So i recently signed up on mfc, but i could use some advice. I've signed up on mfc because i need some extra money since I'm 18 live on my own and am in college. But i feel weird about it because if my parents knew i was doing this they would kick my ass. its almost like i feel guilty doing this. They are not religious but if they knew that i have sex and am bisexual they would probably freak out. i guess they still think I'm a virgin.
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You're not very clear on what you need advice about, but it's pretty common for a camgirl (that isn't open about camming) to be worried about what her friends and family might think of her choices. Do you just feel guilty about lying or do you feel guilty about camming in general?
i guess i just feel guilty about lying. like I'm doing something I'm not supposed to i guess. i personally don't have a problem with it but i know my parents would.
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I think it's a personal issue because some people have closer relationships with their parents, different moral views on lying (when it's acceptable or isn't), different situations, etc. Guilt is a shitty feeling and I'm sure a lot of us can relate as so many camgirls have to lie to their families about what they do. But ultimately I think you have to debate it with yourself and figure out your best mode of action. There's not a ton of advice any of us can give just because of how dependent it is on yourself & your family, which we obviously don't know.
Personally I would consider a few things, like if a campus job (or waitressing, barista job, etc) could fit what I needed, financially and schedule-wise (I'm a student as well so I know sometimes it can be hard to work normal jobs as well as classes). How would you handle it if your parents found out? Also, what are your future career goals? Camming can impact a lot of things (say, if you want to teach elementary school or whatever).
When I started, it was a trend amongst an online community I was part of where everyone was doing it after someone discovered MyGirlFund. Everyone kind of jumped in because one girl mentioned how it was super fun, easy money. Most people eventually forgot about their accounts, a few of us stuck with it, and at least one girl had her photos leaked to her family & friends. I don't mean to say that you shouldn't do it or that it's not worth it (it has been worth it for me), just that I do think it's important to consider potential outcomes and be in touch with yourself about the benefits vs consequences.
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Do you plan on living your life for your parents or for you? If the opinion of others means that much to you in regards to camming then you need to turn around and run away from this industry NOW!
There is no privacy in camming and the chances that word will eventually get out is pretty damn high. If you are not accepting of this reality you need to seriously evaluate the situation before you hit that broadcast button again, or else it COULD ruin your life.
There is no privacy in camming and the chances that word will eventually get out is pretty damn high. If you are not accepting of this reality you need to seriously evaluate the situation before you hit that broadcast button again, or else it COULD ruin your life.
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I live with my parents and they ar every supportive, but only because they were part of the industry too.
If you feel its wrong then DON'T step in. Its a work, its fun, and there is nothing wrong about it. if you want to get some advice i recommend you to get verified as a model and get access to Models Only forum! There you can chat open with us and get some advice.
But if you are not comfortable now, then re-think about it. Cam because you love, not because you need.
If you feel its wrong then DON'T step in. Its a work, its fun, and there is nothing wrong about it. if you want to get some advice i recommend you to get verified as a model and get access to Models Only forum! There you can chat open with us and get some advice.
But if you are not comfortable now, then re-think about it. Cam because you love, not because you need.
Yes the possibility of me camming could get out and that scares me but i feel like it may be worth it. to be honest i have mixed emotions about what i should do. i also don't want to live my life saying what if.
Only you can determine if camming is worth it for you, innit. You need to work out why you want to cam and then decide if the risk is worth the reward or not. How can camming benefit you, now and in the future? What do you want to do with your future and how might camming affect that? What is likely to happen if your parents/friends/family found out? It's always worth planning for the worst case scenario. But nobody here is likely to be able to answer these questions for you. I think it's something you're gonna have to figure out for yourself :twocents-02cents:
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Some other things to consider:
Are you going to be consistent?
Go on often?
Will it affect your school work?
The biggest con for me sometimes is that Camming can be really emptionally draining. And if you are an introvert, I think can make you more isolated/into a hermit.
I don't want to discourage you because I am also a student, living on my own, 100% independent of my parents, but you should consider school a priority.
Definitely do a lot of research before you start! This forum is a treasure trove!
When you get started though, I think you will really like the girls and members here. They are kind and supportive in the way I need them, unlike my parents and some friends lol.
Are you going to be consistent?
Go on often?
Will it affect your school work?
The biggest con for me sometimes is that Camming can be really emptionally draining. And if you are an introvert, I think can make you more isolated/into a hermit.
I don't want to discourage you because I am also a student, living on my own, 100% independent of my parents, but you should consider school a priority.
Definitely do a lot of research before you start! This forum is a treasure trove!
When you get started though, I think you will really like the girls and members here. They are kind and supportive in the way I need them, unlike my parents and some friends lol.
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