What is the most annoying thing a model can do?

[Ann_Sulu]

Oh! I have a silly one that doesn't pertain to me at all!

When fin-dommes have really obviously cheap accessories, like plastic jewelry, Halloween wigs, etc. It just makes me cringe, and think that if they can't afford nice accessories that fits their persona they'd probably do better without.

Right? I mean they could go by "princess" perhaps and be able to work that angle a bit better I think.

My favorite is when they start using terms like "real domme"

I get the whole thing of trying to prove themselves and what not, but all they're doing is making people uncomfortable about interacting with them (and yeah that look isn't doing them any favors with paypigs I'm sure). It sucks because a lot of time members (and models) tend to think domination only means one type of attitude, but no there are many ways to go about it. *sigh

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

Oh! I have a silly one that doesn't pertain to me at all!

When fin-dommes have really obviously cheap accessories, like plastic jewelry, Halloween wigs, etc. It just makes me cringe, and think that if they can't afford nice accessories that fits their persona they'd probably do better without.

peasant, all your monies are belong to me! but rest assured I'll be thrifty with it

 

[Ann_Sulu]

peasant, all your monies are belong to me! but rest assured I'll be thrifty with it

Eh now castles ain't cheap! Gotta save to be able to afford them in the first place!

 

[SaffronBurke]

Oh! I have a silly one that doesn't pertain to me at all!

When fin-dommes have really obviously cheap accessories, like plastic jewelry, Halloween wigs, etc. It just makes me cringe, and think that if they can't afford nice accessories that fits their persona they'd probably do better without.

It's a little cringe-y, yeah. Just.... Whyyyyy. You're supposed to be expensive, that's the fetish.

I'm also spoiled by having a relative who's a jeweler and just randomly sends me shit, so I have tons of nice jewelry I can throw on if I want to, so for me, it's not hard to be like, random fetish clip, Claire's jewelry, findom clip, yellow diamonds.

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

Eh now castles ain't cheap! Gotta save to be able to afford them in the first place!

castles are for old money, not for peasants who earn a good living!

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

It's a little cringe-y, yeah. Just.... Whyyyyy. You're supposed to be expensive, that's the fetish.

ah. interesting. I know nothing about it.
I didn't know guys were getting off on the idea of a woman utterly squandering his ?hard earned? money. I thought it would've been enough that she's a bossy bitch making him give it up. how she uses it shouldn't be any of his business (unlike, say, a trophy wife, where you'd expect her to use your money preening herself like the catdashians

I'm also spoiled by having a relative who's a jeweler and just randomly sends me shit, so I have tons of nice jewelry I can throw on if I want to, so for me, it's not hard to be like, random fetish clip, Claire's jewelry, findom clip, yellow diamonds.

hey, how do girls tell the difference between cheap and expensive jewelry, anyway?
I mean, you could show me a necklace that's $99, and it might be virtually identical to me to something you can get for 99c on ebay. (is it possible that findom fetish guys are as lower class as me with respect to women's fashion and they don't notice this apparent tackiness at issue? I'd be surprised if most guys could tell an ugly handbag from a 'designer' handbag like this Christmas wrap atrocity:

 

[Violet Dawn]

ah. interesting. I know nothing about it.
I didn't know guys were getting off on the idea of a woman utterly squandering his ?hard earned? money. I thought it would've been enough that she's a bossy bitch making him give it up. how she uses it shouldn't be any of his business (unlike, say, a trophy wife, where you'd expect her to use your money preening herself like the catdashians


hey, how do girls tell the difference between cheap and expensive jewelry, anyway?
I mean, you could show me a necklace that's $99, and it might be virtually identical to me to something you can get for 99c on ebay. (is it possible that findom fetish guys are as lower class as me with respect to women's fashion and they don't notice this apparent tackiness at issue? I'd be surprised if most guys could tell an ugly handbag from a 'designer' handbag like this Christmas wrap atrocity:

I think they're referring to things that are OBVIOUSLY cheap. Like crap you'd find at a crappy department store, hence the halloween wig comment.

 

[AmberCutie]

I love all my camming sistahs but holy moly the constant retweeting of the auto-tweets of people voting for you in contests (xbiz is the biggie right now) is exhausting. You don't need to retweet that, really. Maybe one a day to remind people to do it? I'm just a nit picker about this, don't mean to offend those that do it, but there's no way I'm the only one bothered by it.

 

[AerynShade]

I love all my camming sistahs but holy moly the constant retweeting of the auto-tweets of people voting for you in contests (xbiz is the biggie right now) is exhausting. You don't need to retweet that, really. Maybe one a day to remind people to do it? I'm just a nit picker about this, don't mean to offend those that do it, but there's no way I'm the only one bothered by it.

I've muted the words, "vote" and "voted" on twitter. I logged in one day and the entire feed above the fold was xbiz spam...

 

[Picnic]

I get annoyed by stream-of-conscious type talking in video snapchats. Some of my non-cam/vanilla friends do this on Snapchat too, but cam girls are the only ones I know who post SO many all at once.

I'm not talking about sharing an interesting, funny, or important story in multiple video snaps. That's fine. It's when cam girls aimlessly go onnnn and on for 8+ snaps and they haven't fully planned out what they are even trying to say. It tends to get repetitive and just...well, annoying.

Especially when every one starts or ends with:
"SOOOOO..."
"AAAAAND...."
"THHEEEENNN..."

I don't mind listening to that kind of one-sided conversation on cam, but I'm not at all interested in keeping up in only 10 second increments. I usually skip those snaps, and assume everyone else is, too :/

Even breaking some of those talking snaps up with photos that have captions would help make it less annoying!

 

[AmberCutie]

I get annoyed by stream-of-conscious type talking in video snapchats. Some of my non-cam/vanilla friends do this on Snapchat too, but cam girls are the only ones I know who post SO many all at once.

I'm not talking about sharing an interesting, funny, or important story in multiple video snaps. That's fine. It's when cam girls aimlessly go onnnn and on for 8+ snaps and they haven't fully planned out what they are even trying to say. It tends to get repetitive and just...well, annoying.

Especially when every one starts or ends with:
"SOOOOO..."
"AAAAAND...."
"THHEEEENNN..."

I don't mind listening to that kind of one-sided conversation on cam, but I'm not at all interested in keeping up in only 10 second increments. I usually skip those snaps, and assume everyone else is, too :/

I'm guilty of doing this just a few days ago, probably 8 snaps in a row of me explaining a realization I had/explanation of feels. I do wonder how many of my friends skipped it. I don't do it often though and in general I agree with you. So many girls who took over the MFC snapchat would do like 20 talking vids in a row and my finger couldn't tap fast enough.

 

[SMuser69]

I get annoyed by stream-of-conscious type talking in video snapchats. Some of my non-cam/vanilla friends do this on Snapchat too, but cam girls are the only ones I know who post SO many all at once.

I'm not talking about sharing an interesting, funny, or important story in multiple video snaps. That's fine. It's when cam girls aimlessly go onnnn and on for 8+ snaps and they haven't fully planned out what they are even trying to say. It tends to get repetitive and just...well, annoying.

Especially when every one starts or ends with:
"SOOOOO..."
"AAAAAND...."
"THHEEEENNN..."

I don't mind listening to that kind of one-sided conversation on cam, but I'm not at all interested in keeping up in only 10 second increments. I usually skip those snaps, and assume everyone else is, too :/

Even breaking some of those talking snaps up with photos that have captions would help make it less annoying!

I'm not familar with snapchat can you post a pic without text?

 

[Picnic]

I'm not familar with snapchat can you post a pic without text?

Pics and videos can have text added on Snapchat. Both can also be posted w/o text.

 

[JoleneBrody]

I feel SO weird talking on snaps for some reason. I never shut the fuck up on cam but I just feel so awkward talking to snapchat... Random realization. should have posted it to snap.

 

[Nikola Tesla]

I never shut the fuck up on cam

Here is 50 tokens for mute

 

[JoleneBrody]

Here is 50 tokens for mute

GAH! NOT FAIR THE GAME IS NOT AFOOT!

 

[DuoShi]

I'm guilty of doing this just a few days ago, probably 8 snaps in a row of me explaining a realization I had/explanation of feels. I do wonder how many of my friends skipped it. I don't do it often though and in general I agree with you. So many girls who took over the MFC snapchat would do like 20 talking vids in a row and my finger couldn't tap fast enough.

I listened to the whole thing. I would expect that all the other regulars did too.

 

[Magnolia]

I'm sorry, but this thread's idea of what findom is all about is hilarious.

Not every domme has that perfect and expensive look that you see from the top gals (nor do a lot of subs care for that look, fyi, because it's overdone and fake as fuck). There are so many different styles, ideas, financial levels, and attitudes. Saying a girl who does findom has to wear expensive things or nothing at all is ridiculous. If all I had were cheap jewelry I could play it off as "See how cheap my jewelry is? YOU need to buy me something better." or "I like wasting your money on cheap shit, that's how little you and your wallet mean to me." or "You don't deserve to see me wear expensive things and my good wig so you get all my cheap crap to look at."

Or it could just be her style. I have plenty of cheap jewelry I fucking LOVE and wear all the time. I'm not going to take it off for some sort of misconstrued idea of what findom is supposed to be. Don't like cheap jewelry? Move on to the next gal, this is about me and what I want and I'm not about to change it because someone who isn't paying me doesn't like it.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Not paying attention to where the cam is. If you have your feet up on the desk, or the cam on the bed, and you go to getting too active shaking it, your stream is going to be unwatchably annoying.

 

[EspiKvlt]

Not paying attention to where the cam is. If you have your feet up on the desk, or the cam on the bed, and you go to getting too active shaking it, your stream is going to be unwatchably annoying.

I hit agree, but I'm super guilty of having trouble with that because I have my cam on my bed. I do try really hard to keep it under control, though, cus I'm very aware of how annoying that is lol

 

[zoober]

edit blether with a model (here called "a") I know, which calls out an annoying thing

a - This 'telling everyone you're 18 and calling men daddy' trend on chaturbate is starting to really REALLY piss me off.

b - Lotta guys (notably Murkan) ask to be called daddy. Power/insecurity thing. You know how us be. And yep, it does bleed into incest roleplay

a - Yeah thing is Chaturbate has rules that are shittily enforced. I lose out on income when I don't pretend to be an 18 year old fuck doll...

a - Yeah that's a problem and not only is it condoning pedophilia but it also condones incest, so I'm not cool with the trend

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

I lose out on income when I don't pretend to be an 18 year old fuck doll...

a - Yeah that's a problem and not only is it condoning pedophilia but it also condones incest, so I'm not cool with the trend

wanting to fuck an 18 year old is not pedophilia, it's ephebephilia (a debilitating fixation most 18-year-old boys suffer from)

 

[Ann_Sulu]

I'm sorry, but this thread's idea of what findom is all about is hilarious.

Not every domme has that perfect and expensive look that you see from the top gals (nor do a lot of subs care for that look, fyi, because it's overdone and fake as fuck). There are so many different styles, ideas, financial levels, and attitudes. Saying a girl who does findom has to wear expensive things or nothing at all is ridiculous. If all I had were cheap jewelry I could play it off as "See how cheap my jewelry is? YOU need to buy me something better." or "I like wasting your money on cheap shit, that's how little you and your wallet mean to me." or "You don't deserve to see me wear expensive things and my good wig so you get all my cheap crap to look at."

Or it could just be her style. I have plenty of cheap jewelry I fucking LOVE and wear all the time. I'm not going to take it off for some sort of misconstrued idea of what findom is supposed to be. Don't like cheap jewelry? Move on to the next gal, this is about me and what I want and I'm not about to change it because someone who isn't paying me doesn't like it.

Very good points. I never got much into findom, aside from doing it on occasion for some members REALLY want me to do it. Apparently though money doesn't turn me on, having an occasional bratty princess personality draws findom guys to me. I'm honest with those guys letting them know that I'll do it on sites that allow it, but it isn't my kink. I have however on occasion messaged those guys saying things like how one of them should give me $25 dollars for a Deadpool onesie. No it's not expensive. Yes I wanted it. No reason a findom shouldn't own/demand some cheaper luxuries, if nothing else for her own amusement.

 

[VeronicaChaos]

I'm sorry, but this thread's idea of what findom is all about is hilarious.

Not every domme has that perfect and expensive look that you see from the top gals (nor do a lot of subs care for that look, fyi, because it's overdone and fake as fuck). There are so many different styles, ideas, financial levels, and attitudes. Saying a girl who does findom has to wear expensive things or nothing at all is ridiculous. If all I had were cheap jewelry I could play it off as "See how cheap my jewelry is? YOU need to buy me something better." or "I like wasting your money on cheap shit, that's how little you and your wallet mean to me." or "You don't deserve to see me wear expensive things and my good wig so you get all my cheap crap to look at."

Or it could just be her style. I have plenty of cheap jewelry I fucking LOVE and wear all the time. I'm not going to take it off for some sort of misconstrued idea of what findom is supposed to be. Don't like cheap jewelry? Move on to the next gal, this is about me and what I want and I'm not about to change it because someone who isn't paying me doesn't like it.

Eh, this thread is "Things Models Do That Annoy You", and I prefaced it by saying that it didn't effect me at all and was silly. If girls can pull it off, good for them. I'm not going to pretend I know much about findomme or anything, it's just a silly thing that annoys me for no particular reason.

I'm probably taking your response too personally.

 

[zoober]

Setting aside are tip activated vibrators good, bad, etc.,up until a software update last month, only 1 lovense thing could be tip activated/distance controlled at a time. Practically, this meant all those models using say a lush who had tip extra to use the hush at the same time on their menu, implying both would then respond to tips, where at it. Reasonable to assume some still are.

 

[Magnolia]

Eh, this thread is "Things Models Do That Annoy You", and I prefaced it by saying that it didn't effect me at all and was silly. If girls can pull it off, good for them. I'm not going to pretend I know much about findomme or anything, it's just a silly thing that annoys me for no particular reason.

I'm probably taking your response too personally.

Naw, nothing personal, bb. Was just hoping to help people see findom in a broader perspective.

This is a silly thread anyways. We come here to complain about models but us models want to stick up for ourselves sometimes so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

only 1 lovense thing could be tip activated/distance controlled at a time.

per device? per browser?
(I mean, there are some devices that can only use the smartphone app (and you could have more than one phone for Lovense relay), some that can use the desktop app, and models who can split-cam and have multiple browsers open to receive activated tips from several sites.

 

[uncoveredmanhole]

We come here to complain about models but us models want to stick up for ourselves sometimes so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I don't see a problem with either.
I mean, it's just perspective-sharing. whether or not any of us are 'right' (?) about any of this doesn't matter nearly as much as knowing how other people might be perceiving what's going on.

 

[zoober]

Magnolia said: ↑
We come here to complain about models but us models want to stick up for ourselves sometimes so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I think it's as simple as sometimes, some models do dick moves cos, ya know, they human. On this single thread, this being an exception, some dick moves get called out. And that's kind of it. Here I'll give you a dick move example - you get a msg out the blue offa model saying how you be, how this, how that, then 6-7 messages in hey BTW wanna do a special show for XXXX tokens? S'like cut the BS and start msg 1 with what you're wanting

 

[AmberCutie]

https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/how-to-forum-stuff.2252/