that did go wrong, I'm sorry about that, with the current knowledge all the advice form your collegue models was the right advice.
but what about just telling the truth is this kind of situations? I am a middle age cam site visitor and develop sometimes white knight feelings and even a bit more, when I would be corrected with something like below, I would accept it.
As a cam model I did keep my personal life private, and I will keep doing so, I have developed, I'm not the girl anymore who started at age 19 as a cam model, I am a woman now, my life situation did change and I am very happy with that. I will keep the online world and the real world 100% seperated. I hope you can respect this and continue with our online friendship that was amazing the last 5 years. If not, then our ways will part.