Why a camgirl can give me her number but doesn't want to have show with me?

[maskpull]

Hello,
I met a camgirl since long time ago.
Before we often have shows , actually in those shows we often talk, but sometimes I want to see her naked and she did but she said she doesn't like.
I thought we have something like a friendship.
Recently she give me her mail and then her number, but when I want to see her naked, she became angry and said I was crazy, she didn't want do it.
Anyone can explain why she did that.

 

[Serenity_Tam]

Sooo...

She said she doesn't like to get naked.

You ask her again.

She gets mad.

Totally unreasonable for her to be mad with you attempting to push her boundaries like that. How dare she. God damn camgirls should always get naked and do what you want regardless of their desires or boundaries.


Seriously though. I would probably also get irritated with someone who was asking things to push my boundaries after I already told them no. It is usually considered pretty rude, like you are disregarding our feelings when you ask us something repeatedly when we say no. It is like what we say doesn't matter, and you aren't hearing us. I can understand the frustration. When someone says no in future, or they don't do or like something, believe them and respect them by not asking again and pushing their boundaries.

 

[Guy]

Hello,
I met a camgirl since long time ago.
Before we often have shows , actually in those shows we often talk, but sometimes I want to see her naked and she did but she said she doesn't like.
I thought we have something like a friendship.
Recently she give me her mail and then her number, but when I want to see her naked, she became angry and said I was crazy, she didn't want do it.
Anyone can explain why she did that.

If you don't like non-nude, go find a different model to watch. Tell your friend politely that your not into non-nude and that your not interested in watching her because of that. She will understand.

 

[maskpull]

Sooo...

She said she doesn't like to get naked.

You ask her again.

She gets mad.

Totally unreasonable for her to be mad with you attempting to push her boundaries like that. How dare she. God damn camgirls should always get naked and do what you want regardless of their desires or boundaries.


Seriously though. I would probably also get irritated with someone who was asking things to push my boundaries after I already told them no. It is usually considered pretty rude, like you are disregarding our feelings when you ask us something repeatedly when we say no. It is like what we say doesn't matter, and you aren't hearing us. I can understand the frustration. When someone says no in future, or they don't do or like something, believe them and respect them by not asking again and pushing their boundaries.

 

[maskpull]

I just don't understand why she doesn't want to be naked for me.
She do it with all her member.
And if she doesn't like me why she gave me her number

 

[Serenity_Tam]

I just don't understand why she doesn't want to be naked for me.
She do it with all her member.
And if she doesn't like me why she gave me her number

There doesn't need to be a reason, nor does she owe you or anyone an explanation. Perhaps she just doesn't feel comfortable getting naked with you. It really doesn't matter. She doesn't have to justify her "no" for you to understand she doesn't want to do a thing.

Want someone naked? Move on and find someone who wants to be naked for you instead of trying to pressure someone into it.

 

[maskpull]

There doesn't need to be a reason, nor does she owe you or anyone an explanation. Perhaps she just doesn't feel comfortable getting naked with you. It really doesn't matter. She doesn't have to justify her "no" for you to understand she doesn't want to do a thing.

Want someone naked? Move on and find someone who wants to be naked for you instead of trying to pressure someone into it.

She is the girl I love.
The thing make me sad isn't that she doesn't want to be naked, but it is the question why she doesn't feel comfortable, what is wrong in me.
Is there anyway for me to find the answer

 

[CompanionCube]

Isn't there a thread/FAQ for 'members in love' to link to?
Like a nice way to tell someone that camming is not real life?

 

[FedoraFan]

It sounds like you're trying to get closer to this model than what she is comfortable with. If you have serious feelings for a camgirl you should probably take a step back and realize that she is almost certainly not thinking the same thing.

 

[Phoenix4987]

She's the boss. She does what she wants. You're free to do the same. And by that I mean find one of the many other camgirls who will give you a show and stop trying to control this girl with money to do what you want her to do.

 

[alexa_voltage]

If you loved her you wouldnt pressure her into doing something shes not comfortable with.

Just sayin

 

[Nordling]

And as far as her reason... you say you're friends. Maybe she doesn't mind getting naked for strangers...it's the job... but if you and her are in the "Friend Zone," she may not feel comfortable getting naked in front of friends.

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

She is the girl I love.

Oh snap

 

[MojitosJourney]

Isn't there a thread/FAQ for 'members in love' to link to?
Like a nice way to tell someone that camming is not real life?

If there isn't, I'm kind of tempted to write one.

 

[MojitosJourney]

Found something...

So, You're in Love with a Cam Model

 

[maskpull]

And as far as her reason... you say you're friends. Maybe she doesn't mind getting naked for strangers...it's the job... but if you and her are in the "Friend Zone," she may not feel comfortable getting naked in front of friends.

But she still get naked for some guys she call friends,who she often gave them her mail.
I often offer her show for the cheapest cost.
Maybe it is the reason?

 

[JickyJuly]

This thread could EASILY be turned into a college course on patriarchy and dude entitlement.

 

[maskpull]

Found something...

So, You're in Love with a Cam Model

I knew this thread when I first cam to ACF, the first reason when I went there is to find an answer for the Romanian girl i loved.
And I still love her after 2 years.

 

[MojitosJourney]

But she still get naked for some guys she call friends,who she often gave them her mail.
I often offer her show for the cheapest cost.
Maybe it is the reason?

What do you mean you offer her show for the cheapest cost? You pay what she is asking, or less than what she is asking for a show?

 

[maskpull]

What do you mean you offer her show for the cheapest cost? You pay what she is asking, or less than what she is asking for a show?

She often makes offer for me to have show with her at the lowest cost. But we often talk only in those show, some time she get naked, but she doesn't want to be naked now.

 

[Guy]

She often makes offer for me to have show with her at the lowest cost. But we often talk only in those show, some time she get naked, but she doesn't want to be naked now.

Sounds like she's gone non-nude.

 

[MojitosJourney]

She often makes offer for me to have show with her at the lowest cost. But we often talk only in those show, some time she get naked, but she doesn't want to be naked now.

Ah. So she is giving you a conversation rate rather than a sexual rate, but you're asking for sexual things.
Maybe she would do a nude show with you if you paid a higher rate, or maybe she wouldn't.
I think this sounds like a complicated situation that could probably be cleared up by speaking with her directly, if she'll talk to you about it.

 

[maskpull]

Ah. So she is giving you a conversation rate rather than a sexual rate, but you're asking for sexual things.
Maybe she would do a nude show with you if you paid a higher rate, or maybe she wouldn't.
I think this sounds like a complicated situation that could probably be cleared up by speaking with her directly, if she'll talk to you about it.

I tried to talk with her directly about it, I talk I can pay for higher, but she become angry.
When she make group, she canceled it when I tried to join.
But after she accept when change the show with higher price.
I really don't understand her and how I can make her talk all about it. She just say I am crazy and then non talk to me

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Hello,
I met a camgirl since long time ago.
Before we often have shows , actually in those shows we often talk, but sometimes I want to see her naked and she did but she said she doesn't like.
I thought we have something like a friendship.
Recently she give me her mail and then her number, but when I want to see her naked, she became angry and said I was crazy, she didn't want do it.
Anyone can explain why she did that.

I just don't understand why she doesn't want to be naked for me.
She do it with all her member.
And if she doesn't like me why she gave me her number

She often makes offer for me to have show with her at the lowest cost. But we often talk only in those show, some time she get naked, but she doesn't want to be naked now.

I tried to talk with her directly about it, I talk I can pay for higher, but she become angry.
When she make group, she canceled it when I tried to join.
But after she accept when change the show with higher price.
I really don't understand her and how I can make her talk all about it. She just say I am crazy and then non talk to me

Strictly opinion here.

Women don't like to be abused. Perhaps one of the most repellent forms of abuse is to flog them with desperation. Forget haggling and dealmaking, instead seek to manipulate. Good luck.

Sounds like she's gone non-nude.

Worse than that, @Guy. Sounds like she may have gone female.

 

[maskpull]

Strictly opinion here.

Women don't like to be abused. Perhaps one of the most repellent forms of abuse is to flog them with desperation. Forget haggling and dealmaking, instead seek to manipulate. Good luck.

Worse than that, @Guy. Sounds like she may have gone female.

Actually I didn't want or try to abuse her. But if she want a higher price why she doesn't talk to me.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

But if she want a higher price why she doesn't talk to me.

Well I would be willing to bet she does want a higher price, so you can cross that "if" out. And no idea why she doesn't talk to you. Good luck.

 

[Nymph3tte]

Hello,
I met a camgirl since long time ago.
Before we often have shows , actually in those shows we often talk, but sometimes I want to see her naked and she did but she said she doesn't like.
I thought we have something like a friendship.
Recently she give me her mail and then her number, but when I want to see her naked, she became angry and said I was crazy, she didn't want do it.
Anyone can explain why she did that.

Maybe... Just maybe... Because she's annoyed?

She told you she doesn't like to get naked, dude. Can't get much more straight-forward than that. Forget about it and move on, there's nothing else you can do about it. It's her body and she doesn't have to show it to you just because you want to see it.

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

Yeah sounds like she just doesn't like you. By the way, is she responding with this number? Are you sure it isn't fake?

 

[alexa_voltage]

I tried to talk with her directly about it, I talk I can pay for higher, but she become angry.
When she make group, she canceled it when I tried to join.
But after she accept when change the show with higher price.
I really don't understand her and how I can make her talk all about it. She just say I am crazy and then non talk to me

Doesnt make sense that she wouldnt want a high rate......something is kinda fishy here man. Real FISHY

 

[Guy]

Doesnt make sense that she wouldnt want a high rate......something is kinda fishy here man. Real FISHY

Yeah. His story doesn't make sense.