Before my latest issue with a room monitor, I had always thought that a room monitor was used by models to help them with language barriers and whatnot, and until recently I also was under the impression that pretty much any model might use one whether they were with a studio, or as an independent model working from home using a friend to help them manage certain things behind the scenes.
About a week ago, the vibe of my favorite model's room changed drastically. Overnight her whole demeanor changed and she started behaving differently in not only her public shows, but in her privates as well. I contacted her via whatsapp about her behavior change, and she informed me that the studio she works for decided to assign her a "room monitor" for reasons she did not openly state at first. But hey, it's their studio, so they can do whatever they like I guess, but after a few days the interactions I was having with her was just so "off" that I felt compelled to tell her that this new monitor was negatively affecting her room vibe. She told me via whatsapp that her new monitor was a male, and that she didn't feel comfortable with him in her room, which is why she was acting all different. She told me that he is not really there for any language barrier, but instead, he is constantly telling her what to do during privates and free chat in the form of "hidden direction" on what she should be doing in order to "please" her viewers more and get more tokens. When in her room, I can tell from her demeanor that she feels pressured by what he is "directing" her to do.
I know it's their studio, and that there's pretty much nothing I can do about this situation, but holy heck this monitor is ruining her room and her ability to earn. I admit that prior to this I was a bit naïve about what room monitors actually did, but I wanted to come here and ask if this is actually standard practice in most studios? It just seems so scummy to me that a studio would place a male in a models room like this as a "monitor" without at least giving her a choice in the matter.
About a week ago, the vibe of my favorite model's room changed drastically. Overnight her whole demeanor changed and she started behaving differently in not only her public shows, but in her privates as well. I contacted her via whatsapp about her behavior change, and she informed me that the studio she works for decided to assign her a "room monitor" for reasons she did not openly state at first. But hey, it's their studio, so they can do whatever they like I guess, but after a few days the interactions I was having with her was just so "off" that I felt compelled to tell her that this new monitor was negatively affecting her room vibe. She told me via whatsapp that her new monitor was a male, and that she didn't feel comfortable with him in her room, which is why she was acting all different. She told me that he is not really there for any language barrier, but instead, he is constantly telling her what to do during privates and free chat in the form of "hidden direction" on what she should be doing in order to "please" her viewers more and get more tokens. When in her room, I can tell from her demeanor that she feels pressured by what he is "directing" her to do.
I know it's their studio, and that there's pretty much nothing I can do about this situation, but holy heck this monitor is ruining her room and her ability to earn. I admit that prior to this I was a bit naïve about what room monitors actually did, but I wanted to come here and ask if this is actually standard practice in most studios? It just seems so scummy to me that a studio would place a male in a models room like this as a "monitor" without at least giving her a choice in the matter.