Like I said before, I don't want to keep this going. There are things I could have stated better. All I'm saying is:
1. People should be honest, as much as possible.
2. Guys who are hesitant to date a cam girl are not insecure, immature, irrational, etc. They're normal. If you approach a situation with the attitude "I'm gonna do what I wanna do and if you don't like it, that's your problem", chances are you're going to drive the guy away. Your decision to be a cam girl makes things complicated. That's not the fault of the guy.
3. When I said, "if the guy doesn't care what you do on cam, he probably doesn't care too much in general", I was talking about somebody saying "yeah sure, do whatever you want". AmberCutie is apparently married. Her profile says she doesn't do private shows or Skype, and she doesn't watch cams. I don't know one way or the other, but I suspect those boundaries have something to do with how her husband feels about it.
To sum up: Any serious relationship requires honesty, and equal consideration for both people's feelings. There has to be compromise. This subject is personal to me. I've actually given it a lot of thought, because as I mentioned before, several cam girls have expressed an interest in dating me in the past. I liked them and was attracted to them, and we had become friends, but I backed out of it because I knew it wouldn't work. To be totally honest, there is one I would go out with if she ever said the word, but what she does on cam is pretty tame compared to most. Everybody has different views on these things, I just offered my two cents. I don't want to keep rehashing it.
1. People should be honest, as much as possible.
2. Guys who are hesitant to date a cam girl are not insecure, immature, irrational, etc. They're normal. If you approach a situation with the attitude "I'm gonna do what I wanna do and if you don't like it, that's your problem", chances are you're going to drive the guy away. Your decision to be a cam girl makes things complicated. That's not the fault of the guy.
3. When I said, "if the guy doesn't care what you do on cam, he probably doesn't care too much in general", I was talking about somebody saying "yeah sure, do whatever you want". AmberCutie is apparently married. Her profile says she doesn't do private shows or Skype, and she doesn't watch cams. I don't know one way or the other, but I suspect those boundaries have something to do with how her husband feels about it.
To sum up: Any serious relationship requires honesty, and equal consideration for both people's feelings. There has to be compromise. This subject is personal to me. I've actually given it a lot of thought, because as I mentioned before, several cam girls have expressed an interest in dating me in the past. I liked them and was attracted to them, and we had become friends, but I backed out of it because I knew it wouldn't work. To be totally honest, there is one I would go out with if she ever said the word, but what she does on cam is pretty tame compared to most. Everybody has different views on these things, I just offered my two cents. I don't want to keep rehashing it.