Things Members Say That Make You Go "WTF?"

[darcyduke]

I thought they need to be able to PM the model? Usually I can't PM unless the model has PMed me first, or I am in fan club. Then once I can PM I an send images.

I have had messages sent with pics without me making contact first. Either way, it is irritating.

 

[Sashacurves]

Today I experienced for the first time in my camming career what happens when an SPH fetish guy doesn't know his own limits. Kept asking me to be "really nasty" and "call him the worst names" etc and I pretty much just did my normal routine (which no one else has ever said was too far before!).

After about 5mins he clearly just broke and started hauling insults back at me about how I'm not as attractive as I think I am and it's only small because it can't get hard enough because I'm so ugly. I was so shocked I just started genuinely laughing in his face and he ended the show. What the fuck

 

[Highlander884]

Today I experienced for the first time in my camming career what happens when an SPH fetish guy doesn't know his own limits. Kept asking me to be "really nasty" and "call him the worst names" etc and I pretty much just did my normal routine (which no one else has ever said was too far before!).

After about 5mins he clearly just broke and started hauling insults back at me about how I'm not as attractive as I think I am and it's only small because it can't get hard enough because I'm so ugly. I was so shocked I just started genuinely laughing in his face and he ended the show. What the fuck

Hmm think this guy might be needing counselling.

 

[Smoothie]

Today I experienced for the first time in my camming career what happens when an SPH fetish guy doesn't know his own limits. Kept asking me to be "really nasty" and "call him the worst names" etc and I pretty much just did my normal routine (which no one else has ever said was too far before!).

After about 5mins he clearly just broke and started hauling insults back at me about how I'm not as attractive as I think I am and it's only small because it can't get hard enough because I'm so ugly. I was so shocked I just started genuinely laughing in his face and he ended the show. What the fuck

I’m guessing his safe word is “projection.”

 

[Vixxen81]

Hey @Sashacurves good to see you! How's the full time camming going?

Just had a guy come in and tip me and told me I had nice nipples. So I asked, "what makes bad nipples?" He said, "the inverted ones" and it took everything I had not to say "oh like the head of your micro-dick that's obscured by your stomach." I need to win the damn lottery to get my head back in this game. I am so so so sick of these guys.

 

[Vixxen81]

And what is the obsession with "I can't tip you" comments. Then shut up!!!

 

[NotYou]

And what is the obsession with "I can't tip you" comments. Then shut up!!!

I used to do this with some models (but not as a grey user). If I had no money to buy tokens i'd always make that comment or similar, but luckily I had a nice model just say to me "it's ok you don't need to tell models each time, when you can, you will" (because she knows I did/do/would). So I was just "oh yeah ok that is fine and obviously makes sense". At the time I thought I was being polite to not "annoy" the model and take too much of her time, but I was also taught that it was more annoying having that kind of comment.

(some of us can learn, I promise, with some we just need to be told so we know - not just regarding this but maybe other things too)

 

[darcyduke]

I used to do this with some models (but not as a grey user). If I had no money to buy tokens i'd always make that comment or similar, but luckily I had a nice model just say to me "it's ok you don't need to tell models each time, when you can, you will" (because she knows I did/do/would). So I was just "oh yeah ok that is fine and obviously makes sense". At the time I thought I was being polite to not "annoy" the model and take too much of her time, but I was also taught that it was more annoying having that kind of comment.

(some of us can learn, I promise, with some we just need to be told so we know - not just regarding this but maybe other things too)

But you'll still sit there and enjoy her for free. NICE.

 

[NotYou]

But you'll still sit there and enjoy her for free. NICE.

This was the end of 2016 when I was new to camsites. I have learned a lot since then and am very different.
Early on (as I have mentioned before) I didn't care about anything like that as I was your typical grey in the sense of "I am not paying for porn when I can get it free on google" but then I started to buy and spend/tip, and voila, my opinion started to change and I started to learn/understand when I spoke more and more with models.

 

[Sashacurves]

Hey @Sashacurves good to see you! How's the full time camming going?

Just had a guy come in and tip me and told me I had nice nipples. So I asked, "what makes bad nipples?" He said, "the inverted ones" and it took everything I had not to say "oh like the head of your micro-dick that's obscured by your stomach." I need to win the damn lottery to get my head back in this game. I am so so so sick of these guys.

Hey @Vixxen81! I still haven't bloody started yet haha. The last day of my job's 4 weeks notice period is tomorrow, so it's full time camming from there on!

Ugh I hate when guys do that thinking they're complimenting you by putting other girls down but really they're just highlighting how judgemental they are. Great response though! These slow periods really do bring out the worst kinda members don't they, ones you're normally too busy to bat an eyelid at

 

[Vixxen81]

Hey @Vixxen81! I still haven't bloody started yet haha. The last day of my job's 4 weeks notice period is tomorrow, so it's full time camming from there on!

Ugh I hate when guys do that thinking they're complimenting you by putting other girls down but really they're just highlighting how judgemental they are. Great response though! These slow periods really do bring out the worst kinda members don't they, ones you're normally too busy to bat an eyelid at

I'm sure you're nervous and excited! I'm excited for you.

I hate it when guys try to neg, like don't you have anything better to talk about than someone else's body? Billions of conversation topics right there at your finger tips, instead you got to act a fool and make me put my Bitch Hat on.

 

[Sashacurves]

I'm sure you're nervous and excited! I'm excited for you.

100% - been back and forward between extreme excitement and terrified regret a few times already

I hate it when guys try to neg, like don't you have anything better to talk about than someone else's body? Billions of conversation topics right there at your finger tips, instead you got to act a fool and make me put my Bitch Hat on.

Yep exactly, so unnecessary!

 

[Sashacurves]

Speaking of negging...

"Gosh. I feel so bad. You deserve *so many* followers. Though maybe you’re just getting started. I can’t exactly spread the word for you — I have like no followers!"

lovely message today, ffs what goes through people's heads for them to go to the effort of writing these kinds of things

 

[Vixxen81]

Speaking of negging...

"Gosh. I feel so bad. You deserve *so many* followers. Though maybe you’re just getting started. I can’t exactly spread the word for you — I have like no followers!"

lovely message today, ffs what goes through people's heads for them to go to the effort of writing these kinds of things

"Geeze it's so quiet in here, where is everybody?!"

I don't know, I'm.not.their.supervisor.

 

[darcyduke]

Speaking of negging...

"Gosh. I feel so bad. You deserve *so many* followers. Though maybe you’re just getting started. I can’t exactly spread the word for you — I have like no followers!"

lovely message today, ffs what goes through people's heads for them to go to the effort of writing these kinds of things

What an absolute imbecile.

 

[CallMeMaria]

Glamorous life of a cam model - one minute you are getting marriage proposals and the next minute your forehead is too big. Gotta love it, hey?

 

[rockin_rod]

A grey user joined the room and directed this to me:
"wow dude, you're here a lot...... in fact, every time I visit"
Guess he doesn't consider that I could say exactly the same thing about him

 

[rockin_rod]

 

[Carmen_Monroe]

Member in PM: Is it possible to meet you ? for money ? ( this guy complained also about my prices months ago)
Me: This is a CAMSITE *blocked*
Had so many who asked for dates this week. So annoying.

Another member was nice first and then wrote this in my room “You’re not perfect but at least you’re real” Thanks for the “compliment”

Another member was harassing my mod because I blocked him for inappropriate comments. He begged my mod for free nudes of me in public chat and just complained that he had no tokens and never won any. Now he's annoying and says it was all just “fun”. Stupid camgirl didn’t get the joke.How much i love gaslighting. Yes, very funny to humiliate a model in public chat and make her feel like you can't even buy the cheapest token package and tip her fucking $10 even though you were entertained half the evening. I hate this guys so much who think that my time and entertainment should be for free, because they don’t ask for pussy.

Had another one with almost 20000 tokens on his account, sitting in my room for almost 2 hours. Watching for free. Then i saw his tokens go down , so he was clearly tipping another model. I kicked him out of my room. Don’t get me wrong, i do understand that users maybe need a little bit of time to see if they like the model. But sitting in my room for hours , don’t talk to me or tip me but another model, is so disrespectful and just pathetic.

This was seriously “a week of assholes”. Honestly, german guys are the worst type of costumers. Almost always cheap, disrespectful and annoying.

 

[Yep_Nope_Maybe]

I thought they need to be able to PM the model? Usually I can't PM unless the model has PMed me first, or I am in fan club. Then once I can PM I an send images.

The only CB users that can initiate a PM or DM to a model are Site Supporters ($20/month paid to the site), a Broadcaster's Moderators, and a Broadcaster's Fan Club Members.

A picture uploaded to PM is blurred-out until the Broadcaster clicks on it (which they can choose to not do, or they may ask the sender for a tip-amount to open it). Once opened, the sender gets a notice confirming that the picture was opened.

Source: twitter.com/cbupdatenews/status/1456757493263130626

Blurring, however, does not apply to images that have been uploaded to CB's Image Library. If you see an emoticon or image that violates site rules, you can click on it and report it for manual-review and removal.

 

[misterical]

The last day of my job's 4 weeks notice period is tomorrow, so it's full time camming from there on!

Good luck.

 

[Nienna]

• Member - "Пожалуйста, сквирт" (please squirt)
• Member - "Зеленоглазый такс" (green-eyed taxi)
• Me, (in pm) "Russian guy being an ass?"
• Model "That's putting it mildly "

Interesting. Calling a woman a "taxi" is a big insult in Russia.

 

[yummybrownfox]

And what is the obsession with "I can't tip you" comments. Then shut up!!!

The amounts of money that some of these guys will shell out just for the SuperBowl alone (clothing, food and beer, face paint, betting, party decor, etc.). But will go into a cam model's room, and get annoyed that it's 20 tokens to "stand and turn around, bb."

 

[Vixxen81]

The amounts of money that some of these guys will shell out just for the SuperBowl alone (clothing, food and beer, face paint, betting, party decor, etc.). But will go into a cam model's room, and get annoyed that it's 20 tokens to "stand and turn around, bb."

So damn true! Fan club member tried to snow me that he didn't have any more tokens. He's new so I haven't broken out the "I know you have more than me," line yet. But I feel it comin!

 

[Autumn Nights]

Had another one with almost 20000 tokens on his account, sitting in my room for almost 2 hours. Watching for free. Then i saw his tokens go down , so he was clearly tipping another model. I kicked him out of my room. Don’t get me wrong, i do understand that users maybe need a little bit of time to see if they like the model. But sitting in my room for hours , don’t talk to me or tip me but another model, is so disrespectful and just pathetic.

This was seriously “a week of assholes”. Honestly, german guys are the worst type of costumers. Almost always cheap, disrespectful and annoying.

I hate that! Or if they tip 1s and ask for the world when I can see they have thousands. I know what you mean about German guys; a while ago someone from Germany asked me to perform an action, I told him the price, and he said "well I'm from Germany and don't believe in tipping." As rude as that line was, it does tell you their cultural perspective. Even though calling it a "tip" is just a nice way to say "payment"...

 

[misterical]

I hate that! Or if they tip 1s and ask for the world when I can see they have thousands. I know what you mean about German guys; a while ago someone from Germany asked me to perform an action, I told him the price, and he said "well I'm from Germany and don't believe in tipping." As rude as that line was, it does tell you their cultural perspective. Even though calling it a "tip" is just a nice way to say "payment"...

Tip is not a great term actually. In Europe there isn't a tipping culture like in the US. Tips are viewed as an optional extra whereas in the US tips are obligatory on a cultural level. Payment would be a better term.

 

[NotYou]

Tip is not a great term actually. In Europe there isn't a tipping culture like in the US. Tips are viewed as an optional extra whereas in the US tips are obligatory on a cultural level. Payment would be a better term.

The same here for England. Since we have a minimum wage for different ages, the person is already getting paid for that service, regardless of how good or bad they are. So it's not something that is needed, but I understand that in the US it's not the same so many people rely mostly on tips, I think (hopefully someone can correct me).


BUT with that said, tipping on a cam site is very different from tipping for service in real life. Unless you have paid for a subscription to a porn site and it's meant to be "inclusive" but you can tip as optional (I guess, take Onlyfans as an example). I know Americans would see this as strange unless you have been here but "tipping" in real life just isn't something you think about here, maybe those who have plenty of money, but not the typical person.

 

[NotYou]

This is a sort of tiny "wtf" but also curious what your models think of this kind of proposition:


The model has "flash boobs" on her tip menu for 40 tokens.
A guy asks "20 tokens to show ONE boob?"
Do you say "ok yes" or "no, it's 40 for both boobs or none at all?"

 

[Vixxen81]

Tip is not a great term actually. In Europe there isn't a tipping culture like in the US. Tips are viewed as an optional extra whereas in the US tips are obligatory on a cultural level. Payment would be a better term.

This is a sort of tiny "wtf" but also curious what your models think of this kind of proposition:


The model has "flash boobs" on her tip menu for 40 tokens.
A guy asks "20 tokens to show ONE boob?"
Do you say "ok yes" or "no, it's 40 for both boobs or none at all?"

He's getting the shortest flash he's ever seen in his life.

 

[Sashacurves]

Do you say "ok yes" or "no, it's 40 for both boobs or none at all?"

I tell them it's now gone up to 80tk