GraysonDrake
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- Jul 11, 2021
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Actually, they did. Because he's blocked now.not arguing here, this is correct, imho below quote from the OP
"I like the man. I would even consider him an (online) friend. I just don't know how to tell him no."
was worth an attempt, and that all the pavlov reactions to just block and move on did not help her to solve this situation.
What OP was struggling with was trying to be fair to someone who was being abusive and unfair towards her, and the fair thing to do when dealing with someone toxic who refuses to listen is actually the banhammer. It's also not like her ban came out of nowhere, as it's clear she's been trying to talk some sense into this guy for a while.
You know that Pavlovian responses are learned from being repeatedly exposed to the same situation, right? Everyone saying "nah, block" has been in similar situations and learned the hard way that trying to JADE (Justify, Argue, Debate, or Explain) to people who pull this kind of shit is not only worthless, it's extremely emotionally exhausting and can potentially be a bit traumatic depending on the response.
So yeah, a quiet block is completely justified in this situation.