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Banned. But as always - why can't a compliment be made without comparison?
Just creates awkwardness for the model, and a sense of sadness for the wife.
I banned a guy with the user name ionlycheatwhenimsad

I don't consider porn consumption cheating but I know a ton of other people do. It just seemed weird to put such a target on their user name.
 
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I reported this guy directly on Stripchat and props, as always to their support, they did suspend or ban him (his profile is still banned, not sure if it will stay this way or not).
But a grey guy called crash0age84 was going around into Ukrainian model's rooms (I saw him in 2, I am sure he was doing more).

In the first model's room, in Russian, he said something like:
"You're a disgrace showing your cunt to men while your men fight and die"


I have a screenshot for the second room and his exact words (in Russian) were
"Watch her smile and strip naked for the camera while her people are being killed. You're a disgrace"


Some guys are just dumb as fuck.
Firstly who cares (I mean about this as a job), and secondly, a lot of these women are having to come and do something like this BECAUSE of the situation, so dumbasses like him need to think for a second.
 
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I reported this guy directly on Stripchat and props, as always to their support, they did suspend or ban him (his profile is still banned, not sure if it will stay this way or not).
But a grey guy called crash0age84 was going around into Ukrainian model's rooms (I saw him in 2, I am sure he was doing more).

In the first model's room, in Russian, he said something like:
"You're a disgrace showing your cunt to men while your men fight and die"


I have a screenshot for the second room and his exact words (in Russian) were
"Watch her smile and strip naked for the camera while her people are being killed. You're a disgrace"


Some guys are just dumb as fuck.
Firstly who cares (I mean about this as a job), and secondly, a lot of these women are having to come and do something like this BECAUSE of the situation, so dumbasses like him need to think for a second.
Thank u for reporting this guy! I'll keep an eye out for him on cb!
 
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What i really, really hate is when guys complain that I’m not loud enough or don’t squirt enough when i have an orgasm. I’m not loud ( and i can’t be because of neighbors) and usually don’t squirt fountains, but i can cum many times and really have fun. But there will always guys who complain or say something like “oh great now I tipped for your orgasm and didn't see any of it”/ “I’m not sure if you really had an orgasm”or they indirectly make it clear to you that they were not satisfied with what they saw.

I hate it when they don’t understand that every woman is different and not all of us have the ability to squirt like a waterfall or scream like crazy.

Recently had a guy who won toy control for 5 minutes in a raffle (for 35 tokens) and then complained in chat that he wasn't sure if I had an orgasm at all. Luckily I had a regular customer in the room who said that he can tell because he knows a me for a long time ( he is my regular since i started camming).

This is so unsexy that i sometimes really have issues to cum again after such statements.
 
I know, right! Is it me, or is there loads of this fetish about at the moment? I'm having a tonne of men ask to impregnate me recently. Gross.

What i really, really hate is when guys complain that I’m not loud enough or don’t squirt enough when i have an orgasm. I’m not loud ( and i can’t be because of neighbors) and usually don’t squirt fountains, but i can cum many times and really have fun. But there will always guys who complain or say something like “oh great now I tipped for your orgasm and didn't see any of it”/ “I’m not sure if you really had an orgasm”or they indirectly make it clear to you that they were not satisfied with what they saw.

I hate it when they don’t understand that every woman is different and not all of us have the ability to squirt like a waterfall or scream like crazy.

Recently had a guy who won toy control for 5 minutes in a raffle (for 35 tokens) and then complained in chat that he wasn't sure if I had an orgasm at all. Luckily I had a regular customer in the room who said that he can tell because he knows a me for a long time ( he is my regular since i started camming).

This is so unsexy that i sometimes really have issues to cum again after such statements.
The funny thing is they think fake orgasms are real. Not entirely sure why it makes any difference at all when looking at the big picture but there's always an asshole in every stream.
 
What i really, really hate is when guys complain that I’m not loud enough or don’t squirt enough when i have an orgasm. I’m not loud ( and i can’t be because of neighbors) and usually don’t squirt fountains, but i can cum many times and really have fun. But there will always guys who complain or say something like “oh great now I tipped for your orgasm and didn't see any of it”/ “I’m not sure if you really had an orgasm”or they indirectly make it clear to you that they were not satisfied with what they saw.

I hate it when they don’t understand that every woman is different and not all of us have the ability to squirt like a waterfall or scream like crazy.

Recently had a guy who won toy control for 5 minutes in a raffle (for 35 tokens) and then complained in chat that he wasn't sure if I had an orgasm at all. Luckily I had a regular customer in the room who said that he can tell because he knows a me for a long time ( he is my regular since i started camming).

This is so unsexy that i sometimes really have issues to cum again after such statements.
When did squirting become a major thing? I've never really been turned on by it or understood it. Do guys use it as proof of an orgasm?
Screaming just tends to distract me, at least loud screaming.

I don't cum everytime so why would I expect a woman to? As long as they enjoy it that's the point, on and off camera.
 
When did squirting become a major thing? I've never really been turned on by it or understood it. Do guys use it as proof of an orgasm?
Screaming just tends to distract me, at least loud screaming.

I don't cum everytime so why would I expect a woman to? As long as they enjoy it that's the
Probably around the same time it started to be a bannable offense on most sites. Some guys do think squirting = orgasm...when it's just a side effect of an orgasm and the bladder releasing fluid. Most will fight you tooth and nail when told it is urine/ish and say it's the only thing their wives could never do and it makes it even more of a turn on to them.
point, on and off camera.
 
Probably around the same time it started to be a bannable offense on most sites. Some guys do think squirting = orgasm...when it's just a side effect of an orgasm and the bladder releasing fluid. Most will fight you tooth and nail when told it is urine/ish and say it's the only thing their wives could never do and it makes it even more of a turn on to them.
I just wanna chin in and say I do squirt irl but thats very rare. Handy amount of guys who did it themselves w a LOT of effort. I just laugh my ass off when they ask me to squirt. Dude thats not how it works.
 
Lady moans when lush is being used "its not on she's faking it"
Lady doesn't moan when lush is being used "it's not on she's faking it"
Lady squirts "it's not real she's faking it, it's piss"
Lady doesn't squirt "she hasn't had an orgasm, she's faking it"

U girls can't win can u?
Squirt is always piss. Period. Female ejaculation is not piss/squirt. That comes from the skeins glands on the labia.
 
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Lady squirts "it's not real she's faking it, it's piss"
Yeah, I think when folk make this comment, what they may mean is that it appears the model has deliberately peed, rather than some fluid was released from the bladder around the time of an orgasm.
But there is a lot of misunderstanding, and I think many guys are genuinely curious about what it involves, what triggers it, and how it feels to experience.
 
I just wanna chin in and say I do squirt irl but thats very rare. Handy amount of guys who did it themselves w a LOT of effort. I just laugh my ass off when they ask me to squirt. Dude thats not how it works.
I've done it so many times I wish I had never done it at all. My urethra gets so sore and the clean up is a chore itself.

The girls who squirt fountains on cam have pregamed the show with a gallon of water. All this does is allow their bladder to refill immediately after they squirt. It's not something I as a female bodied person find impressive. They're actually damaging and weakening their bladder wall which makes having to pee during non-sexual activities kind of a dice game, "will I make it to the potty before I pee my pants?!"
 
What i really, really hate is when guys complain that I’m not loud enough or don’t squirt enough when i have an orgasm. I’m not loud ( and i can’t be because of neighbors) and usually don’t squirt fountains, but i can cum many times and really have fun. But there will always guys who complain or say something like “oh great now I tipped for your orgasm and didn't see any of it”/ “I’m not sure if you really had an orgasm”or they indirectly make it clear to you that they were not satisfied with what they saw.

I hate it when they don’t understand that every woman is different and not all of us have the ability to squirt like a waterfall or scream like crazy.

Recently had a guy who won toy control for 5 minutes in a raffle (for 35 tokens) and then complained in chat that he wasn't sure if I had an orgasm at all. Luckily I had a regular customer in the room who said that he can tell because he knows a me for a long time ( he is my regular since i started camming).

This is so unsexy that i sometimes really have issues to cum again after such statements.

Many guys claim to want to see a model get herself off, yet they won’t even let you genuinely get yourself off the way that YOU want to. It has to be the way that THEY demand it to be. And even when you are giving genuine moans, it’s “Don’t hold back for me, bb. Let it out.” 😂 Um…guy, what makes you think I’m holding back? If you think I’m about to get myself a noise complaint for screaming at 1 AM (because you watch too much porn and have unrealistic expectations about how women MUST scream and squirt buckets during an orgasm), you’re out your damn mind. Then they wonder why so many models end up faking it…probably to shut them up. We don’t want to keep hearing every 2 seconds “I want you to cum all over the place…are you gonna cum for me, bb…turn around and bend over…lemme see your whole body and face, bb…talk dirty, bb.” Omg, please shut the fuck up, bb. Stuff like that makes me want the private session to just end already, because now it’s become a chore.

“But all of my girlfriends have been able to cum from ______.” Cool story, bro…
 
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And sorry if I womansplained. Squirting is the only hill I will die on with great pride and immense passion.

It shouldn't matter that it is urine. Shouldn't matter how much or how often. Shouldn't matter if it never happens.

Men can orgasm without physical ejaculation.

When women orgasm the vaginal canal gets wetter, THAT is female ejaculate. But it's much harder to see on cam than squirting.
 
And sorry if I womansplained. Squirting is the only hill I will die on with great pride and immense passion.

It shouldn't matter that it is urine. Shouldn't matter how much or how often. Shouldn't matter if it never happens.
I think it's great that you (and others here) can speak knowledgeably about this, and other aspects of our bodies. Education helps with understanding.
Men can orgasm without physical ejaculation.
I read about this fairly recently, here (at least) it's known as 'dry orgasm':
 
I think it's great that you (and others here) can speak knowledgeably about this, and other aspects of our bodies. Education helps with understanding.

I read about this fairly recently, here (at least) it's known as 'dry orgasm':
The human body is fascinating, I know I've turned off thousands of viewers by not playing the game of "but that's how it works in porn!" This ain't porn bb. You're in a cam room with someone who invited you into their home and you're going to act like it. (This is how I run my room, not saying that's every room or that it should be.) Thanks for coming to my Vagina Talk! :D
 
And sorry if I womansplained. Squirting is the only hill I will die on with great pride and immense passion.

It shouldn't matter that it is urine. Shouldn't matter how much or how often. Shouldn't matter if it never happens.

Men can orgasm without physical ejaculation.

When women orgasm the vaginal canal gets wetter, THAT is female ejaculate. But it's much harder to see on cam than squirting.
I really appreciate your insight and experience.
 
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Well, holy fuck balls. I had some unusual drama yesterday on Stripchat in PM. This is the first it has ever truly happened in all my time on any cam site.
I have added the whole PM in a spoiler tag, it's quite long but I promise you, you will get a good kick out of it from some of the things the user said and claimed.
Some things to note first:
- There are 3 of us including her as a Knight in the model's room.
- The model is in the USA and is with a studio (she's the one I mentioned I joined the fan club for then she switched the next day)
- This user PMing me says they are female and a model themselves
- As you can see, throughout the whole PM I tried to remain nice and friendly and keep any peace but as the PM progressed, you can probably see me losing my patience
-- I constantly tried to just "end" the conversation by saying to let the support handle it, etc
- This user kept going on about a "secret" (I have spoken with the model properly about this whole thing and told her all the claims, and she was quite quick to laugh and tell me what the secret was: I promise it's nothing illegal at all).
- I think I am missing so much more stuff here but, wow, yeah I really think you should read and have a nice laugh (VAPING is illegal, is one claim - intrigued now? Go read haha)


MeganSmith79
Why did she send me a message and ban me when I wasn’t even online? That’s against the rules
MeganSmith79
You were offered a refund and refused. Now it is too late. Sorry.
That’s a lie from her I wasn’t ever offered from her at all. Her other knight been harressing me with lies
MeganSmith79
[Other Knight] Why is he harressing me for? Why didn’t she contact me?

ME
[Model] banned you? I don't know why or what has happened. But it's not against any rules for a model to decide to ban someone whether they are online or offline, it's their decision either way.
ME
I have no clue why the other knight is harassing you, I have never spoken to the person before. What is he doing or saying and why? Have you reported him and sent screenshots to support, try get him banned for harassment. And of course, block him from being able to send you PMs.
ME
I have literally no clue what is happening, i was in bed when all this happened (5:30 am my time when you sent the first message to me)

MeganSmith79
I am a model trying to help her but she has poor internet and lied she never contacted me on a refund ever. So she needs to pm me not have a knight that has no business harassing a model in the first place. Yes I sent his post to support with pictures. Yes I blocked him

MeganSmith79
Watch all you want, we are offering you a refund. You have to provide the amount per the site TOS. His fake post of trying to be support team. She has a scammer as a knight

MeganSmith79
So I am happy to help in any way I can. But if you need a refund I will also provide that if you didnt receive the services.
Id appreciate you keeping that between us. But she wanted me to help and handle any trouble you had personally.

MeganSmith79
See he is a scammer

MeganSmith79
she needs to know about him

MeganSmith79
But I never asked for a refund she believes his lies and never contacted me on this just him being troubled and threatening me
Please let her know on his behavior

MeganSmith79
she banned a model that did privates with her no body else has that I seen

ME
why did he start going on about a refund in the first place?

MeganSmith79
You were offered a refund and refused. Now it is too late. Sorry. When was I offered this from her or support team? Never happened
she must be talking of his lies

MeganSmith79
You were offered a refund and refused. Now it is too late. Sorry. Her pm to me

MeganSmith79
then was banned

ME
This is all very weird and confusing, why did SHE think you wanted a refund? just because he said you did?

MeganSmith79
wasn’t in room or online at time I was gone talked to support team
I said I was leaving and got this crap from her and him
please talk to her on his behavior
He will get her shut down

ME
I will talk with her and see what she says from her perspective and why she banned you and try to understand better

MeganSmith79
Ok don’t know what happened when I had a family emergency

MeganSmith79
I left for

ME
I was her knight before, she recently switched accounts for a studio one.

MeganSmith79
She is in usa and we do do studio here

MeganSmith79
You can report him too

ME
I haven't personally experienced anything from him to report, so i can't really do it, from my perspective it's just your words against his for now

MeganSmith79
She told me a secret in private I can share if I am not unbanned

MeganSmith79
You can say I can share it if not unblock but I bet it’s a lie too

ME
What was the previous contact/messages BEFORE this whole "refund" thing, why did he or she first mention about it?

MeganSmith79
I said I left since she didn’t like me when I try to do privates then had a family emergency
I had to leave and travel for
I pm with that knight in car
he was ok at first then went crazy

MeganSmith79
I am blocked for 30 day with no warning from her first

MeganSmith79
I had message from her too

MeganSmith79
He runs members off and I get pm why he does that or my friends will text me. Since I was a knight

MeganSmith79
Out of 3 knights I am only one with experience to know how it all works and know from being a model

MeganSmith79
Just shows he is a racist and sexist guy

ME
She replied to me: apparently you tried to have a private and she missed it a few times by accident, you got very mad with her in PM, then because of this, the studio banned you, not her

MeganSmith79
She not in a studio. And she didn’t see come up many time and as I said I had a family emergency I had to leave for didn’t know that will get you banned to leave. Sad she has slow internet that come 10 minutes after but was requested

MeganSmith79
Why didn’t she pm me?

MeganSmith79
No respect from her

ME
I can't speak for her, this is what I was told
i have to take your word at face value and her word for it, i was not there and didn't see anything

MeganSmith79
Why she to chicken to tell me this when I had a emergency in the family

MeganSmith79
please explain to her that why I was mad getting a bad phone call

ME
I don't know, but it was the studio who banned you

MeganSmith79
Lol she not in a studio in usa we don’t allow it.
It was all him told her lies to ban me

MeganSmith79
Support is investigating them and I don’t see her on her long

ME
Well good luck to either part i guess, it's hard for me to really have a say or opinion since i only know what you tell me or what she/they tell me so i'm just in the middle of it all

MeganSmith79
Why she not contacting me on her issue?? Why he been harressing me that falls on her

MeganSmith79
Ask her why she broke the rules? Where was my warning at first? Why didn’t she talk to me ? She want me to tell her secret?

ME
What rule is that? any model can ban any user when they want, for any reason they want

MeganSmith79
Must give a warning first in the rules
ask her to talk
Why she treat me like she did when I almost loss a family member in a car accident

MeganSmith79
You ask her what she try to sell me in private! I can share with support and she will be gone some site is being investigated by our government

ME
Oh, and what did she try to sell you?

MeganSmith79
Not saying that’s against the rules and against our laws

ME
ok

MeganSmith79
Private is all recorded

ME
even without it recorded the site still has access, so they can investigate it fine
just wait for them to conclude any investigation, good luck with it

MeganSmith79
She can’t vape on cam against laws

ME
well that's something you will have to discuss with the site, not me

MeganSmith79
Government will with her

MeganSmith79
Wish I knew what her issue is as support said models need to contact members if there is a issue not run and hide from it

MeganSmith79
It true she has alcohol on cam? Just a rumor I heard
So what is her problem?
It. Helps when she been shut down before

MeganSmith79
I will give you one last chance to apologize and be a decent person. Or we can all ban/block you. Your choice Lol. I was blocked so how can I do this dummy??

MeganSmith79
So what is her issue with me? Just a racist she is
Just show she lazy by not talking and get help from someone with experience
Police are investigating her secret now

ME
Models don't need to contact support with issues, they are free to ban or mute any person in their room that they see fit to do so. it is 100% up to them WHY they do it, there is no rule to state otherwise.

MeganSmith79
You don’t know the model rules
Become a model and find out

MeganSmith79
So what is her problem? She gets fined now for no response
to support

ME
I know the model's rules well, I 1) Have my own account which is verified, and 2) speak with a lot of experienced models

MeganSmith79
your a model?
how does a model get verified then?

ME
Look, I can't do anything, i tried to be nice and to help initially, and obviously told you there is nothing I can do after the fact I would try to see why she banned you. I found out why and passed it on so you would know so you could have closure or whatever. I continued to be nice and continually explained i can't do anything and told you to stick with talking to support.. but now it's too much.


Can’t chat with banned users
You cannot message Megansmith79 because you’ve banned them.
 
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The human body is fascinating, I know I've turned off thousands of viewers by not playing the game of "but that's how it works in porn!" This ain't porn bb. You're in a cam room with someone who invited you into their home and you're going to act like it. (This is how I run my room, not saying that's every room or that it should be.) Thanks for coming to my Vagina Talk! :D
I think some models get gunshy because of it. I've had initial privates where I had to convince the model that I didn't want a porn experience, I just wanted them to do whatever felt good to them regardless of what it was. They seemed skeptical at first.
 
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