Here are some of mine (that are pretty specific, admittedly):
- i wear several different wigs, and sometimes have my natural hair out on cam. It doesn't bother me that people have a preference (and it differs from member to member). When i get a backhanded compliment about it though, it drives me up the wall. There's a huge difference between "Wow, i love your natural hair" and "Oh man, your natural hair looks SO MUCH BETTER than that shitty pink wig!" Just...think before you type, please! Rude.
- i'm in a lifestyle bdsm relationship as a submissive, and am a medium-to-heavy masochist. Basically, i enjoy pain and have received plenty of consensual and intense "sessions" in my private life where it was involved. Even if you don't know this fact, it's pretty obvious i spank myself hard. i react strongly and turn pink almost immediately. i've even broken toys over my ass on cam (lol!). The guys that say "HARDER" or "you're not doing it right" piss me off. i promise i know what i'm doing to myself and it really does hurt like hell. That's what i LIKE. Really.
- i'm going to jump on the PMing bandwagon here. i offered a friends list add for a price when i first started, and came to realize it was mostly a way for guys to try and get away with saying shit they'd never say in the public room. Some of the guys were total gentlemen about it, but a few used it to try and hold money they'd spent on me over my head. i actually got so upset during a cam show once that i had to log off. It wasn't fair to the people in my room who had no idea what just happened, or to me. i'm nice to a fault sometimes, but i think i've gotten better with regulating that these days. Now i just tell people to send me an mfc mail if there's something they need to talk about privately with me and i'll check it after logging off.
i don't really have a lot of things that upset me, i guess. For the most part, i feel blessed to have such intelligent and fun regulars who make this the best job i've ever had. i also want to say that i love the regulars who will answer questions for me to newbies that come in. It shows that they've paid attention and know my likes and dislikes. Plus it's aggravating to have to answer the same question 20 times a day.
i actually think it's fucking charming as all hell when they change their names to fit a nickname i've given them (or incorporate my name in their sn) while they're in my room. It makes me feel uber special. :-D