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Re: This that all premiums should know

Belgian said:
MadisonLeigh said:
I don't think a screenshot would really prove much of anything. Seems like it would just be he said/she said. I often send download links and passwords in an MFC Mail, whether the tip was online or offline, but someone could delete that message and take a screenshot if they wanted to pretend they never received their purchase.

I am not trying to argue or tell you how to spend your tokens, I just don't understand your aversion. :dontknow:

No we're not argueing you just don't agree with what i said that's no issue i still love you :mrgreen: no seriously people have disagreements now and then it's normal and you do have a point .... if somebody wanted to screw you he could delete the MFC mail but that would be verry childisch

PlayboyMegan said:
Exactly! Tips are GIFTS. When you buy your friend a gift, do you expect them to give something back every time???

Not all of them are bad though i also seen the same in pvt then i wonder do models know they have to be naked within a minute and they are not allowed to "time stretch" a pvt by undressing verry slowly.....
A lot of men like the teasing part in the beginning. The finger sucking, the slow strip, etc. Not all men like girls that rip off their clothes and start masturbating quickly. A lot of models don't do that to stretch out the pvt, but because they think it's sexy and I know many men that do too!
Also, for groups. If you just want to get to the point, try going into a group that has already been started a few min. in.
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

Belgian said:
CammiStar said:
Models don't "have" to do anything in private they don't feel comfortable doing.

Straight from the MFC Wiki:

Private shows
A member with tokens may click Go Private in a model's chat room or instant message window to invite a model into a Private Show, and the model may accept or decline this invitation. If the model accepts, the private show will start, and the member and model will be taken to a new private chat room.

Private shows cost 1 token per second, or 60 tokens per minute. That means that if you want to stay in private for 5 minutes, then you will need 300 tokens. A private show automatically ends when you run out of tokens. The member or model may also end it themselves any time.

What happens in a private show is strictly between the member and the model to decide. Unlike other sites, we do not require models to do specific things or follow a script. Generally speaking, most models are comfortable getting naked and fulfilling the requests of members. However, it is a good idea to send the model a private message and ask her what she is comfortable doing in a private show, before going private.

Models are real people and some are more shy than others and may want to get to know a member before getting into a private show. Everyone is different.

Private shows

There are no set rules for what a model must do in a private show. This is entirely up to the model and the member.

Nudity is customary in private shows so if the model does not feel comfortable with nudity she is required to tell the member within the first minute of the show.

Models should keep in mind that private shows are very expensive so delaying the show or asking for additional tips may be considered rude.


http://wiki.myfreecams.com/wiki/Rules_f ... vate_shows
When it says delaying the show, I think they meant things like:
"Hold on, let me fix my cam" *takes 3 min*
"Hold on, let me get my dildo" *comes back 5min later*
But slowly stripping IS a show itself. It's not delaying the show, but PART of it.
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

CammiStar said:
Belgian said:
MFC is an adult community not a place to "socialize" if people use it for that reason fine with me but it's an expensive socialize ...

This forum itself should tell you that MFC is a place where people come to socialize. People like the socialization so much they even take it outside of MFC to these forums.

We are actually people on the other side of the screen. Not robots or blow up dolls. If I go private, and the person on the other end starts barking orders at me or is rude within the first few seconds I end the private. THAT doesn't turn ME on.

I have ended privates as well or just not taken them if someone is rude. I come to MFC to have fun. Granted my camscore could probably be higher but at least when I'm logged onto MFC I know I had a good time that night.
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

SoTxBob said:
:text-imsorry: I really am sorry but that is perhaps the most ignorant thing you have said to date....
You have made it very clear that you are here to spend your nickels strictly to wank to naked body parts.
MANY of us however are able to converse with everyone else including the model, and formulate thoughts without having cock in hand. [AKA- "socializing".] As has been said, on line or off, when we do tip they are our tokens to spend how we see fit without any care of whether you approve or not. Our motivation should be of no concern to you at all. :naughty: Get over yourself. Pinch your own nickels and stop trying to tell others how it should be.
If you feel cheated for some reason by the girls you visit, whether its that they don't move fast enough for you or whatever, Id suggest you hit one of the bargain sites with cheaper rates and leave MFC to "the socialites" that can afford it...

It's a good thing you weren't following my path yesterday... I witnessed several girls making big bank, still clothed, that weren't "required" to get naked. Of course there were a few idiots that felt the need to call for how others tips needed to be spent, but they were short lived when the room called for them to STFU or get banned.

Just like you don't need my advice on howto spend your tokens i don't need your advice on which websites to visit lol that's just plain funny.I have no problems paying for MFC either lol fucking funny
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

CammiStar said:
Belgian said:
Nudity is customary in private shows so if the model does not feel comfortable with nudity she is required to tell the member within the first minute of the show.

Models should keep in mind that private shows are very expensive so delaying the show or asking for additional tips may be considered rude.


http://wiki.myfreecams.com/wiki/Rules_f ... vate_shows

http://wiki.myfreecams.com/wiki/Instruc ... vate_shows

Belgian said:
i wonder do models know they have to be naked within a minute

Please re-read your post. It does not say the model is required to get nude within the first minute of the private. It says if she is not GOING to get nude at all she should tell you. Who is to say taking more than one minute to get nude is delaying a show??

You should read the wiki for the Members (you) again. ;)

point made i'm sorry to rant about that
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

The_Brown_Fox said:
Those of us who are on cam sites that allow chargebacks (ImLive, etc.) are GLAD that on MFC your tips cannot be taken back. LOL. Though ImLive doesn't have 'tips', so maybe not the best comparison...

If it was that easy to have a tip refunded on MFC, I'm pretty sure a lot of the public cum show tippers would try to get refunded...AFTER they've already busted a nut watching the model's cum show. :lol:

I guess you can say 'tip at your own risk'? If you want a custom video, it'd be wise to at least spend a few minutes getting to know the model first before you tip 1,000 tokens (or whatever the price) for the video. Whether she comes through and sends you the video or not, those are tokens you're not getting back, so.....yeah, use your best judgement.

Probably wouldn't be a good idea to visit a room for the FIRST time and - after being there for 5 seconds with NO convo - immediately tip 1,000 tokens with the tip note "I want a school girl dildo show custom vid bb." :lol:

Who told you that lie ? chargebacks do work on any transaction though MFC will ban you and blacklist your creditcard so you can never buy tokens again with that creditcard
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

bud9752 said:
ALL PREMIUMS Should READ the
Take a Tour of Myfreecams.com
AND
Instructions and Features
LINKS at the bottom of the MAIN PAGE
my :twocents-02cents:

Meh us guys never read the instruction manual! :woops:
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

Belgian said:
Who told you that lie ? chargebacks do work on any transaction though MFC will ban you and blacklist your creditcard so you can never buy tokens again with that creditcard

The chargebacks don't get passed along to us.
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

WickedTouch said:
Exactly this. Tips are gifts... to be given as such. Many times we members don't ask for anything when we tip a girl... we do it because we like them.

Prime example I got tipped one day for being I quote "Nice and chatty" @_@ my second day, I was not expecting that. I wasn't even talking I was TYPING. (stupid parrots were being loud that day)
 
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Re: This that all premiums should know

Belgian said:
Who told you that lie ? chargebacks do work on any transaction though MFC will ban you and blacklist your creditcard so you can never buy tokens again with that creditcard



I wish I had read this sooner before that idiot got banned.

Good riddance, Mr. I like using run-on sentences and talking out of my ass. :dance:
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

I always like these posts where both sides state their opinion. :-D :thumbleft:

While I do see that these things annoying and I agree with your points, I must say that I did find the post a tad patronizing to us premium members. There are many members who do need to make a note of these rules but I honestly don't think many are on here (maybe with that clown Belgian being an exception).

For offline tips, they are great to issue (I like issuing them to thank models or to apologise if I missed them) and I understand the other uses of offline tipping, but I think some members may just be a bit apprehensive at times that they will tip and not receive what they had tipped for - although this does change if they get to know the model.

When I speak to a new model I agree that it is worth having quick look on their profile, although the ones with music playing them can be annoying (slight pet hate there :? ). It pays to find out a bit about them first and you can always find something on their profiles to start a conversation.

Saying please and thank you is just plain manners, I hate seeing people in a chat room who don't show any manners and there are no excuses for it. And 'bb' I can see as being very annoying as well (although im guilty of using words like hun and sweety :roll: )

Please be advised though that these are just my opinions, so feel free to slap me if you don't agree :violence-axechase: :thumbleft:
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

Wilfy84 said:
There are many members who do need to make a note of these rules but I honestly don't think many are on here (maybe with that clown Belgian being an exception).



Apparently Belgian still visits this forum (after being banned), because he just visited my MFC profile and posted a wall comment, mad about my "Good riddance" comment. :lol:
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

The_Brown_Fox said:
Wilfy84 said:
There are many members who do need to make a note of these rules but I honestly don't think many are on here (maybe with that clown Belgian being an exception).



Apparently Belgian still visits this forum (after being banned), because he just visited my MFC profile and posted a wall comment, mad about my "Good riddance" comment. :lol:
Yes! Now his profile wall comment makes some sense--well, not sense but I get the connection. :lol:

Curious if he's posted to anyone else's profiles since his ban.
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

I don't hear stories of ripoffs in offline tipping. I also don't hear much of tokens for things for sale and the model never delivering. Most models REALLY appreciate tips, and will go above and beyond to deliver the video, panties, etc requested. That is what me and tons of other models do. :-D
Another thing. . kindness is VERY appreciated. .

AND. .
WANT TO WATCH MY CAM??
is probably the MOST IGNORED AND ANNOYING PM EVER!

And... Privates are expensive on MFC. . I can fully understand how it would be wrong on the model's end to dilly dally in sessions. but I also think the single most important thing to do is to talk to the model through MFC mail or PM first about the private to see what she likes and will be willing to do in the show.
I'm weird, I don't mind orders being barked at me for privates. I will ban for it in a second in public chat, but not in private. The member is paying, he gets whatever he wants, as long as it isn't illegal or over the top. But then again that could be because I have been on private only sites for years now and I'm used to it.
 
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Re: This that all premiums should know

Wilfy84 said:
I must say that I did find the post a tad patronizing to us premium members. There are many members who do need to make a note of these rules but I honestly don't think many are on here.

I agree with your premise, and I do not want to pretend I know the OP's intentions, but this is how I took it:

Was meant to be informational rather than patronizing. Seems to me all could have been avoided if the thread title was "Questions I get tired of answering from idiots who show up in my room" or something to that effect, yet less harsh. :-D

Just my :twocents-02cents:
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

RogueWarrior said:
I agree with your premise, and I do not want to pretend I know the OP's intentions, but this is how I took it:

Was meant to be informational rather than patronizing. Seems to me all could have been avoided if the thread title was "Questions I get tired of answering from idiots who show up in my room" or something to that effect, yet less harsh. :-D

Just my :twocents-02cents:

I believe the title was meant to be a play on another person's thread about things Models should know.

I figure this, because Poker_Babe does not usually have as poor English as is displayed by the title, and the thread came out shortly after that other member's thread. All she did was take the title from his thread, and change it to read members instead of models.

The difference between the first thread and Poker's is that the first thread was a list of complaints that essentially said "Give me shit for free and hope that I feel like paying for more", while hers is actually answering questions that models get a lot.
 
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Re: This that all premiums should know

LadyLuna said:
RogueWarrior said:
I agree with your premise, and I do not want to pretend I know the OP's intentions, but this is how I took it:

Was meant to be informational rather than patronizing. Seems to me all could have been avoided if the thread title was "Questions I get tired of answering from idiots who show up in my room" or something to that effect, yet less harsh. :-D

Just my :twocents-02cents:

I believe the title was meant to be a play on another person's thread about things Models should know.

I figure this, because Poker_Babe does not usually have as poor English as is displayed by the title, and the thread came out shortly after that other member's thread. All she did was take the title from his thread, and change it to read members instead of models.

The difference between the first thread and Poker's is that the first thread was a list of complaints that essentially said "Give me shit for free and hope that I feel like paying for more", while hers is actually answering questions that models get a lot.

Ah ok I don't remember the other post :woops: Would explain it a bit more
 
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Wilfy84 said:
Ah ok I don't remember the other post :woops: Would explain it a bit more

Well I just tried a search for it but since every word in the thread title is overused elsewhere, the search is useless... and I don't feel like digging through the pages looking for it. Maybe when I start my streamate shift (I tend to get more privates when I'm doing something else... )
 
Re: This that all premiums should know

Well I apologize, I found the thread I was looking for, but it isn't nearly as badly worded as I thought I remembered...

Here you go
 
I get the worst of the lack of reading my profile. A few, when I asked them to look at my profile for answers told me that it was a waste of time.

But usually, when they ask something that's on my profile I make up a ridiculous answer. Keeping humor helps me from getting sour over petty things like that. It bothers me a lot but I what can ya do?
 
Don't request private or group without talking to the model first, and dont keep spamming her with requests after she declines you! Give her some fair warning and ask her if shes even ready to go :woops:
 
One thing I noticed that I can't understand is that when 3 members request a group and the model denies it, why do the same guys keep trying to start the group. NO MEANS NO
 
ga5457 said:
One thing I noticed that I can't understand is that when 3 members request a group and the model denies it, why do the same guys keep trying to start the group. NO MEANS NO
DUH.

Because women, especially cam models, are ALWAYS READY TO MASTURBATE at the whim of their admirers. She clearly didn't MEAN to deny the group, she frantically hit buttons while trying not to cum EVERYWHERE thinking about the cock-yanking going on on the other side of the Interwebs.

(And yeah, this is why I try to keep the group initiation option turned off until I am ready to actually do the group. People don't freakin' understand.)
 
ga5457 said:
One thing I noticed that I can't understand is that when 3 members request a group and the model denies it, why do the same guys keep trying to start the group. NO MEANS NO
HA! :lol: Some of my fellas like to do this shortly after a group just ended just to piss my off and give me a hard time. In fact it was the noise I v=battled last night while trying to say goodbye.
 
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Some other things to add:

Never request on someone else's tip. I see people do this all the time. It's annoying. If you didn't tip that amount, then you have no business requesting anything for that tip. It's especially true when you see a tip of 500 tokens or more come in, and especially from people you can easily assume are $20 basics.

Adding to that, if the member who tipped specifically said not for topic, don't get all pissy that any sort of topic countdown didn't go down. It's the member's choice if the tip is for a countdown/topic or not.
 
UncleThursday said:
Some other things to add:

Never request on someone else's tip. I see people do this all the time. It's annoying. If you didn't tip that amount, then you have no business requesting anything for that tip. It's especially true when you see a tip of 500 tokens or more come in, and especially from people you can easily assume are $20 basics.

Adding to that, if the member who tipped specifically said not for topic, don't get all pissy that any sort of topic countdown didn't go down. It's the member's choice if the tip is for a countdown/topic or not.
I get really pissed at the bloobs when they do this. I usually warn them in chat to not try to spend my tip. More than a few times they actually start to argue with me about it... :lol: :lol:
Typically, I don't engage them in their arguments, except when my next tip is to have the model get dressed or to ban them... :eek:bscene-birdiedoublered:
Sadly, it seems like 'freetard demand fever' is getting much worse since so many girls are giving it all up in free chat now..... At least to me, that action in itself seems to defeat the desire/need to even go GP/PVT for most rooms. Saw a model banging herself almost an hour straight last weekend, damn few tips. She quit, said "anyone want a pvt?" Got 3 replies, "Why pvt, you do it all in free..." Nuff said . :think:

 
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