask a performer to make me Room Helper, and I would never reveal myself as Room Helper to another member, basic or guest. Not sure why Wicked would post something like that, unless I chastised him for acting like an a**hole in free chat.

 

[EmmEffCee]

Let me guess, you pop into the group show for two minutes and then bail, getting the model only a few nickels from you.

You're not entirely incorrect, Autumn. However, I make it very clear to the model ahead of time that I'm only starting group for her and then getting out so I can help the next model. Also, I always ask the model in advance if she wants help, so it's entirely her choice. Please don't mistake me for some wealthy philanthropist, because I guarantee that I'll earn a less than you this year.

 

[WickedTouch]

I see you don't take criticism well... but you did out yourself as someone who is a room helper...

Truthfully, being Room Helper is a bit of an annoyance, because it means I really need to focus on one room while monitoring quite a few "1 more for group" messages from performers.

It goes with the territory... if you are good at what you do then no one would notice your presence. When you screw up... everyone notices. A true room helper should be both helpful and unobtrusive, carrying out his/her tasks seamlessly in the background. The idea being to assist the model with the workload. Sadly, you are often observed as being a barrier between each model you visit/help and the members in her room. The end result being that annoyed members tip less... not more. That is a fail. A big fat fail.

oh and FYI... I will have been an MFC member for 6 years this April... and still have never been banned in any room. Guess maybe I'm not an a**hole like some huh?

 

[EmmEffCee]

That's not really an answer, Wicked. Seems like you got caught in a lie, and now you're doing your best to change the subject. We're all waiting to hear about my " embarrassingly feeble attempts at being a room helper on several occasions," so check your chat logs and post an example of me asking in free chat to be a Room Helper or revealing myself as the Room Helper to others in the room. Take a day or two to do your research, and when you can't find anything, come back and admit that you're just running your mouth.

There are plenty of real issues to discuss here. No need to make stuff up.

 

[WickedTouch]

That's not really an answer, Wicked. Seems like you got caught in a lie, and now you're doing your best to change the subject. We're all waiting to hear about my " embarrassingly feeble attempts at being a room helper on several occasions," so check your chat logs and post an example of me asking in free chat to be a Room Helper or revealing myself as the Room Helper to others in the room. Take a day or two to do your research, and when you can't find anything, come back and admit that you're just running your mouth.

There are plenty of real issues to discuss here. No need to make stuff up.

Lying! Tut-tut! Aww bless... I messed up... I should have said "self appointed" room helper. Silly me. I should have known. My bad.

Oh and just for the record, I did find your profile to be informative and helpful to the models, but your room performance is exactly as specified... woeful!

 

[curvyredhead]

irony

 

[SaffronBurke]

Getting caught being a webcam performer can lead to social ostracism from friends, boyfriends and family;

You act like this is a concern only in certain regions of the world, but there are exactly zero countries where it's socially acceptable to be in sex work. In the US, they'll fire a teacher when they discover that she was in porn over a decade ago, or stripped her way through college. There are plenty of models on this forum who no longer associate with family due to their attitude toward this line of work. Due to the purposely vague laws regarding "obscenity", camming can fall under the umbrella of prostitution if local law enforcement decides to read the laws that way - my state considers prostitution to be the stimulation of the genitals, of oneself or another person, for encitement of pleasure for the purpose of monetary gain, meaning that yes, even masturbating is under the prostitution umbrella and can lead to arrest.

 

[yummybrownfox]

You're not entirely incorrect, Autumn. However, I make it very clear to the model ahead of time that I'm only starting group for her and then getting out so I can help the next model. Also, I always ask the model in advance if she wants help, so it's entirely her choice.

Out of curiosity, do you find a lot of MFC members referring to you as a "white knight?" Even though I feel like some members are unfairly labeled 'white knights', I must say that your posts scream WHITE KNIGHT.

 

[SweetAlice3]

Okay so it isn't the same guy I've had issues with, which honestly sucks because that means there are a plethora of members trying to take advantage of new girls, which I guess isn't too surprising? But still sucks.

I know why it is not the same guy - I figured it out - It's because I'm caribbean and the guy that harassed me is latino. Your guy must be an american -so you see, there are room helper trollers everywhere

 

[SweetAlice3]

Yeah, because I keep wondering if you're talking about the guy I met as a new model but I can't say the name out here. I feel like mine totally screwed up my new model status with his advice.

Ana the guy who trolled me is latino, spanish is my first language -I'm caribbean

 

[lumifits]

I commonly get the "Can I be a room helper?"

Fool, I don't even have like 10 people in my room right now, sit down!

XD

 

[justjoinedtopost]

However, I make it very clear to the model ahead of time that I'm only starting group for her and then getting out so I can help the next model.

It is not unheard of for a member to approach a model with several accounts at the same time, start a group, then drop out with all but one to see if she's the type that will keep going. Not sure if it fits the definition of a scam, but it is in the same spirit.

And you offer this as a service to models? Then you move on to the next model in need? Remarkable.

 

[FairyNymph]

So the guy I had originally wrote this post about took advantage of my model friend, hacked her account, and deleted all of her graphics on her profile when she said she didn't want to have sex with him. So very glad I did not engage with him much.

 

[TacoBelle]

So the guy I had originally wrote this post about took advantage of my model friend, hacked her account, and deleted all of her graphics on her profile when she said she didn't want to have sex with him. So very glad I did not engage with him much.

How did he 'hack her account?' How did he find/know her password, and how do you know that it was him?

 

[sexyvanessa4u]

I always get grays on CB asking to be my moderator, which is like a room helper on MFC. I always tell them I don't need one, and if I did select one, it would be someone who was a regular tipper. It's their way of trying to get special attention from you without having to tip.

 

[AmberCutie]

The true answer to the question, it seems: to get on cam with them and have sex for tokens!

 

[Mikey_P]

I always find room helper dudes annoying. Most remind me of hall monitors and those kids growing up who sucked up to teachers and other adults.

 

[Tomtom197]

I feel the room helper should be exactly that and be a help to the model. The model needs to feel like who ever is helping will represent the model as if she was doing the topics and banning herself. So constantly changing a topic or taking a comment only meant for chat and putting it in the topic as a joke comes across as trying to control the room. Then it makes you wonder who is in control the room helper or the model.

 

[Tomtom197]

I need to clarify the room helper changing the topic. If they have a plan with the model and the model is telling them when to change the topic. This is how it should work. I have seen this work in a couple of the top MFC models rooms. It lets the room know she is in charge and not the room helper.

 

[EllieGeorge]

Thank you FairyNymph for this post. I had a negative experience as a new model during my first week. I got trolled. I was stupid because this Premium member convinced me he works helping models -I gave him a skype show for free and he put me in the Lounge area that day, but ever since he keeps stalking me on skype and mfc and telling me what to do. He also told me that he wants to book an airplane ticket for me.. obviously interested in sex - I told him a big "NOOO" -now every time I get to my room hes there stalking and I think I'm blocking him.. Girls, help me please... I've been very naive, trolled and stupid

is it icewater? sounds like Icewater to me

 

[Bandog]

I'm really not sure why anyone would want to be a room helper. I know I never want to be one. Way too much hassle.

 

[TacoBelle]

is it icewater? sounds like Icewater to me

Are you saying a member's name? Or a model's name? Cause it's kinda frowned-upon to gossip/name names here on the forum unless in very rare specific instances (like a model/member hurting another human, engaging in beastiality, incest, or pedophilia). Anyway, when someone posts a non-specific accusation about someone without saying to whom they're referring, it's a general rule not to question if it's a specific person. Reason being: A) it IS that person, but the poster wasn't trying to point fingers or name names, B) the publicity could help encourage the bad behavior from that specific person, or C) it is NOT that person, but now the one that was questionably accused has a bad rep to their name.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything. I just know that you're kinda new to the forum, so you might not know all of these unspoken rules yet.

 

[EllieGeorge]

Are you saying a member's name? Or a model's name? Cause it's kinda frowned-upon to gossip/name names here on the forum unless in very rare specific instances (like a model/member hurting another human, engaging in beastiality, incest, or pedophilia). Anyway, when someone posts a non-specific accusation about someone without saying to whom they're referring, it's a general rule not to question if it's a specific person. Reason being: A) it IS that person, but the poster wasn't trying to point fingers or name names, B) the publicity could help encourage the bad behavior from that specific person, or C) it is NOT that person, but now the one that was questionably accused has a bad rep to their name.

I'm not trying to be mean or anything. I just know that you're kinda new to the forum, so you might not know all of these unspoken rules yet.

Thanks! I'll delete it. He's just a very harrassing and stalker-y member.

 

[EllieGeorge]

Is there a way to edit my reply? Let me know so I can take it off

 

[Nordling]

Personally, I think stalkerish harassers should be called out by name. That behavior does hurt other people.

 

[Mikey_P]

With Charles_Bot or whatever it is called, why do models need room helpers?

 

[AutumnDayKink]

With Charles_Bot or whatever it is called, why do models need room helpers?

CharlesBot is helpful for games and rotating announcements, but there are some things that it can't do that a person could help with. For example, if a model is running a busy room and owes 5 or 6 people flashes or games or videos, a room helper who's on top of his or her game can help keep the model on top of her queue and make sure no one gets left out.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Personally, I think stalkerish harassers should be called out by name. That behavior does hurt other people.

Plus this is in the public section where anyone can see the post and defend themselves. If I'm remembering correctly, blacklisting in the MO is the biggest No-No (despite certain major issues) because the members can not see the post or defend themselves?