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I like to wear my fake nails no longer than the tip of my finger. Sometimes they are longer if I try to do a design, but it always bothers me and I cut them off after a couple days. Right now you wouldn't know they're fake unless you looked really close.
 
I don't keep nails either. Mine are always trimmed short and polish free. For one, I just don't have patience to upkeep them. They aren't my thing to begin with. Secondly, they do not work in my day to day life. I do far too many things with my hands on a daily basis that they would just interfere too much. It's nice to know you guys like the natural look to!
 
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I can't have long nails anymore if I want to use my juggling pins. I learned that lesson the hard painful way :lol:
I don't paint them either becuase I usually make a terrible mess with the polish when I try.
 
The other day I found an absolutely stunning model from Bulgaria... very tight sexy body, long dark hair,.. here eyes were radiant and drew me in. that first few minutes I was like :love4: ..
Even tho I don't find smoking on cam at all attractive, I saw she was at least trying to keep it off screen, which I can deal with. Then... dun dun dun.. it started.. it was like someone hit a switch. Every 30-45 or so seconds she would fiddle with the cam.... not to do any real view changes either. Grab it, move it, fiddle with the wire and back to the same spot. This went on despite the "cams fine" from her 'room knight' and a few others. It got so bad I was actually feeling the twinges of motion sickness ... lol. Anyway, I tipped her again and left.... I guess not being on that side of the cam, I will never understand the reasoning for the constant "dissatisfaction" with cams when from this side, they look great. All I can do is :pray: :pray: she will calm down so I can go back another day and stay longer.
 
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A minor thing that can turn into a big thing is this- When a girl is being sexy gyrating dancing touching herself places what have you but stopping all that every time to thank the person that tipped her personally, especially when she's facing away from the cam and a further away so she has to stop, turn around hurry to the screen so she can read who tipped her then go back to doing what she was doing only to stop 5 seconds later to do the same. Now I understand guys get their panties in a wad for whatever reason if they don't get thanked by name immediately after they tip but god damn it can't a girl just say thank you to everyone that tipped once she's done?
 
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I personally don't mind the model expressing appreciation for the tips she receives. However, I do have a problem if the model scurries back and forth in order to do so - it's highly distracting and becomes obtrusive to the show, therefore limiting our (consumer) satisfaction.

I don't like how some girls scream when they receive tips though... that's just a nuisance to me.
 
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I completely agree with Sweep and HG... Relax, continue dancing or whatever. Some I see, hear the tip thing and say 'thanks' while continuing, no names needed there. After the gyrating is done, then names can be seen and individuals thanked.
I also saw a girl that was so intent on her individual thanks that she got pissed off at a yellow wall. :lol: Everyone got frustrated with it. The guys bc they couldnt make the wall without interruption and her bc the tips were so fast she couldnt type her thanks between each tip.... oh well.... :woops:
 
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JoleneJolene said:
I've got some that have not been mentioned.

1) When Models threaten to log off when they feel they aren't getting a lot of tips.
Would you rather us do so without warning? It's possible that members may have been having so much fun they didn't realize the countdown hasn't moved in 20 minutes. It all depends on how the model presents it. I agree that there is a "good way" and a "bad way" to go about it but as a member I would rather be warned.

2) When models respond to PM's vocally leaving the entire room listening to a one-sided conversation.
I can understand this but if the room chat is flowing and reaching the keyboard to type would take away from the show, it wouldn't bother me. As long as she isn't carrying on an entire long conversation. Just a quick response to a question maybe stated as "in response to pm, yes I have videos (or whatever)"

3) Asking for tips in group.
In what context? Just randomly asking for tips or asking for a tip in response to a request? Group is not like private, if a member wants to make a request he should still tip for it.

4) Having a dildo oriented wrong with balls on top while doing blow job shot. I want to imagine I'm looking at my own penis not some other dudes. (just kidding BJ's are never a turn off)
Makes me think of 69, but I can see what you mean.

BTW I'm not picking at you. I just thought some of these seemed really vague and covered areas where things can be done in a "good way" or "bad way"

I kinda forgot about this thread sorry...

1) Quite frankly I would rather see you log off without warning, or more specifically saying your leaving then log off. What I have seen happen is a model is having a slow night so they make a statement about how they aren't getting much tokens and they are going to have to leave. Then what tends to happen is she gets a few dollars in tokens and a couple minutes later she says the exact same thing. It is like being poked with a prod over and over again while room is still slow because the same thing is happening and the time of day is the same.

As far as alternatives Pretty much any positive way of asking for tips is preferred. If you would like to think of Men like dogs compare this to offering a treat for being good vs a beating. Positive request, and models with a positive attitude are much more entertaining to me.

2) Yeah a simple comment to someone who PMed her is OK. It is more-so the drawn out conversation that bugs me I've seen models just answering basic questions from someone PMing her instead of talking to her in chat. It can really alienate a room when everyone is stuck watching half of a conversation.

3) What i mean by asking for tips is doing countdowns in group and essentially not doing anything till some extra tokens are received. If I join a group I expect to see something more exciting than what was going on in public (unless you were already doing a show and just continued it in group). So if you were just hanging out and chatting I would like to see same dancing or teasing. As far as request, I completely agree with you "Tip for request" is a perfectly acceptable statement while in group.
 
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I once saw a model do a showe while her friend announced member names one by one demanding a tip or a ban because she hated the leachers. It completely ruined the would-be show and I got disappointed when they finally read my name and I was saved for having participated in the chat while I hadn't tipped.
 
sorrowfool said:
Not really a turn-off so much as an annoyance, but when models leave auto-focus on and the cam keeps unfocusing, then focusing, unfocusing, then focusing.

It may not be a "turn-off", but it's a valid reason for me to leave.
 
really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...
 
LeenaLiberty said:
really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

This one makes me really worry. I'm 4'9" and I have a voice to match, so far I've only had a few comments about it but most comments tend to be positive. I try not to talk in a cutesy way but I tend to just have a "chipmunk" quality to my voice.
 
1) When Models threaten to log off when they feel they aren't getting a lot of tips.

I avoid this by having set times when I'm on and off, and I have a timer for how long I'll wait for a countdown to finish. If I start a countdown I usually start a timer as well for an hour, and I let people know about it as well. That way I can say, "we're running out of time to do the show" instead of "tip me fuckers or I'm leaving".

I once saw a model do a showe while her friend announced member names one by one demanding a tip or a ban because she hated the leachers. It completely ruined the would-be show and I got disappointed when they finally read my name and I was saved for having participated in the chat while I hadn't tipped.

A member friend of mine told me he has only one model blocked. She used to be a favorite of his, but one day she was doing slowly so she went down the list of members to see who had the most tokens and points. He has a very high point count, so she called him out in public chat and asked him where all his tokens were. He felt extremely unappreciated and a little violated, so he blocked her and never went back.

While preferring to send tips at the end of the show is a very nice sentiment, I have a different opinion. I've seen public shows (shower, etc) range from 8-9 minutes all the way to an hour. I've seen sexier group shows range from 5-6 minutes to over 40 minutes. In almost every case of the longer shows, it appeared to me that the model continued due to encouraging comments and more importantly encouraging tips. Although my "cause & effect" logic may be flawed, a gigantic fucking light bulb lit up over my head. For me, if I like what I see during the show, I'll keep chipping in...all the time hoping that other dudes will join in and prove my "cause & effect" theory. Once I have evaluated this phenomenon a few hundred times more, I plan to publish my research for peer review and more testing.

I can really only remember one disappointing public show I did. I was ready for the sexy times, finished the countdown and had everything rearin' to go. When I started, though, the chatroom was talking about French musicians, I think. It was incredibly discouraging because it felt like they weren't paying attention at all even though those same people paid for the show.

I can say definitely that the most fun shows I've done have been ones with lots of encouragement and even small tips during the show. It makes me feel like members are really happy with what I'm doing so it encourages me to go on for more!
 
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NerdgasmGirl said:
LeenaLiberty said:
really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

This one makes me really worry. I'm 4'9" and I have a voice to match, so far I've only had a few comments about it but most comments tend to be positive. I try not to talk in a cutesy way but I tend to just have a "chipmunk" quality to my voice.

... honestly that comes down to a personal taste. There are certain tastes I have in models that are things they cannot change and shouldnt be expected to. Physical type, sound of their voice, mannerisms that are normal/natural....

I wouldn't worry about it. Those that think your voice is adorrrable will stay. Those that think its annoyin will leave. There's a model I have popped in on before with a voice that I can't stand. It's not her fault. She's very sweet. But I can't stay in her room because i drives me batty. BUT most of her room LOVES her voice... and it doesnt seem to negatively affect her.
 
Miss_Lollipop said:
NerdgasmGirl said:
LeenaLiberty said:
really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...

This one makes me really worry. I'm 4'9" and I have a voice to match, so far I've only had a few comments about it but most comments tend to be positive. I try not to talk in a cutesy way but I tend to just have a "chipmunk" quality to my voice.

... honestly that comes down to a personal taste. There are certain tastes I have in models that are things they cannot change and shouldnt be expected to. Physical type, sound of their voice, mannerisms that are normal/natural....

I wouldn't worry about it. Those that think your voice is adorrrable will stay. Those that think its annoyin will leave. There's a model I have popped in on before with a voice that I can't stand. It's not her fault. She's very sweet. But I can't stay in her room because i drives me batty. BUT most of her room LOVES her voice... and it doesnt seem to negatively affect her.

The only models I have come across that I can't stand purposely play up the "I'm a little girl, tee-hee!" vibe. I saw one model wrapped up in pink and hello kitty items with a clearly faked high-pitched voice. She was a high pointed model so I guess it worked for her but it was annoying as fuck when I was there.
 
Evvie said:
The only models I have come across that I can't stand purposely play up the "I'm a little girl, tee-hee!" vibe. I saw one model wrapped up in pink and hello kitty items with a clearly faked high-pitched voice. She was a high pointed model so I guess it worked for her but it was annoying as fuck when I was there.

I always found that creepy.
 
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Girls who type in their rooms but spell things wrong frequently. Obviously, this only bothers me in American rooms. I don't mean to be judgmental. It's just distracting and makes my OCD brain uncomfortable.

LeenaLiberty said:
really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...
Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.
 
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I don't actually mind abbreviations all that much, as I see a legitimate need for it; topics can only be set at 100 characters. I do have a problem with this, though (I do apologize for the page-stretch, supposedly there's no 'hide' feature on this board. One can only tolerate so much of this):

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JickyJuly said:
Girls who type in their rooms but spell things wrong frequently. Obviously, this only bothers me in American rooms. I don't mean to be judgmental. It's just distracting and makes my OCD brain uncomfortable.

LeenaLiberty said:
really annoying child like voices...
Just can't handle it for some reason, even if it is a uber hot gal. I know I can mute but the voice just tends to haunt me...
Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.
I have a valley girl accent. Guys sometimes complain about it saying I sound like a fake bimbo. Oh well.
 
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Evvie said:
The only models I have come across that I can't stand purposely play up the "I'm a little girl, tee-hee!" vibe. I saw one model wrapped up in pink and hello kitty items with a clearly faked high-pitched voice. She was a high pointed model so I guess it worked for her but it was annoying as fuck when I was there.

I always found that creepy.
The little girl stuff creeps me out a bit, too. Especially if guys are really into it. It's almost like they are imagining them to be younger, in a pedo type of way.
 
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Bocefish said:
Last dozen or so times I've visited a certain model's room in the past 6 months, it's her last weekend as a cam model so everyone NEEDS to buy her videos. :roll:

Well clearly the she hasn't sold enough videos to be able to leave! Get to it!
 
Evvie said:
Bocefish said:
Last dozen or so times I've visited a certain model's room in the past 6 months, it's her last weekend as a cam model so everyone NEEDS to buy her videos. :roll:

Well clearly the she hasn't sold enough videos to be able to leave! Get to it!

I actually fell for her sob story the first time and I DID buy all her videos. Silly me.
 
JickyJuly said:
Hehehe.For you own sake, please avoid my room at all costs. My voice sounds like a 5 year old stoner who snorted a few pixie stix for good measure. This is a common one though. Someone complains about mine at least once a night.

Aww. I feel bad now for saying that. :(
My apologies...
It's more of a fake child like voice that I am talking about-rather the natural high pitched ones...
The ones where you know that is how they really don't talk in normal life.....


I like the snorting pixie sticks analogy though. I remember going to the skating rink when I was young and doing that... lol :)

What about sucking helium? :)
 
I think the fake childishness (not just voice) skeeves me out as well. I mean, props to the model if she can take something awkward and run with it, but I wonder about the guys who hang out in her room.
 
Jessi said:
I think the fake childishness (not just voice) skeeves me out as well. I mean, props to the model if she can take something awkward and run with it, but I wonder about the guys who hang out in her room.


Yeah, my thoughts exactly...
 
Jessi said:
I think the fake childishness (not just voice) skeeves me out as well. I mean, props to the model if she can take something awkward and run with it, but I wonder about the guys who hang out in her room.

I don't know, in the BDSM subculture pedophilia certainly isn't acceptable, but there are a lot of "littles" which are adults who like to be in the mindset of a child, from infancy to teenage years. A good number of them do not allow sexual play while they are "little" but there are definitely a lot of people who are in to it. I guess my point is that a lot of people are attracted to the fantasy of an adult acting young but would never fantasize about a child.

Ahem. I'm now going to stop sounding like I'm defending pedophilia.
 
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