Ah, yes I understand that bit. Both parties should be hush-hush about personal details. (Less they end up on a youtube video for being "rude") But I was speaking strictly from a member on a cam-site who wants to establish his credentials, so to speak. Because typically, I don't think on sugar babies have camsex with their POTs before dating. So I can see how a cam model would feel a little more vulnerable and would want to see if:
#1. They have the $ they claim to have. If there's already a medium in which they can tip and shower the girl, then that seems like a good place to start. In no means is it an end-all way of proving their income, neither would their respective rewards points, but I would think a model would like to see some tokens go her way before just up and accepting any offers.
#2. They can sort of get a feel for the member and decide if they even want to make themselves available in that fashion to them. A high tipping regular who only gives you lots of headaches and seems very needy doesn't seem like someone you would want to be involved with outside of camland. His feelings may intensify and if he's already dropping L bombs now and giving off a desperate vibe, I can only think the possessiveness and jealousy could get worse after having physical contact, with or without sexual intimacy.
#3. Along with #2, just goes along with trust. Can you trust this guy to see you in the first place and treat you as a respectful gentleman before trying to lay it on heavy with awful pick up lines, feeble attempts to get in your pants etc., can you trust this guy to keep his mouth shut, just all those little things that you don't typically see in sugar arrangements but tie into camland. Because in one instance, you have a woman working more publicly in the industry that has a bit of a stigma in the minds of some, and she has to be very protective of what she shares for fear of members trying to out her either to other members, or worse case facebook stalking and outing to family members. On the other instance is a woman who isn't a cam model, but has a more discreet means of offering companionship. There isn't a chatroom with members that she has to worry about trying to separate each little relationship and keep the privacy of each, but just a few private emails or text between her and her POT.
So it's this distinct between a cammer who has other sex work and a sugar baby who is only a sugar baby, that I would think, would lead me to believe a cammer would be a little more selective about who she shares any personal information with and who she meets. Because she has a reputation to maintain and because she doesn't want to fear the backlash if ever a member opened his mouth about them meeting, etc. Imagine. One guy gets upset and starts blabbing every detail out in public chat or the lounge and now you've got all your customers giving you the "Well you met him, why won't you meet me?" Sounds like a fucking headache already.
