Turn Offs - Things models do that cause you to go away.

[LaceyRoyce]

evvie your point was not defending pedophillia.. and was VERY valid.

... personally Daddy/little play is a turn on and I guess i put on a 'little' voice when i do it..

 

[Evvie]

evvie your point was not defending pedophillia.. and was VERY valid.

... personally Daddy/little play is a turn on and I guess i put on a 'little' voice when i do it..

I think a lot of people don't realize how common Daddy play is. My Master was a DD so that was a big part of our dynamic. But there can be so much social stigma I still have trouble admitting it >_< oh well.

 

[BoltEyeAm]

Guys, if you enjoy visiting a models room and she does something that bothers you, sometimes it's best to bring it to her attention. She might have an explanation for it, or an apology. :twocents-02cents:

I wonder if there is a good way to do this because a lot of models don't seem to accept suggestions or things you point out to them. I understand models get tired of being told how to run the show but some girls shut out too much.

For an example:
Last week sometime I recognized a girls name from this forum, So I decided to check her out. When I entered the room I was blown away, and by that I mean her volume was so loud I jumped from my chair. I quickly set her volume down to about 2% and it was still loud and turned down my speakers as well. I certainly don't expect everyone's volume to be perfect but her mic was set so high that her volume couldn't be adjusted in a way that made it possible to listen to anything else at the same time. Furthermore because her voice was being amplified so much, it sounded like it was coming out of a stereo system that was turned up too loud even when the volume was low.

I made a comment in her chat that her mic was really loud and the response was "Then fucking turn down, your volume". I stuck around for a while because she was pretty entertaining otherwise and I found her pretty attractive. Guys would frequently make comments like "Wow I bet you scream loud when you have sex" and other statements.

Girls who type in their rooms but spell things wrong frequently. Obviously, this only bothers me in American rooms. I don't mean to be judgmental. It's just distracting and makes my OCD brain uncomfortable.

really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.

I would be very surprised if it is higher or more squeaky than YURIPARTY's voice. I'm really curious now tho, I usually find high pitched voices really cute.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

Guys, if you enjoy visiting a models room and she does something that bothers you, sometimes it's best to bring it to her attention. She might have an explanation for it, or an apology. :twocents-02cents:

I wonder if there is a good way to do this because a lot of models don't seem to accept suggestions or things you point out to them. I understand models get tired of being told how to run the show but some girls shut out too much.

For an example:
Last week sometime I recognized a girls name from this forum, So I decided to check her out. When I entered the room I was blown away, and by that I mean her volume was so loud I jumped from my chair. I quickly set her volume down to about 2% and it was still loud and turned down my speakers as well. I certainly don't expect everyone's volume to be perfect but her mic was set so high that her volume couldn't be adjusted in a way that made it possible to listen to anything else at the same time. Furthermore because her voice was being amplified so much, it sounded like it was coming out of a stereo system that was turned up too loud even when the volume was low.

I made a comment in her chat that her mic was really loud and the response was "Then fucking turn down, your volume". I stuck around for a while because she was pretty entertaining otherwise and I found her pretty attractive. Guys would frequently make comments like "Wow I bet you scream loud when you have sex" and other statements.

Girls who type in their rooms but spell things wrong frequently. Obviously, this only bothers me in American rooms. I don't mean to be judgmental. It's just distracting and makes my OCD brain uncomfortable.

really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.

I would be very surprised if it is higher or more squeaky than YURIPARTY's voice. I'm really curious now tho, I usually find high pitched voices really cute.

I think you went about it in the right way. Sounds like she didn't handle it right, imo.

 

[Bocefish]

Whenever I'm in an unfamiliar model's room and there is an audio issue... I'll ask the room if anyone else thinks the sound is too loud or is it just my settings. It's a bit nicer way to go about confirming it and if several people have the same issue then the model should get the hint.

 

[BoltEyeAm]

I think you went about it in the right way. Sounds like she didn't handle it right, imo.

I only say something if it is pretty significant and I like the girl.

For sake of experimentation I decided to let one girls I regularly visit that cam appeared purple.

PM conversation goes as follows...

• Me: Hey Jeyon, have you tried adjusting your cam's color? Your skin looks kinda purple. I only bring it up cause I [:heart] you
  Her: ty
  Her: []

She is Korean and speaks little English so I'm not sure how well she understood what I was trying to say. But

Then she then got up and moved around and the color pretty much fixed itself. It apparently has something to do with the lighting in the room probably the light from the window. As I'm typing this she moved back to her bed and is purple again.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I think you went about it in the right way. Sounds like she didn't handle it right, imo.

I only say something if it is pretty significant and I like the girl.

For sake of experimentation I decided to let one girls I regularly visit that cam appeared purple.

PM conversation goes as follows...

• Me: Hey Jeyon, have you tried adjusting your cam's color? Your skin looks kinda purple. I only bring it up cause I [:heart] you
  Her: ty
  Her: []

She is Korean and speaks little English so I'm not sure how well she understood what I was trying to say. But

Then she then got up and moved around and the color pretty much fixed itself. It apparently has something to do with the lighting in the room probably the light from the window. As I'm typing this she moved back to her bed and is purple again.

My light does that, too. When i get too close it washes me out, I step away and it's fine. I'm glad she was sweet about it!! I had a guy PM me after I referred him to MFC and he web premium that day. He said he wasn't going to be a regular because of the video feed. I'm almost positive it was on his end or MFC because they were fucking with things that night. I apologized profusely and I think I'm going to give him some free content. I asked if he could visit me again and let me know if he was having the same problems. I'm just so thankful that he let me know first, instead of giving me bad reviews to other people.

 

[AnabelleLeigh]

I think the fake childishness (not just voice) skeeves me out as well. I mean, props to the model if she can take something awkward and run with it, but I wonder about the guys who hang out in her room.

I don't know, in the BDSM subculture pedophilia certainly isn't acceptable, but there are a lot of "littles" which are adults who like to be in the mindset of a child, from infancy to teenage years. A good number of them do not allow sexual play while they are "little" but there are definitely a lot of people who are in to it. I guess my point is that a lot of people are attracted to the fantasy of an adult acting young but would never fantasize about a child.

Ahem. I'm now going to stop sounding like I'm defending pedophilia.

I know a lot of my regulars like me because I look like a kid... I dont play it up or anything, I just cant help looking young. but I'm ok even if it is pedophiles because at least they're getting their jollies from watching me and not touching kiddies.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

Thing of it is about telling a model about anything technical it feels the same as those show up and immediately tell her "cam's frozen" Now I don't know if it is their end or if they just get some wonderful sick joy out of interrupting the girl to make her sign off and on again when no one else has an issue. Like others have said I will ask others in the room before bringing it to her attention.

 

[Evvie]

Thing of it is about telling a model about anything technical it feels the same as those show up and immediately tell her "cam's frozen" Now I don't know if it is their end or if they just get some wonderful sick joy out of interrupting the girl to make her sign off and on again when no one else has an issue. Like others have said I will ask others in the room before bringing it to her attention.

Whenever this happens, I also ask the room for a consensus and if a single person is having a problem but everyone else is fine, they're on their own.

I actually saw a regular in EvaLee's room troll her to restart her webcam. It was pretty funny, but you only get one.

 

[LindseyDoll]

I find that sometimes the reason why guys like the gals who come across as very young and girly can be a subconscious need to protect and nurture. They're looking for the fantasy of someone who needs them to take care of them and protect them from stuff, and those guys can be very kind.
Some guys love it when I wear pigtails and show off my braces. I don't think it's creepy because they aren't seeing me as a little girl, they're seeing me as something soft, feminine, and delicate. At least that's the way it comes across to me.

The biggest thing that would make me not want to watch a model is looking like they don't want to be on cam. When they seem uncomfortable, or unhappy it's just not sexy. I can't watch people do things they're uncomfortable with for money, it just seems awkward.

 

[JoleneBrody]

Thing of it is about telling a model about anything technical it feels the same as those show up and immediately tell her "cam's frozen" Now I don't know if it is their end or if they just get some wonderful sick joy out of interrupting the girl to make her sign off and on again when no one else has an issue. Like others have said I will ask others in the room before bringing it to her attention.

Whenever this happens, I also ask the room for a consensus and if a single person is having a problem but everyone else is fine, they're on their own.

I actually saw a regular in EvaLee's room troll her to restart her webcam. It was pretty funny, but you only get one.

I try and ask my room every time I'm on if my sound/video is ok. My screams get pretty high pitch when I'm doing a wax show but whenever I ask the room if i need to turn my volume settings down they say no and that it's just my screams... if I turned it down they wouldn't hear anything else... It's a bit of a joke now for everyone to turn down their speakers before a big drip... I guess I need a ball gag.

 

[BoltEyeAm]

Some guys love it when I wear pigtails and show off my braces. I don't think it's creepy because they aren't seeing me as a little girl, they're seeing me as something soft, feminine, and delicate. At least that's the way it comes across to me.

As a pigtail lover myself I think it is an sweet/innocent, & playful thing. What you said might be a part of it who knows.
I did a Skype show with a model who dressed up in a school girl outfit. She asked if I wanted to roll-play and I thought for a second and was like uhh no I find that kinda creepy.

 

[LadyLuna]

I don't like Daddy play. I come off a bit forcefully about it on my profile, because I've actually had guys, upon finding out I don't like it, attempt to trick me into it by saying "that's fine", getting the private going, and when I'm just starting to enjoy myself drop something like "now show daddy your sweet little butthole". That *always* results in me banning them and logging off for at least half an hour to get the icky feeling of it off me, because that's obviously pedo and not protection.

Since I get that way too often, I just don't do daddy play. At all. But I have no problem with those who do.

 

[BoltEyeAm]

I don't like Daddy play. I come off a bit forcefully about it on my profile, because I've actually had guys, upon finding out I don't like it, attempt to trick me into it by saying "that's fine", getting the private going, and when I'm just starting to enjoy myself drop something like "now show daddy your sweet little butthole". That *always* results in me banning them and logging off for at least half an hour to get the icky feeling of it off me, because that's obviously pedo and not protection.

Since I get that way too often, I just don't do daddy play. At all. But I have no problem with those who do.

This kinda stuff surprises me, how guys are so rude in private that.
Perhaps I don't do privates right :lol: Cause I end up getting the model to saying "Just let me know what you want to see when I don't ask for much" and I'm like "uh could you dance for a bit first please". Then later they ask if I'm still there after I've passed out from lack of blood flow to the brain.

 

[Shaun__]

I find that sometimes the reason why guys like the gals who come across as very young and girly can be a subconscious need to protect and nurture. They're looking for the fantasy of someone who needs them to take care of them and protect them from stuff, and those guys can be very kind.
Some guys love it when I wear pigtails and show off my braces. I don't think it's creepy because they aren't seeing me as a little girl, they're seeing me as something soft, feminine, and delicate. At least that's the way it comes across to me.

I like women who are my equals, because they make me step up my game and improve myself if I want to protect and nurture them.

 

[CassieRamone]

Ahem. I'm now going to stop sounding like I'm defending pedophilia.

LOL every time i stand up for Daddy play i always feel like i look like this pedobear enthusiast... I have a porn chick friend that told me when she got into the industry a few years ago she got a lot of hate mail calling her a pedo supporter for doing porn when she clearly looked very young (shes 23 now, still working, and still looks quite young) but she said she replied to it simply "id rather have guys that are turned on by the young-LOOKING girl getting off to my videos since im over 18 than checking out ACTUAL underage chicks... so honestly, i dont PLAY UP looking young, but i know i dont look older than i am, and thats fine. if anything, im helping promote a healthy outlet for an extremely common niche/fetish/subculture."

also... when i was in a D/s relationship i called him Daddy and had no problem. as i alwaaaaays say, i dont have "father" issues, and see the "Daddy" roleplay completely different than i see actual "father/daughter" or incestuous behavior... dammit. i sound like a pervert.

whateva, either way, fuck yeah to the other kinksters around here.

and mad respect if youre not into it too. no ones here to judge, 3

 

[Jessi]

don't know, in the BDSM subculture pedophilia certainly isn't acceptable, but there are a lot of "littles" which are adults who like to be in the mindset of a child, from infancy to teenage years. A good number of them do not allow sexual play while they are "little" but there are definitely a lot of people who are in to it. I guess my point is that a lot of people are attracted to
the fantasy of an adult acting young but would never fantasize about a child.

Sure, but that's not what I was saying skeeves me out. A lot of the time when I see these things on MFC, its not in a BDSM context. I hope people don't misunderstand and think I have a hate on for kinksters.

 

[SweepTheLeg]

I have no interest in being called daddy ever, and of all the things I have been called on this site and MFC I am proud to say that 'Daddy' is not one of them.

 

[LeenaLiberty]

really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

This one makes me really worry. I'm 4'9" and I have a voice to match, so far I've only had a few comments about it but most comments tend to be positive. I try not to talk in a cutesy way but I tend to just have a "chipmunk" quality to my voice.

Hey Nerdgasm...
My apologies for making this comment. I just logged in and saw all the comments about this....
I didn't mean to make anyone feel self conscious about it
Like i said, it is more of the fake kinda little girl voice..
I love chipmunks by the way...

 

[LeenaLiberty]

Here is another one... I caught last night...
When a girl gets mad on camera and throws a shit fit...

Saw this last night, and all the members in the room where typing..."what did we all do?"
She stormed out of the room, and didn't come back for like 10 minutes.

And then all the members apologized to her when she came back, tipped and she was "happy again"-Go figure... May she was employing some kind of psychological tactic... who knows...
Volatility

 

[SweepTheLeg]

When a girl has the camera positioned from the neck down the entire time. I like to look at who I'm talking to, I'm weird like that.

 

[Diana Blake]

really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

This one makes me really worry. I'm 4'9" and I have a voice to match, so far I've only had a few comments about it but most comments tend to be positive. I try not to talk in a cutesy way but I tend to just have a "chipmunk" quality to my voice.

Hey Nerdgasm...
My apologies for making this comment. I just logged in and saw all the comments about this....
I didn't mean to make anyone feel self conscious about it
Like i said, it is more of the fake kinda little girl voice..
I love chipmunks by the way...

It's fine, really. I'm usually okay with how I sound because it's not something I can change but I worry about it on cam because there are so many girls out there that do fake their voices and it makes everyone suspicious. I try my best to be as real and genuine on cam as I can but I worry that someone will come in, hear five seconds of me talking and automatically assume I'm fake. And I'll admit, I've had a few guys go "Is that how you always talk?" and it bothers me a bit because, honestly, I still get hung up on when I call the local pizza place and they ask if my mother knows I'm calling.

 

[JickyJuly]

Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.

Aww. I feel bad now for saying that.
My apologies...
It's more of a fake child like voice that I am talking about-rather the natural high pitched ones...
The ones where you know that is how they really don't talk in normal life.....


I like the snorting pixie sticks analogy though. I remember going to the skating rink when I was young and doing that... lol

What about sucking helium?

Hehehehe. Don't feel bad. :lol: Voices can be a valid turn on/off and get overlooked pretty often too.

 

[sweetiebatman]

Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.

Aww. I feel bad now for saying that.
My apologies...
It's more of a fake child like voice that I am talking about-rather the natural high pitched ones...
The ones where you know that is how they really don't talk in normal life.....


I like the snorting pixie sticks analogy though. I remember going to the skating rink when I was young and doing that... lol

What about sucking helium?

Hehehehe. Don't feel bad. :lol: Voices can be a valid turn on/off and get overlooked pretty often too.

Jicky is literally the sweetest girl ever, maybe its the voice but you just seem genuinely nice!

 

[CassieRamone]

Sure, but that's not what I was saying skeeves me out. A lot of the time when I see these things on MFC, its not in a BDSM context. I hope people don't misunderstand and think I have a hate on for kinksters.

hahah i didnt take it that way. i know what you mean. you look young - me too (i kinda dont love looking 12 lol) but yeah... the super skeevy im into my children thing is not the kinda play im into either... quite popular around here though hahaha....

 

[Jessi]

I get guys who ask me to pretend Im their daughter, or their daughter's hot friend, and it makes me nope hard.

 

[JickyJuly]

Jicky is literally the sweetest girl ever, maybe its the voice but you just seem genuinely nice!

Heeeyyy. Thanks. That kinda made my night! :blob8:

 

[Anonymous]

I've got some that have not been mentioned.

1) When Models threaten to log off when they feel they aren't getting a lot of tips.

2) When models respond to PM's vocally leaving the entire room listening to a one-sided conversation.

3) Asking for tips in group.

1. Unlike other cam sites, on MFC we have a cam score to worry about. As much as I'd love to stay on longer and chat about favorite movies, I'm not going to do that if I've been on for two hours but haven't even earned enough to get topless (500 tokens). Why should I allow my cam score to suffer just because someone whines "But I just got here." So? Get here sooner next time. It's FREE to follow me on Twitter, you know. LOL.

2. Some people get a little carried away with pm's, and I'm not gonna keep stopping my public chat teasing/entertaining every time someone decides to pm me tons of compliments on my newest video they bought, or they decide to pm me to ask "How are you?" A lot of things that are pm'ed can really be said in public chat or MFC Mail. A lot of guys on the site have short attention spans, and they're not gonna stay in rooms where models are constantly looking down at their keyboard and typing away (pm'ing).

3. Group shows are so cheap, and guys should not be making requests/demands ("Zoom in on that ass, bb") in group unless they are tipping. If you're going to be that picky, take her private instead. Several models even state on their profiles that you are NOT supposed to be making requests/demands in group unless you are tipping.

 

[Anonymous]

Thing of it is about telling a model about anything technical it feels the same as those show up and immediately tell her "cam's frozen" Now I don't know if it is their end or if they just get some wonderful sick joy out of interrupting the girl to make her sign off and on again when no one else has an issue. Like others have said I will ask others in the room before bringing it to her attention.

I always ask the others in my room if they're having the same issues. If they all say "No, it's fine for me," then I know it's just something on that one guy's end. And I'm not gonna play the "Okay, I'll log off, then back on" game just because ONE person claims to be having issues.

Who knows? Maybe that guy who keeps insisting it's the model's fault is foolish enough to be watching 3 models' rooms at once AND watching YouTube videos. LMAO. That's never a good idea when your internet connection isn't all that great to begin with.