I don't know what site this is, but if on CB, I think a model can tell who has spied on a show by tokens spent. At least that is what one of my model friends told me. If you haven't spied on private shows, how could you been selling the videos? Maybe that is your proof.
Hopefully some jealous moron didn't set up a user on a video sharing site using a name similar to yours. That would suck and may be their "evidence".
This was the only thing I could think of too when I was speaking about it with a friend on WhatsApp.
It's on Stripchat where this happened, but as with anywhere, it can be seen in her history if I have spied, for how long and how many tokens I spent doing it. I think it's quite in-depth for stuff like this on Strpchat's token history for a model from what i have been told/seen.
When I thought about this as you did, we had already moved on from the topic of it, so it would have been silly for me to bring it up again. There is one other guy who is in the chat room a lot when I am also there (i think he spends all his time there). And so my conclusion is that it's him (a guy that never tips public, not sure if he goes pvt with her, but he is an ultimate user, so I assume he talks in pm with her as he doesn't do so in public). Sometimes, I speak in public, sometimes PM, it kind of depends on what it is we are talking about. So, i can only conclude it's this guy, but then I am unsure if it is - although I guess it doesn't matter who it is since I can't do anything.
I will leave it be unless it's brought up again.
Edit:
I just want to add, that I genuinely did appreciate her asking me outright and confronting me, as I told her in the PM you see above, she could have just took a random guys word (especially if she has known him for as long as me, or longer), and simply banned me without a second thought. Luckily, I think because we have spoken lots, laughed lots, had a private etc she "knows" me ( as stupid as that can be since how well do we really know each other online especially camsites).