The Public Cam Guy Thread (Male model stuff!)

[DonnyBasilisk]

I know it's going to look weird to double post but since there is no male cam section afaik, lets pretend this is a new thread.
Title: How far are you willing to go as a straight model?

I know I could make much better tips for sticking a lush in my ass, dildo play, jacking off with another guy, but I'm just not comfortable with that stuff. It wouldn't be genuine either and the viewers I think would know it. So, right now, the craziest I get is Show Asshole on my tip menu.

Do you guys have any suggestions as to some things either you as a gay male would like to see that is NOT one of the above things I mention I wont do, that maybe I haven't thought of yet? Same goes for the straight models. Just want to open a discussion for ideas and also hear your stories about how far you are willing to go for tips.

I’ve put up firm boundaries of not even showing my butthole and I’ve been sticking to it, no buttbuzzing, etc but you are definitely fighting the tough fight without succumbing to the use of the toy.

The toy is something passive that is constantly incentivizing tips, there is nothing can beat that.

One positive I have found is that I’ve had favorable responses from some ladies (and yes they are tippers, one is my biggest tipper in fact). The feedback from lady viewers is that they have a hard time finding male cammers that they can stick around for, because they find the anal play to be a major turn off for them (and of course that opinion is not going to be representative of all females, I’m just relaying what I’ve gathered from various conversations on the topic).

I think being entertaining and engaging in general is going to continue to be your bread and butter, it’s certainly mine. If you have talents you can bust out then that will help, playing a guitar and singing a song for example. A well choreographed strip routine. Etc

@Primaltime do you mind if I rip the reading lit erotica idea and give it a run?

 

[Primaltime]

I’ve put up firm boundaries of not even showing my butthole and I’ve been sticking to it, no buttbuzzing, etc but you are definitely fighting the tough fight without succumbing to the use of the toy.

The toy is something passive that is constantly incentivizing tips, there is nothing can beat that.

One positive I have found is that I’ve had favorable responses from some ladies (and yes they are tippers, one is my biggest tipper in fact). The feedback from lady viewers is that they have a hard time finding male cammers that they can stick around for, because they find the anal play to be a major turn off for them (and of course that opinion is not going to be representative of all females, I’m just relaying what I’ve gathered from various conversations on the topic).

I think being entertaining and engaging in general is going to continue to be your bread and butter, it’s certainly mine. If you have talents you can bust out then that will help, playing a guitar and singing a song for example. A well choreographed strip routine. Etc

@Primaltime do you mind if I rip the reading lit erotica idea and give it a run?

It's all yours to give it a try. Like I said it wasn't really adding to my tips so I haven't done it in quite awhile. People ask about it a lot, but sadly while viewers went up while I did it, tipping slowed way down.

 

[Garygoldenballs]

Jacking off with another guy? No friggin way.

I also don't use toys. Will roleplay being bottom in private if they ask for it but dislike... it's like a chore

Every time I try a ticket show or something like that, it's an absolute disaster. 20% of my earnings come from random tippers in room (ask for flashes, etc) and the other 80% is from privates. Usually from regulars but sometimes new customers appear.

I'm happy with it right now, I guess you have two things to consider
1. Are you comfortable with giving up control? I've tried a finger and definitelly don't like it, more of a mind thing then physical. But I don't think if a person likes it, means they're gay. They are just able to give up control.

then if you enjoy the thing, you can do it. If you don't...

2. Do you need more money?

Good luck bud

 

[passmeawhiskay]

It's all yours to give it a try. Like I said it wasn't really adding to my tips so I haven't done it in quite awhile. People ask about it a lot, but sadly while viewers went up while I did it, tipping slowed way down.

This seems like something my guys would like, mind if I try this out too bud?

 

[Primaltime]

This seems like something my guys would like, mind if I try this out too bud?

Feel free, it simply doesn't fit into the format of my show anymore. The tough part is finding erotica that doesn't sound like it was written by a 13 year-old. It's very few and far between.

 

[passmeawhiskay]

Feel free, it simply doesn't fit into the format of my show anymore. The tough part is finding erotica that doesn't sound like it was written by a 13 year-old. It's very few and far between.

Did you ever let the fans choose THEIR own favorites some might have instead of you looking them up yourself? I dont know you sexual orientation but maybe they know sites with more homosexual erotica that is better written and mature. Plus it would be one thing less for you to do.

 

[Primaltime]

Typically the only erotica I read was bi-sexual. I did mention pretty much every time I was always looking for good stories to read but nobody ever really provided me with anything. I went to Lushstories and would usually just search the bi-sexual category.

 

[passmeawhiskay]

I’ve put up firm boundaries of not even showing my butthole and I’ve been sticking to it, no buttbuzzing, etc but you are definitely fighting the tough fight without succumbing to the use of the toy.

The toy is something passive that is constantly incentivizing tips, there is nothing can beat that.

One positive I have found is that I’ve had favorable responses from some ladies (and yes they are tippers, one is my biggest tipper in fact). The feedback from lady viewers is that they have a hard time finding male cammers that they can stick around for, because they find the anal play to be a major turn off for them (and of course that opinion is not going to be representative of all females, I’m just relaying what I’ve gathered from various conversations on the topic).

I think being entertaining and engaging in general is going to continue to be your bread and butter, it’s certainly mine. If you have talents you can bust out then that will help, playing a guitar and singing a song for example. A well choreographed strip routine. Etc

@Primaltime do you mind if I rip the reading lit erotica idea and give it a run?

Hows the erotica been going for you bro? I put it in my tip menu for 100 and have been actively promoting it but noones biting. I think its a niche thing and @Primaltime was right, its not really a token maker.

 

[DonnyBasilisk]

Hows the erotica been going for you bro? I put it in my tip menu for 100 and have been actively promoting it but noones biting. I think its a niche thing and @Primaltime was right, its not really a token maker.

I haven't actually used it yet, I wasn't really sure how to incorporate it as I'm not familiar with erotica sites. How are things going? I've been doing well enough with really long shows, 6-8 hours each day this week... but boy is it draining. And then to see another straight model jump on with a very similar following to mine and absolutely kill what I was capable of within 2 hours with a Lovense active is pretty disheartening. But will keep up the grind, it is lucrative enough. Need to work on the clip game and open up those streams of revenue.

 

[passmeawhiskay]

I haven't actually used it yet, I wasn't really sure how to incorporate it as I'm not familiar with erotica sites. How are things going? I've been doing well enough with really long shows, 6-8 hours each day this week... but boy is it draining. And then to see another straight model jump on with a very similar following to mine and absolutely kill what I was capable of within 2 hours with a Lovense active is pretty disheartening. But will keep up the grind, it is lucrative enough. Need to work on the clip game and open up those streams of revenue.

No luck with the erotica.

As for the lovsence, hell, im on the fence. On the one hand, like others have said its a passive money maker. Thats the only benefit I see to it,

The cons are many. For one, i just dont think I would be into it and I am not going to fake orgasms to 1 tip, 5 tip or 100 tip tokens if it doesn't actually feel good. I just dont like not being genuine. The amount of female cammers having literal fake seizures to the lush is pathetic, in genuine and not sexy at all.

Second, IF someone I know happens to find me on here, I can justify jacking off and showing off on cam without having to go into a big discussion about my sexuality, but the minute I stick something up my B hole its over. Questions will be raised.

Now, we could all argue "who gives a shit its the 21st century and I know I am not into men" but I do give a shit about outside perception so, anyone outside looking in is going to judge. And so im on the fence.

Btw @DonnyBasilisk how can you do that many cumshows? I dont have that kind of testicular stamina! lol I need much longer to recover and I feel like everytime id cum it would be less and less and load and more and more disappointing to the viewers.

 

[DonnyBasilisk]

No luck with the erotica.

As for the lovsence, hell, im on the fence. On the one hand, like others have said its a passive money maker. Thats the only benefit I see to it,

The cons are many. For one, i just dont think I would be into it and I am not going to fake orgasms to 1 tip, 5 tip or 100 tip tokens if it doesn't actually feel good. I just dont like not being genuine. The amount of female cammers having literal fake seizures to the lush is pathetic, in genuine and not sexy at all.

Second, IF someone I know happens to find me on here, I can justify jacking off and showing off on cam without having to go into a big discussion about my sexuality, but the minute I stick something up my B hole its over. Questions will be raised.

Now, we could all argue "who gives a shit its the 21st century and I know I am not into men" but I do give a shit about outside perception so, anyone outside looking in is going to judge. And so im on the fence.

Btw @DonnyBasilisk how can you do that many cumshows? I dont have that kind of testicular stamina! lol I need much longer to recover and I feel like everytime id cum it would be less and less and load and more and more disappointing to the viewers.

I 100% agree with you on both points regarding the lovense, and my decision making around it has been based on those same ideas. I’m not doing something I’m not into, and i’m not doing something that brings my sexuality into question, I wish to represent myself truly. If that means firm boundaries and limiting myself to much of the paying demographic so be it.

To each their own and this is my own.

Regarding the multi-cum, it’s something I got from spending way too much time edging to porn in my younger years lol. Basically you end up developing an ability to orgasm without releasing a full load, sometimes no load at all. And you can also get a feel for how much of a load you wish to release.

So basicslly I’ll attempt to ease out one or two ‘gushes’ of semen in the first few orgasms. Then on the 4th or 5th I’ll let loose and try to make a couple of ropes. You end up getting a bit of recovery time anyway waiting for the next goal to be hit.

You are correct that the loads aren’t that impressive so there’s a trade off there, I believe it’s worth while however.

Hydration is also key.

 

[VinnieONeill]

Greetings everyone, I'm hoping to get some information on becoming verified as a model here. I have read through the verification thread to learn the requirements and I've done some searching on the forum but had a couple of questions still. I will not be running a live cam but instead will be producing, filming and staring in adult videos I will first be selling on Many Vids and then on my own website eventually. I was actually referred to this site by a cam model I know, as she said it would be a good place for me to network with female talent. I have done some work with a female model on Many Vids already on her own page and have gone through the verification process myself for a performer account. I have one confirmed and two additional potential shoots lined up next month during AVN with established industry talent.

I'm not looking to get verified here just yet, as I know I need to be active for a longer period of time before that can happen. I'm simple trying to find out if its possible for me to be verified since, while I'm a model, I won't be doing live cam. At least not for the foreseeable future.

 

[BiancaBaker]

Greetings everyone, I'm hoping to get some information on becoming verified as a model here. I have read through the verification thread to learn the requirements and I've done some searching on the forum but had a couple of questions still. I will not be running a live cam but instead will be producing, filming and staring in adult videos I will first be selling on Many Vids and then on my own website eventually. I was actually referred to this site by a cam model I know, as she said it would be a good place for me to network with female talent. I have done some work with a female model on Many Vids already on her own page and have gone through the verification process myself for a performer account. I have one confirmed and two additional potential shoots lined up next month during AVN with established industry talent.

I'm not looking to get verified here just yet, as I know I need to be active for a longer period of time before that can happen. I'm simple trying to find out if its possible for me to be verified since, while I'm a model, I won't be doing live cam. At least not for the foreseeable future.

clips4sale is where the money is honestly. MV is like no $$. Fetish porn ALL the way!

 

[VinnieONeill]

clips4sale is where the money is honestly. MV is like no $$. Fetish porn ALL the way!

Good to know, thank you. I will likely have my content on multiple clip sites, Many Vids was just my first focus.

 

[BiancaBaker]

Good to know, thank you. I will likely have my content on multiple clip sites, Many Vids was just my first focus.

I would not make it my first focus is my point but I guess you will find out the hard way lol.

 

[VinnieONeill]

I would not make it my first focus is my point but I guess you will find out the hard way lol.

Sorry, I did not mean to seem like I was not accepting your advice. My content will be on as many clip sites as possible, including clips4sale.

 

[AmberCutie]

I will not be running a live cam but instead will be producing, filming and staring in adult videos I will first be selling on Many Vids and then on my own website eventually.

You'll find a lot of great info in the public sections of the forum but will not qualify for verification here.

 

[VinnieONeill]

You'll find a lot of great info in the public sections of the forum but will not qualify for verification here.

OK, thank you!

 

[Lelo1]

As for the lovsence, hell, im on the fence. On the one hand, like others have said its a passive money maker. Thats the only benefit I see to it.

FYI the Lovense Hush stays in a lot easier the the edge. But the Hush is a bigger toy.

I 100% agree with you on both points regarding the lovense, and my decision making around it has been based on those same ideas. I’m not doing something I’m not into, and i’m not doing something that brings my sexuality into question, I wish to represent myself truly. If that means firm boundaries and limiting myself to much of the paying demographic so be it.

Have you looked at Lovense Max? And or the Domi. There also putting a Lush or ambi stuffed into the end of a clear fleshlight.

There is also the We-Vibe Cock Rings that are compatible Kiiroo. I don't think Kiiroo toys can do tip to vibrate on CB. But it does tie into flir4free, cam4, imlive, xcams.

I have no clue if any of these products would rain in the tips. I really haven't seen any one use them. But then I still see lots of people using the lush, even though the hush has been out for a year.

 

[9fat_inches]

I’ve put up firm boundaries of not even showing my butthole and I’ve been sticking to it, no buttbuzzing, etc but you are definitely fighting the tough fight without succumbing to the use of the toy.

The toy is something passive that is constantly incentivizing tips, there is nothing can beat that.

One positive I have found is that I’ve had favorable responses from some ladies (and yes they are tippers, one is my biggest tipper in fact). The feedback from lady viewers is that they have a hard time finding male cammers that they can stick around for, because they find the anal play to be a major turn off for them (and of course that opinion is not going to be representative of all females, I’m just relaying what I’ve gathered from various conversations on the topic).

I think being entertaining and engaging in general is going to continue to be your bread and butter, it’s certainly mine. If you have talents you can bust out then that will help, playing a guitar and singing a song for example. A well choreographed strip routine. Etc

@Primaltime do you mind if I rip the reading lit erotica idea and give it a run?

I don't put the toy in my ass, I put it between my balls and asshole (on the 'taint') feels good there lol but yea everyone bugs me to put it in my ass.. not happening =)

 

[passmeawhiskay]

I don't put the toy in my ass, I put it between my balls and asshole (on the 'taint') feels good there lol but yea everyone bugs me to put it in my ass.. not happening =)

There's a thought!

 

[Busymantm]

I do use the Lovense Hush (the medium not the large) and it isn't that big a deal, but definitely adds to income. I've also found telling stories about my sexual experiences a great icebreaker, especially those like being with couples etc.

Btw, Kudos to @DonnyBasilisk , I did a 5-cum show once a couple of years ago and the next day I felt like I had ridden a horse.

 

[DonnyBasilisk]

So today I did my first public show with my face visible, to celebrate a follower count milestone. A lot of anxiety going into it, I've been at it 2.5 months now as a faceless model! All in all it turned out great, within about 10 minutes of being on and getting some chat going the anxiety was gone, and most of the regulars showed up in full support.

The two biggest bonuses to showing face? One; I was able to maintain conversation and a viewer count without having to constantly be flexing and posing! And two; no more awkwardly trying to keep my head above the camera frame when removing my pants, just bend down and pull them suckers right off around the ankles!

@Busymantm I have yet to replicate that day lol

 

[MatiasB]

So today I did my first public show with my face visible, to celebrate a follower count milestone. A lot of anxiety going into it, I've been at it 2.5 months now as a faceless model! All in all it turned out great, within about 10 minutes of being on and getting some chat going the anxiety was gone, and most of the regulars showed up in full support.

The two biggest bonuses to showing face? One; I was able to maintain conversation and a viewer count without having to constantly be flexing and posing! And two; no more awkwardly trying to keep my head above the camera frame when removing my pants, just bend down and pull them suckers right off around the ankles!

@Busymantm I have yet to replicate that day lol

Showing your face will definitely get you more viewers and tokens, so good for you!
But keep in mind, that shows will be recorded by bots and posted on sketchy sites, but you probably know that already.
I didn't until 2 months in, i was not prepared for that at all..

 

[Busymantm]

I don't want scare anyone, but I started camming w my face visible and after about six months I had a few surprises that made me rethink. One was just a jerk that recorded me and posted on tube sites (the scary bit was nice coworker at a vanilla job quietly pulled me aside to tell me. I got those taken down). Another was a stalker type somehow got my real info and actually left a very dirty voicemail for me on my mom's phoneline (assuming I lived there) and another time stopping by my apartment. Fortunately my mother was confused and didn't think the voicemail was related to me, just a "pervert that misdialed".

I took a break for a month, but didn't want to quit, so I just vowed to be more private and not show in public. I really miss it as I feel more disconnected without my face and I've had to compensate to earn closer to what I would if I did my face.

 

[MatiasB]

I don't want scare anyone, but I started camming w my face visible and after about six months I had a few surprises that made me rethink. One was just a jerk that recorded me and posted on tube sites (the scary bit was nice coworker at a vanilla job quietly pulled me aside to tell me. I got those taken down). Another was a stalker type somehow got my real info and actually left a very dirty voicemail for me on my mom's phoneline (assuming I lived there) and another time stopping by my apartment. Fortunately my mother was confused and didn't think the voicemail was related to me, just a "pervert that misdialed".

I took a break for a month, but didn't want to quit, so I just vowed to be more private and not show in public. I really miss it as I feel more disconnected without my face and I've had to compensate to earn closer to what I would if I did my face.

That's pretty crazy, did you list your address and stuff too somewhere? or how would he know where you live?

But that is really not worth the risk i think, and i wish someone would have told me before starting or that would have done some research.

 

[Busymantm]

I'm not sure how he traced me unless there was something in the camera view at some point that gave him enough to go on. I never displayed any personal info on my accounts. Maybe it was a facebook leak, but hard to know. I'm glad he moved on and I didn't have to get more serious with the police and such.

I do show my face (in private sessions) to longer term fans that have shown responsibility over time.

 

[MatiasB]

i see that is pretty lucky, i guess that works too (y)

 

[passmeawhiskay]

So today I did my first public show with my face visible, to celebrate a follower count milestone. A lot of anxiety going into it, I've been at it 2.5 months now as a faceless model! All in all it turned out great, within about 10 minutes of being on and getting some chat going the anxiety was gone, and most of the regulars showed up in full support.

The two biggest bonuses to showing face? One; I was able to maintain conversation and a viewer count without having to constantly be flexing and posing! And two; no more awkwardly trying to keep my head above the camera frame when removing my pants, just bend down and pull them suckers right off around the ankles!

@Busymantm I have yet to replicate that day lol

Congrats man, do you think you will keep it up or still keep your face hidden? The plus side to it is I guess your viewers always have something to look forward to when you do show it, and the air of mystery is there.

And PS, im suprised you were able to keep it up so long, you must have really had the camera and distance from set perfectly.

 

[passmeawhiskay]

I don't want scare anyone, but I started camming w my face visible and after about six months I had a few surprises that made me rethink. One was just a jerk that recorded me and posted on tube sites (the scary bit was nice coworker at a vanilla job quietly pulled me aside to tell me. I got those taken down). Another was a stalker type somehow got my real info and actually left a very dirty voicemail for me on my mom's phoneline (assuming I lived there) and another time stopping by my apartment. Fortunately my mother was confused and didn't think the voicemail was related to me, just a "pervert that misdialed".

I took a break for a month, but didn't want to quit, so I just vowed to be more private and not show in public. I really miss it as I feel more disconnected without my face and I've had to compensate to earn closer to what I would if I did my face.

I did a prettty horrible job when I first started camming 2 years ago at keeping things seperate. Now, my FB is private, my IG is private, I dont even have a phone number (for saving money, not for camming) and noone has told me that they have been sent anything nasty. I dont care if my family and friends know that I cam anymore, in fact telling people can be really really liberating and make you feel less anxious, double points if they say "Hey thats cool, you're making money!"

I just dont want some disgruntled fan sending messages of my videos to family and friends. Also, the biggest downside is dateing. How do you tell a girl, if you get to a 3rd date or something thats what you do?