Private Shows

[Elysia36]

I had my first True Private Show,but it was kinda awkward because I wasn't quite sure of how to start it,so I just winged it and it worked it fine. Is it ok to ask what the customer is looking for when they take you private or do you ask that before? I know some guys like for the girl to get right to it and others complain about it not being personal enough.

 

[Shaun__]

A lot of models talk about privates before they do them, so there are no misunderstandings. You might want to be careful that this talk does not turn into free dirty time for the member if you decide to do it, because some people try to abuse it models say.

 

[Dani_withani]

I usually pm them and ask before accepting most of the time.


Times when I don't I try to start it like a conversation...

"Hi baby, how are you tonight?"

...All while dancing a little or doing a strip tease. I start to touch and ask them if they like what they see. By that time I feel comfortable to ask them what they really truly want to see

With regulars I stretch this out a little more because I know they're paying for a good chunk of time and they like to chat a lot more .
With new guys it usually takes a minute or two especially since all I get lately are guys saying "CUM NOW! I'M RUNNING OUT OF TOKENS".

Sheesh.

 

[Crumb]

imho, if they don't try and PM/mfc-mail you before hand, you have every right to ask them what they want while in the private or you can assume straight away that they want a strip dance and a vanilla show and get right to it.

 

[PinkiePixi]

I hardly do any privates, but in the past whenever anybody would request one I would decline and PM them to find out what they want first. I did that really because I wasnt willing to do a lot of what other girls do (though I pretty much will now), and I wanted to make sure they knew what they were going to get for their tokens. 99% of the time they would then change their mind.

Though now Im decided that if someone does that again, fuck it. Especially if its someone Ive never seen around before, or hasnt ever talked to me. I have it clearly written in my profile what my privates entail, if theyre too lazy to read it then thats their problem. Ill accept the private, then going about what I normally would do and find out what they want. If its something I wont do, Ill tell them. If they get upset, Ill point them to my profile.

 

[Anonymous]

A lot of models talk about privates before they do them, so there are no misunderstandings. You might want to be careful that this talk does not turn into free dirty time for the member if you decide to do it, because some people try to abuse it models say.

^This^

Shaun__ makes an excellent point. :thumbleft:

On cam sites (not just MFC) sometimes there are guys - in the free chat or public chat - who ask "What all do you do in private?," because they want to listen to you go into full detail about how you will fuck your pussy and etc. And then, sometimes they'll ask a bunch of questions like "When was the last time you had sex? How old were you when you lost your virginity?" And they're sitting there jerking off the entire time you're giving them all of these details. And then the next thing you know, the guy types "Mmmm, thanks bb. I just came everywhere." And then, what do ya know, he leaves the free chat and doesn't even go private...lol. This is what Shaun__ is referring to.

Members should always ask the model beforehand if she's available for a private show, and discuss the details via PM if necessary. I don't click the 'Accept' button if it's some random out-of-the-blue private request. If it's a regular on my friends list, I know it's all good, though he should still ask "Would you like to go private?" before clicking the button.

Some models will only go private with guys who are on their friends list, and I think that's a great idea too.

 

[dustinxxxizzle]

Depending on how long the private was for, he might have wanted to start out slow instead of jumping right into the main event. Sometimes I like to start out with a nice conversation while the girl just teases. That being said, when I enter a private, if I hadn't already discussed with the model through PM what I'm looking for (which is rare), I usually let her know pretty quickly. Asking at the start of the private if they're shy is definitely a polite thing for you to do, so don't worry about that.

 

[BobbyB]

I guess for some models privates are the part where they can make a lot of tokens, so maybe an idea to try to avoid disappointment.

I would suggest the following:

1) don't assume that members read your profile in detail, if you have stuff you don't like to do let the guys know in advance..

2)I find it good customer service to ask what the members expect, easier for you - you know what to do, and better for the member - he gets what he wants.....

3) Be clear about an expected minimum duration and don't try to drag out the perfromance.....Here I mean to do a strip very, very slowly- I had it once and played along but nether took this girl for a private again....
You need to decide if you want to squeeze the most out of 1 private, or if you like repeat business....but members are very different so maybe some like the very slow tease, this boils down to above - check what the member wants and expects...