Quick recap before I disappear from the forum for the night (I need a break from you guys and your nuttiness!!! sheesh!)
1. Unsolicited advice is not usually taken very well, especially when it comes from someone who has never done the job they are advising about.
I agreed the guy came off poorly, suggested he could have posted in the 'annoy' thread. But I was surprised that he was jumped on so much, even when he seemed to regret his post. I never once gave anyone advice.
2. Advice from people who have never done the job is called "an opinion" and can be helpful, but is many times unnecessary since people IN the job have already considered a LOT of those ideas and opinions.
All I said here is that I didn't believe that, cuz someone was never a cam model, they couldn't suggest something helpful, as you say here.
3. Many models are ALSO members and have judged for themselves what it's like on the other side of the camera (I think any MFC girl SHOULD spend some time on the site as a premium to get a really good feel for the entire job.)
This is smart, imo, and I believe I said that I thought the 'members perspective' was important.
4. There was a comment made about "having to have a dick to be a member" or some odd comment like that. I took it to mean that the men in here who are arguing that their member-opinions matter forget that #3 above is true. It was a sarcastic funny jab, holy eff why did that go so wrong?
Well, it made me feel like everyone was suggesting that, cuz I was a man, I thought my opinion is better, or smarter then that of a Woman. That couldn't be more wrong. You're talking to a real gentleman here, and have never been like that in my life.
5. People sure do like to fucking ARGUE!
I can't speak for others, but I did originally say that I like to debate.
6. Throbbin isn't a troll, he just likes to argue in circles, I think (which is something that a lot of people do, not just trolls).
Far from it, but thank you Amber!
7. Malek probably won't be back because he didn't think about the repercussions of his original post and is probably now embarrassed that he didn't think the decision through.
I'm strong enough, I will take all the abuse for poor Malek.
8. Bye.