She has CLEARLY stated she DID NOT flash him. She walked away.
THis whole thread is an example of how Cam Models create witch hunts. None of you actually care about the truth as you are ignoring it and running away with what you “think” happened and then just bashing Ginger.
I see this happen all the time in our community. People jumping in the bandwagon to bash a high profile model at ANY given opportunity based upon inaccurate information.
I see people in here who obviously already had issues with Ginger and just using this as another opportunity to bash her more.
Were any of you there??
Amber Cutie, I enjoy your site, but you’ve stooped to a new low here. You are perpetuating a false claim that Ginger inconsentingly flashed someone, which she has explauned she did not.
If you want to discuss this topic, that is one thing. To use it as an opportunity to just bash a Model who has been known to be controversial is making YOU a part of the problem in this Sex community.
Shame.
We are having a civil conversation about a topic that impacts a lot of people in this community. The discussion and reaction would have been the same, whether she had been a top cam model, top clip model, or a brand newbie no one has ever heard about. We have many similar discussions before, and often they are sparked by a specific incident, because that's how the world works. We talk about the big topics of that day. And public nudity is a big topic that will continue to appear, and we will continue to discuss as we each try to come to terms with our own personal boundaries, and what should be supported or encouraged, and what should not be. We've had this discussion about public library shows, we've had this discussion about outside shows in the park, videos that take place in public stores, videos that take place with unsuspecting people in the background. This is a conversation that has happened before and will happen again, as new situations spark new perspectives or angles. And I think it is an important one.
This discussion has been posted on the public forum, so ANYONE can chime in and post, whether they are directly involved in the situation or whether they just have views as an outsider. I don't see how it makes anyone petty to discuss such an important issue. No one has called her names. No one has bashed her. And I don't see any one here who didn't like her previously. This discussion would be happening regardless of who perpetuated it. People gave their views on the situation, based on her own words, posting links to Tweets that would give the entire context of the situation, so no one was posting based on hearsay. People gave their opinions based on the words that were used, and people voiced their discomfort and distrust because of the seemingly dismissive response based on whether nudity is sexual. None of that is bashing.
Even if she has clarified the situation, I don't think it changes the discussion. It wasn't really about HER. It was about whether it is okay for any model to do that. Because that is stuff we see pretty often, as public nudity is a big moneymaker. How okay is it to involve other people? Where is the line between sexual and non-sexual? Where is the line between public/note public? Is it okay to involve people directly? Is it okay to do sexual things under their noses and record it for money, so they are unwittingly drawn into sexual situations against their will? Or does their own obliviousness make it okay? And an important topic that is less about the sex-worker world, more about society at large: when the man turned down the sexual advances, why did he become the butt of so many jokes on the internet, when, if the genders had been switched, the situation would have turned out vastly different? Why can't men have personal boundaries without being shamed for it?
There is no bashing in having relevant discussions about topics that can involve so many members of the community (because, as I said, public nudity is a pretty common thing). Discussions are important to have, regardless of who is involved. Even if we like the people involved. Just because we like someone, it doesn't mean their actions should be ignored if we feel something majorly bad could have happened. Public nudity and consent is a HUUUUUUUUUGE grey area. Which is why these discussions are so necessary for our community to have. If it were simple black and white, there wouldn't be much to talk about. But public nudity can be complicated as hell, and as sex workers, it is important to discuss acceptable boundaries. It is important as humans to understand the importance of consent in all of its forms.
Honestly, I fail to see how such a big & important topic can be reduced to "petty", but what do I know. *shrugs*
