Im bringing a different perspective, which was my first intial thoughts after reading the topic. Im not a cam model, I dont tip to see cam shows (never plan to), and its actually pretty rare that I even strike up conversation with anyone. I guess Im more in the rooms out of curiosity... that has lasted years.
I feel that the people who want to be mods (thats what theyre called on chaturbate, Im not too familiar with the other sites) are reaching out more for a connection with the cam model. They want to feel like they are helping her and are creating a friendship. They also like the idea of having authority over the other members in the chat.
I know you probably get a lot of experience with a lot of sexually frustrated people who do come off way too aggressive. Sometimes I wonder if thats our own minds basing that off of past experiences. Its hard sometimes to determine the tone and mood by text. Im not saying there are not assholes out there... Im sure there are a good amount of trolls just like any other online community. I would assume a lot of them dont mean any real offense, initially, and are simply socially retarded.