JickyJuly said:
"Apologies" that come with qualifiers to explain why they shouldn't really have to be sorry.
well, I suppose you have it there. To be honest, I apologize to Amber because this is her forum. Being that she provides us all a place to be I think she deserves some extra consideration. Had the comment been made to anyone else, (a comment which included in it the fact that I did not think this was their true nature), I likely would not have apologized. Does that mean I do not think the comment was out of line? Yes, I suppose it does. That is not to say that I wish I had not expressed my offence at Ambers comment in a less rash, and more tactful way, - I wish I had. And that is not to say that I did not feel, and continue to feel there was something offensive in Amber's comment, and very much not like Amber.
Now up to this point I believe Amber and I were o.k. with this. I think it would be truly ashame if your ritious battering, and continued volleys at me, have now inflamed the matter to which you were not even involved, to something that is no longer o.k. if Amber had not been fine with my apology I think she would have, A) said so, or B) would not have felt it so big a deal that it served any purpose to continue to hijack this thread. It seems clear to me that most everyone else here wants to get back on subject, so let me start.
Ppl who become so concerned with being right that they lose track of everything else, or fail to see the disharmony their quest to be right might cause.
I will not further disrupt this thread, but would be more than happy to continue this via PM's. That's a lie, I would not be more than happy, but will continue if you wish to discuss it further, but not here.