Things Everybody (But You) Find Sexy

[JoleneBrody]

I have one! Pale lipstick and overly tan skin.
It just looks bizarre to me.

 

[CourtneyJayne]

^ Honestly, the wrong nude lipstick, no matter your skintone, can make you look like a corpse or something. I think it's harder to find a good nude than a red.

 

[JoleneBrody]

I have one! Pale lipstick and overly tan skin.
It just looks bizarre to me.

Oops I thought I should clarify, it's the combination of pale lipstick and overly tanned skin. The combo just reminds me of a photo negative.

 

[Ambers Troll]

will admit I did struggle to enjoy you at first. I am also not a big fan of piercings or tattoos.
Part of the fun of camming is that you can push your boundaries with who you choose.

Things Nobody Finds Sexy And I Don't Find Sexy Either:
Backhanded compliments.

That was a cruel quote by omission, what I said was actually a compliment. Looking past something you don't like, to see the beauty or sexiness in someone that you do like is the highest compliment of all.

I am even more offended by you saying this as you know my preferences on dark eyes and flawless skin tone, it is women who look exactly like you. If I do return to chat, I wont visit you again.
I will be looking for JJ most definitely.

 

[Nordling]

will admit I did struggle to enjoy you at first. I am also not a big fan of piercings or tattoos.
Part of the fun of camming is that you can push your boundaries with who you choose.

Things Nobody Finds Sexy And I Don't Find Sexy Either:
Backhanded compliments.

That was a cruel quote by omission, what I said was actually a compliment. Looking past something you don't like, to see the beauty or sexiness in someone that you do like is the highest compliment of all.

I am even more offended by you saying this as you know my preferences on dark eyes and flawless skin tone, it is women who look exactly like you. If I do return to chat, I wont visit you again.
I will be looking for JJ most definitely.

I have a feeling you've relieved her. What she said was correct. When you say, in essence, "I like you in spite of your flaws," it's a classic backhanded complement. See, there's never a reason EVER to tell someone what you don't like about them, and you can never qualify yourself out of that.

 

[Ambers Troll]

"I like you in spite of your flaws,"

Isn't that what is called love? ... marriages are made from this. To call this a backhanded compliment is insulting to those who like anyone for real.

Here is the full quote.

Your eyes are in the mid range for blue eyes JJ., but will admit I did struggle to enjoy you at first. I am also not a big fan of piercings or tattoos.
Part of the fun of camming is that you can push your boundaries with who you choose. Can all those things that you like/ enjoy about someone counteract what you don't? I have always been thrilled by adventurous women, dancers, heat, and sensitive fair skin so enjoying you didn't take long.

 

[JoleneBrody]

In my own defense here.
I'm very sensitive to backhanded compliments since a backhanded compliment usually falls out of peoples mouths before even a 'hello' in my world, but in this case I wasn't insulted because I actually know him as a member first and foremost. He's proven to me personally that he likes me and respects me... long before I ever knew he isn't usually attracted to my physical niche. That was almost like a little secret that came out later and because it wasn't brought up until MUCH later, I actually did find it flattering.

I know nobody else could have known those personal details but when he directed that comment to me, he did so on the back of a couple of years of kindness and respect on MFC.

I appreciate you all sticking up for me though and I stand by my stance on a negative should never be used to give a positive... in all other cases. I didn't genuinely read his comment as insulting my tattoos and piercings though, just that it's a niche he's never been drawn to but that he enjoys me enough that my personal style choice never bothered him. If that had been the first time I'd ever spoken with him though I would have found it in poor manners.

I started the conversation when I joked about him liking me despite my blue eyes, so that topic is on me.

 

[AmberCutie]

In my own defense here.
I'm very sensitive to backhanded compliments since a backhanded compliment usually falls out of peoples mouths before even a 'hello' in my world, but in this case I wasn't insulted because I actually know him as a member first and foremost. He's proven to me personally that he likes me and respects me... long before I ever knew he isn't usually attracted to my physical niche. That was almost like a little secret that came out later and because it wasn't brought up until MUCH later, I actually did find it flattering.

I know nobody else could have known those personal details but when he directed that comment to me, he did so on the back of a couple of years of kindness and respect on MFC.

I appreciate you all sticking up for me though and I stand by my stance on a negative should never be used to give a positive... in all other cases. I didn't genuinely read his comment as insulting my tattoos and piercings though, just that it's a niche he's never been drawn to but that he enjoys me enough that my personal style choice never bothered him. If that had been the first time I'd ever spoken with him though I would have found it in poor manners.

I started the conversation when I joked about him liking me despite my blue eyes, so that topic is on me.

It's good that at least a few people like him. Otherwise he'd have been banned and re-banned again here at ACF. Clearly I am not a fan of his, as he's named himself for such, and a lot of us HATE people like him who give backhanded compliments on the regular and throw their hands up like "what, what did I do?" afterward.

A compliment could have been given without a salute to things they don't like on a person and wouldn't have been quoted and harped on.

 

[JoleneBrody]

In my own defense here.
I'm very sensitive to backhanded compliments since a backhanded compliment usually falls out of peoples mouths before even a 'hello' in my world, but in this case I wasn't insulted because I actually know him as a member first and foremost. He's proven to me personally that he likes me and respects me... long before I ever knew he isn't usually attracted to my physical niche. That was almost like a little secret that came out later and because it wasn't brought up until MUCH later, I actually did find it flattering.

I know nobody else could have known those personal details but when he directed that comment to me, he did so on the back of a couple of years of kindness and respect on MFC.

I appreciate you all sticking up for me though and I stand by my stance on a negative should never be used to give a positive... in all other cases. I didn't genuinely read his comment as insulting my tattoos and piercings though, just that it's a niche he's never been drawn to but that he enjoys me enough that my personal style choice never bothered him. If that had been the first time I'd ever spoken with him though I would have found it in poor manners.

I started the conversation when I joked about him liking me despite my blue eyes, so that topic is on me.

It's good that at least a few people like him. Otherwise he'd have been banned and re-banned again here at ACF. Clearly I am not a fan of his, as he's named himself for such, and a lot of us HATE people like him who give backhanded compliments on the regular and throw their hands up like "what, what did I do?" afterward.

A compliment could have been given without a salute to things they don't like on a person and wouldn't have been quoted and harped on.

Oh I can definitely understand that. He knows he drives me crazy on the forums too :lol: I honestly wouldn't blame you one bit for banning him.
This was very rare extenuating circumstances and a very poor choice of delivery location. If I was ya'll I would have jumped on him too.

 

[LilyMarie]

That was a cruel quote by omission, what I said was actually a compliment. Looking past something you don't like, to see the beauty or sexiness in someone that you do like is the highest compliment of all.

What Nordling said reflects my view on this: it was a typical backhanded compliments.
You're lucky Jolene didn't feel insulted because she made experiences with you that in her eyes made up for the quasi-insult.

I am even more offended by you saying this as you know my preferences on dark eyes and flawless skin tone, it is women who look exactly like you.

No, I didn't know about those preferences, why would I? And, uh... 1 2 (both daylight)
Dark eyes? OK. :lol:

If I do return to chat, I wont visit you again.
I will be looking for JJ most definitely.

That's more than fine with me. You weren't welcome in my room anymore when you made that thread encouraging people to post models' real names a couple days ago... That's when you definitely went overboard with the craziness. I do not want someone like that in my room, ever. I simply haven't gotten around to banning you yet, but it looks like that's not even necessary anymore, yay

 

[Ambers Troll]

Subject: Things Everybody (But You) Find Sexy

That was a cruel quote by omission, what I said was actually a compliment. Looking past something you don't like, to see the beauty or sexiness in someone that you do like is the highest compliment of all.

What Nordling said reflects my view on this: it was a typical backhanded compliments.
You're lucky Jolene didn't feel insulted because she made experiences with you that in her eyes made up for the quasi-insult.

I am even more offended by you saying this as you know my preferences on dark eyes and flawless skin tone, it is women who look exactly like you.

No, I didn't know about those preferences, why would I? And, uh... 1 2 (both daylight)
Dark eyes? OK. :lol:

If I do return to chat, I wont visit you again.
I will be looking for JJ most definitely.

That's more than fine with me. You weren't welcome in my room anymore when you made that thread encouraging people to post models' real names a couple days ago... That's when you definitely went overboard with the craziness. I do not want someone like that in my room, ever. I simply haven't gotten around to banning you yet, but it looks like that's not even necessary anymore, yay

I am Maniac_1 (mfc) for your ban. That you missed it as a genuine compliment and felt the need to be offended for somone that wasn't is concerning. I really did struggle at first to see past JJ's look and see her (not her eyes btw). I can say it was worth it, she is an amazing model, perhaps the best in many ways.
I was honest with you in liking your fair skin (no tattoos), dark eyes, and BA shows. You behaviour here ensures I won't see you again though. Best of luck.

On the other topic, there was a name and shame thread on ACF, my topic was a reaction to that. ACF deleted the whole thing, and rightly so but not my thread (rightly so also). Those who name and shame are the worst kind of member, none of you were stopping it, so I did (helped stop it). I also warned those who have been victims before that such games were around.
You should revisit this topic, I created it so that it can be regenerated should this happen again. I know the type (model friends have been humiliated over the years by this type), this response was the only way to end it.

btw sorry bob, hopefully we get back to your topic, it is a good one. I guess my contribution to it here, is that even that one thing you don't find quite so sexy, you may still share with the right partner, especially if they do those other things that you find super sexy.

 

[Red7227]

I'm just curious that looks have anything to do with choosing a model, though I apparently don't have a type as much as some people do. If you have your MFC setting set to screen captures, It will be easy to tell what everyone is up to. There will be a 100+gorgeous women on the front page in various states of undress and auto-erotic stimulation, or cackling their head off and/or drinking shots - and the ones who are on their phone or look like their puppy died.. It comes down to interaction for me, my pleasure in the model's company. Jordan Black is my No 1 waste of time and money at the moment, with no prospect of that changing any time soon , but there have been many others - most of whom are doing well and have cam scores beyond 10,000 these days.

 

[TacoBelle]

To get us back on track:

Not everybody finds this attractive, but I know quite a few people do: The "bad boy." For example, boasting (or posting pictures) of driving 130 in a 40 mile/hour zone, putting graffiti on walls, drinking and driving, etc. Some people really like it. I just want to smack the guy (or girl), and tell them to grow up.

 

[LilyMarie]

I was honest with you in liking your fair skin (no tattoos), dark eyes, and BA shows. You behaviour here ensures I won't see you again though. Best of luck.

OK, at this point you're trying to be annoying on purpose; I literally posted links to pics of me yesterday when you said I have 'dark eyes'. I don't have dark eyes. I've never had dark eyes.
And it's the 'let's post models' real names!' thread you made plus your general insufferable weirdness that ensures you won't see me again. It's not my 'behavior', i.e. my calling you out on the potentially extremely insulting backhanded compliment.


Something I don't personally find sexy but a lot of people seem to find sexy: watching models use very large toys. I mean toys that look like they'd have the word 'extreme' somewhere in the title if you found them at an online toy shop. Probably because I can't handle very large toys myself, looking at someone else use them makes me cringe a bit. I can understand the appeal though, from an outsider's perspective.

 

[Red7227]

Something I don't personally find sexy but a lot of people seem to find sexy: watching models use very large toys. I mean toys that look like they'd have the word 'extreme' somewhere in the title if you found them at an online toy shop. Probably because I can't handle very large toys myself, looking at someone else use them makes me cringe a bit. I can understand the appeal though, from an outsider's perspective.

Yeah, there was a model called "extreme pussy" I think who would stick whisks and other truly enormous things in her pussy, and stick things like fountain pens in her urethra. It was fascinating in the same way car accidents are, and she was a sweetie to talk to, but I do not miss her. And then there was "analfistbat" who used to dress as a baseball player sans pants and do things with a baseball bat. I don't miss her either.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

Lesbian porn or girl/girl shows. Always seems so forced and awkward to me. Even when it doesn't seem forced it just isn't something I've ever cared for.

 

[Red7227]

Lesbian porn or girl/girl shows. Always seems so forced and awkward to me. Even when it doesn't seem forced it just isn't something I've ever cared for.

A lot of it can be very fake. I must say though, that good gay porn is usually sexy as all fuck. When the girls (or boys) really aren't straight, its usually cute as hell even before the body fluids are flowing.

 

[eclipse76]

It's funny when you see one clearly into her partner and the other less so.

 

[eclipse76]

Women with childish/baby-ish voices.
Does any model force their voice to sound like that?

Addendum to that: I think my problem is with anything codified as "teen" in mainstream porn: braces, pigtails, anything pinkish.
It just rubs me the wrong way. :?

 

[LilyMarie]

Women with childish/baby-ish voices.
Does any model force their voice to sound like that?

Addendum to that: I think my problem is with anything codified as "teen" in mainstream porn: braces, pigtails, anything pinkish.
It just rubs me the wrong way. :?

It makes me a bit sad that pigtails have such a schoolgirl/teen connection to them. Depending on how you style them, it's pretty easy to still look like an adult wearing them and they're convenient, I wish they could just be a normal hairstyle (on porn/cam sites and in real life), just like a ponytail or an updo.

 

[SoTxBob]

I've got a couple....
ATM has already been mentioned. When the girl takes a load to swallow after the atm and then the guy goes in for a tongue filled french kiss and trys to inhale her mouth.... I cant find the off button fast enough. uke-front:

overly done tongue action. some nice french kissing is fine. when guys [and girls ] just stick out their tongue as far as they can and try to stick it down the others throat or the partner does the same 'tongue boxing' and it looks like 2 lizards fighting for a bug.

stringy spit play... theres a gal on mfc that has spit that she can squirt it out her lips, let it drop down several inches and then suck it back up in her mouth. its like a novelty to her i guess bc she loves to do it on cam.

last one for now..
fake sex sounds. the ones like shes trying to impress or let everyone know shes having sex. ive seen it everywhere. live cam and porn. the first touch or penetration and the girl starts that constant monotone 'moaning' .... maybe I'm out of touch [or haven't got 'the touch'] but all the situations i've been in its never like that. it builds and varies a lot in intensity as well as the sounds. some girls are pretty reserved with them too because they dont want the neighbors to hear, let alone have cops called because it sounds like someones murdering her... :lol:

 

[Sevrin]

Oh, thought of another one. I realize this is more of a fetish type thing, rather than an "everybody but you" thing, but I don't see the attraction of speculums, regardless of where they're inserted. I can't imagine there are very many women who associate them with sexy times, either.

 

[Ambers Troll]

To get us back on track:

Not everybody finds this attractive, but I know quite a few people do: The "bad boy." For example, boasting (or posting pictures) of driving 130 in a 40 mile/hour zone, putting graffiti on walls, drinking and driving, etc. Some people really like it. I just want to smack the guy (or girl), and tell them to grow up.

I have such a thing for bad women, it is not deliberate ..... it is not so much the behaviour as the personality. I like strong, but tend to get selfish. I like brave and adventurous, but end up with reckless and crazy. You get the idea.
A big part of the appeal is that 'bad girls' don't fake it as much. Many will warn you about them even, but you ignore it.

I guess I am the reverse. I like 'good girls' as company, but rarely have I dated one. Those who acted the part were rebels usually. I am actually afraid to date in part over this.
I just don't tend to find the 'good girl' sexy at all, I just can't trust her affection/ attentions. I also worry I will ruin her in some way.

 

[opalc0coon]

"Alpha" men, manly men, excessive muscles, manliness, masculinity in general...

Which might make me sound like a lesbian, but it's true that it's the most unattractive thing to me. I've always been friends with girls who liked really manly men. So I always felt really different and weird about what I liked. Lol.

I really like young David Bowie looking, androgynous, rag doll looking, or emo make up.

An Arnold Schwarzenegger type guy would be like the opposite of what I like. Though he does seem like he has a cool personality.

So like porn with girl/guy scenes is usually unattractive for me if the guy is trying to act so bad ass in it. I like seeing the woman take the lead over a cute younger boyish guy.

 

[NoelleBright]

"Alpha" men, manly men, excessive muscles, manliness, masculinity in general...

Which might make me sound like a lesbian, but it's true that it's the most unattractive thing to me. I've always been friends with girls who liked really manly men. So I always felt really different and weird about what I liked. Lol.

I really like young David Bowie looking, androgynous, rag doll looking, or emo make up.

An Arnold Schwarzenegger type guy would be like the opposite of what I like. Though he does seem like he has a cool personality.

So like porn with girl/guy scenes is usually unattractive for me if the guy is trying to act so bad ass in it. I like seeing the woman take the lead over a cute younger boyish guy.

I don't like Beefcakes either.

I prefer men who look like they have aged a bit to younger ones though, which is hilarious when people come into my room trying to bribe me with their "young, hot" bodies. Like...I would prefer middle aged a la Simon Pegg, Kevin Spacey, or Matthew McConaughey. :lol:

 

[Chamaeleon]

Testicle slapping/kicking. They're the family jewels treat them with loving affection!

 

[LilyMarie]

Testicle slapping/kicking. They're the family jewels treat them with loving affection!

I doubt that 'everybody but you' finds that sexy o_o

 

[DuoShi]

Red nail polish and claw nails. Can't stand either of them.

 

[Chamaeleon]

Kim Kardashian. Yes, I said it. As well as most "celebrities".

 

[mutantdonut]

The idea of wearing shoes (usually high heeled shoes) to bed is very off-putting to me.

The heel fetish has always kind of boggled me... not so much as to why it's even a fetish, but rather how and when did the heel fetish become so widespread among guys. I only appreciate heels on a sexy outfit, but never on a naked woman's body. Full naked to me means bare skin down to the foot (which also includes no stockings, leggings, or knee highs).

I can't really assess how comfortable heels are during sex, but they just don't look comfortable whatsoever. I compulsively pay attention to the comfort factor if i see heels in a porn scene. Additionally, i sometimes picture the woman with heels would accidentally jab herself or her partner(s).

So i hafta ask the women of ACF who are attracted to other women, do heels on a naked body further enhance your arousal? I'm curious to know if this fetish is as popular among women as it is with men.