I came to this site a few years ago, because I was madly in love with a model, a Colombiana. To her credit she never really said she wanted a real realtionship with me. But she would say mice things and 'Te quiero' like most of them say. Within a few months she stopped camming and we sort of became friends, but I was helping her out alot, doing super nice things for her. even though I knew she wasn't interested in taking the relationship any further. I was and am ok with that. She was able to make it through a work training program, and just started a real job recently. I told her I am stopping any sort of regular help, since she is about to get paid. I don't know if we will remain in contact after that, but I am pretty sure she is grateful for all that I have done for her.
I have gotten to know other models too. More personally. I even know where they live in a few cases. Sent them flowers directly to their house, etc. I enjoy being romantic like that, and have some feelings for them, but I am not in love like I was the first one. I have alot of skeptisim these days so maybe I can't be fully invested in it. I do enjoy the attention, giving them attention, etc. I can now speak/understand at an intermediate level in Spanish, and talk on the phone to some.
For the most part though, I have stopped tipping most of them and have stopped doing any sort of regular help for them.
After knowing one model for a couple of years, she said she has strong feelings for me. Our age difference is a little more than 15 years. For about a year she stopped modelling and I wasn't supporting her, but we would talk almost every day during that time. She is back at modeling, but I don't tip her anymore than maybe 5 dollars worth of tokens a week. I have helped her out occasionally, probably 50 bucks a handful of times. She wants me to come to Colombia now. She has been upfront about most things in her life, including giving me her whereabouts, studio, her apartment etc. I know much about her life, including I have talked to her mom, some of her friends, and other members of her family. I have feelings for her, but nothing like it was for the first. We have some personality traits in common, and we make each other laugh. I think, though, her feelings appear stronger than mine.
I know another model too, I flirt with heavily, and really she is the only one I treat as a model. But I think we may be at least friends. At at one point I stopped tipping her and told her I wouldn't be for awhile. She still maintained the friendship. She has expressed she wants to meet me, but it has always been about just being friends.
Other models I have known, more personally, that have expressed wanting to see me, but they aren't shy about asking me for money, and I am not shy about saying no, but i do occasionally. Those definately have the feel that money is the main impetus.
Another model. I have done almost nothing for over the last year. Our age difference is too much for me, I can't see a relationship lasting long. I have bought her gifts for Christmas and her birthday. Nothing terribly extravagant, in the range of $150 each time. She seems to maintain the relationship regardless even when it's been months since I have done anything for her, talking daily, often messaging several times a day. watching movies together over skype, without cost to me at all. She wants me to come down too and she seems to want that very much. She wants me to go with her on the little weekend trips she likes to take to sites around the country She does well enough for herself as a model. Also she behaves in many of the same ways _I_ behaved when I was madly in love with the girl from this first paragraph, like being upset if I don't talk to her much in a day and wanting to do things with me outside of work, without any money being exchanged Recently, when the news about the US guy that killed his Colombian girlfriend, I asked if she heard about that and she said, yea she had, and that her family heard about it, and they it made there hair stand on end, because they knew about her realtionship with me. I hadn't realized the they all knew until that point. I like her alot, sometimes it almost feels like love, sometimes closer to indifference.
A little about me, I do make good money, I can easily afford what I have given, I am older than these girls by at least 15 years, but also appear very fit for my age mostly due some of my activities that a compete in, one on a national level, and I look younger than most of my friends of the same age group.
I enjoy these realtionships alot. I can't say that I am truly in love with any of them, and really, if they started to try to bleed me, i would likely toss them fairly quickly, but who knows until I am actually trying it. I could be very wrong about myself.
I have an intense curiosity to see how far they will take the relationship. Also, the challenge of trying a relationship across cultures/langagues/countries seems very interesting to me. I love those types of complex challenges. And if I meet up with them, it wouldn't surprise me if I start getting asked for money, but right now, at least 2 of the 7 colombianas I know personally, don't appear to be after short term gains, because it has been at least a couple of years already.
I have gotten to know other models too. More personally. I even know where they live in a few cases. Sent them flowers directly to their house, etc. I enjoy being romantic like that, and have some feelings for them, but I am not in love like I was the first one. I have alot of skeptisim these days so maybe I can't be fully invested in it. I do enjoy the attention, giving them attention, etc. I can now speak/understand at an intermediate level in Spanish, and talk on the phone to some.
For the most part though, I have stopped tipping most of them and have stopped doing any sort of regular help for them.
After knowing one model for a couple of years, she said she has strong feelings for me. Our age difference is a little more than 15 years. For about a year she stopped modelling and I wasn't supporting her, but we would talk almost every day during that time. She is back at modeling, but I don't tip her anymore than maybe 5 dollars worth of tokens a week. I have helped her out occasionally, probably 50 bucks a handful of times. She wants me to come to Colombia now. She has been upfront about most things in her life, including giving me her whereabouts, studio, her apartment etc. I know much about her life, including I have talked to her mom, some of her friends, and other members of her family. I have feelings for her, but nothing like it was for the first. We have some personality traits in common, and we make each other laugh. I think, though, her feelings appear stronger than mine.
I know another model too, I flirt with heavily, and really she is the only one I treat as a model. But I think we may be at least friends. At at one point I stopped tipping her and told her I wouldn't be for awhile. She still maintained the friendship. She has expressed she wants to meet me, but it has always been about just being friends.
Other models I have known, more personally, that have expressed wanting to see me, but they aren't shy about asking me for money, and I am not shy about saying no, but i do occasionally. Those definately have the feel that money is the main impetus.
Another model. I have done almost nothing for over the last year. Our age difference is too much for me, I can't see a relationship lasting long. I have bought her gifts for Christmas and her birthday. Nothing terribly extravagant, in the range of $150 each time. She seems to maintain the relationship regardless even when it's been months since I have done anything for her, talking daily, often messaging several times a day. watching movies together over skype, without cost to me at all. She wants me to come down too and she seems to want that very much. She wants me to go with her on the little weekend trips she likes to take to sites around the country She does well enough for herself as a model. Also she behaves in many of the same ways _I_ behaved when I was madly in love with the girl from this first paragraph, like being upset if I don't talk to her much in a day and wanting to do things with me outside of work, without any money being exchanged Recently, when the news about the US guy that killed his Colombian girlfriend, I asked if she heard about that and she said, yea she had, and that her family heard about it, and they it made there hair stand on end, because they knew about her realtionship with me. I hadn't realized the they all knew until that point. I like her alot, sometimes it almost feels like love, sometimes closer to indifference.
A little about me, I do make good money, I can easily afford what I have given, I am older than these girls by at least 15 years, but also appear very fit for my age mostly due some of my activities that a compete in, one on a national level, and I look younger than most of my friends of the same age group.
I enjoy these realtionships alot. I can't say that I am truly in love with any of them, and really, if they started to try to bleed me, i would likely toss them fairly quickly, but who knows until I am actually trying it. I could be very wrong about myself.
I have an intense curiosity to see how far they will take the relationship. Also, the challenge of trying a relationship across cultures/langagues/countries seems very interesting to me. I love those types of complex challenges. And if I meet up with them, it wouldn't surprise me if I start getting asked for money, but right now, at least 2 of the 7 colombianas I know personally, don't appear to be after short term gains, because it has been at least a couple of years already.