I am admittedly a little paranoid because someone I upset on the internet once used the little information they knew about me to find my employer and call them to tell lies about me, and also used it to find information about friends and family members and harass them as well. I'm sure you are right that it's okay to share this information, but it makes me extremely nervous after that incident.I have a differing view, of course everyone is entitled to their own boundaries, but I've never seen the problem with this.
Knowing my first name isn't an invasion of my privacy, lost of guys have it
Asking where I live, well as long as she isn't asking my actual address, it's no threat; Australia is a big fucking country
And I imagine there are a LOT of guys with my name working in my industry in my country, so that is no real risk either.
I know where you're coming from since I'm the only guy in the country where I live (and likely the world) with my exact name, so I use a goto fake name to avoid having to maintain notes lol. But if some disgruntled/jealous/crazy model somehow found my real name and called my boss to complain about <whatever>, he would probably piss himself laughing ... at me! After that, he would probably lock me into his office until he had all the sordid details.I am admittedly a little paranoid because someone I upset on the internet once used the little information they knew about me to find my employer and call them to tell lies about me, and also used it to find information about friends and family members and harass them as well. I'm sure you are right that it's okay to share this information, but it makes me extremely nervous after that incident.
I probably given out 60+ fake names over the last 18 years in the cam world.I don't actually have time for that, thus a fake name when I'm asked
do you know who they are? you could hire a PI to find them if not.I am admittedly a little paranoid because someone I upset on the internet once used the little information they knew about me to find my employer and call them to tell lies about me, and also used it to find information about friends and family members and harass them as well. I'm sure you are right that it's okay to share this information, but it makes me extremely nervous after that incident.
I know where you're coming from since I'm the only guy in the country where I live (and likely the world) with my exact name, so I use a goto fake name to avoid having to maintain notes lol. But if some disgruntled/jealous/crazy model somehow found my real name and called my boss to complain about <whatever>, he would probably piss himself laughing ... at me! After that, he would probably lock me into his office until he had all the sordid details.
I don't actually have time for that, thus a fake name when I'm asked
I don't, but this was over 10 years ago, and when it happened I could barely afford rent so paying a PI never occurred to me. He stalked me for a few years but I managed to lose him by shutting down all my accounts and using new aliases. Want to know what set him off? I made a "yo mama" joke and he got really mad about it.do you know who they are? you could hire a PI to find them if not.
It's a pretty horrible question to get since it would by then be obvious to the model you gave out a fake one! It's superficially flattering to be asked for more personal info I guess, but signs of digging/stalking would have me turned off from the whole thing pretty fast. A model who feel that your (for lack of a better word) white lies about your real name should be exposed is at best awkward, as long as everything else is cordial and professional.A few times, I’ve been confronted with “is this your real name?”
wtf I had no idea other models did that O_OThis happens the other way too. I have been visiting new models lately and getting immediately asked for my real name, where I live, what my job is freaks me out. Let's just keep it light and casual and talk about, like, a Netflix show we both like or something lol
I wish you luck! You're welcome to pop by my streams if you're ever so inclined. My schedule is fucking bananas though lolMe too, me too. Sexual friendships is exactly what I'm looking for, and it can be extremely hard to get. I was extremely lucky with the first model I ever found and now we have exactly this. Sometimes we just chat and talk about our lives and sometimes we go private and get weird. It's exactly what I wanted and needed.
Her schedule has changed though and I have been trying to find other models to visit that hit this vibe and it has been excruciating.
I would be happy to recommend you to my friends since I can certainly vouch for you as witty and charming! I'm not sure how that would come up in the course of conversation though.I always wanted more... Still would love more (female clients).
It's a pretty horrible question to get since it would by then be obvious to the model you gave out a fake one! It's superficially flattering to be asked for more personal info I guess, but signs of digging/stalking would have me turned off from the whole thing pretty fast. A model who feel that your (for lack of a better word) white lies about your real name should be exposed is at best awkward, as long as everything else is cordial and professional.
Yes, I can't imagine me telling any of my friends who's fun to masturbate too either. Or what type of porn I've been watching etc etcI would be happy to recommend you to my friends since I can certainly vouch for you as witty and charming! I'm not sure how that would come up in the course of conversation though.
I'm lucky... as soon as I say England they always just assume London so my location is always safe
I also don't frequent the rooms of models I know from ACF. It's really just me but I would feel awkward doing that and maybe she would too.
I was visited by someone on here and it made my day. I only knew who he was because he told me in a lovely tip note. I was (and am) very appreciative that he took the time to visit me, tip me, and mix in my room a few times even though I don't think I'm really his type. You're on this forum taking from other models. Why wouldn't you give back?
It's always strange to me when I see people who frequent this forum not visit any of the models on here. Sure, people might use different usernames (and probably do), but this sentiment of "I don't visit models from this forum" is something I've read a surprising amount of times. It's disrespectful and insulting towards every single model on here who freely gives their time and energy to make this place what it is.
I apologize for the harshness of my tone, but I really can't get this point across any gentler even though I've rewritten it many times.
I have thought of visiting and tipping models from ACF, but like you, it would have to be a site where I have an account.I’ve visited and tipped models from this forum on many occasions. Each time, I ended up letting them know I was from ACF. And each time, it was a good experience. Although so far, I’ve kept it to models that broadcast on sites where I already have an account.
I haven’t signed up for a new site and purchased tokens specifically to visit an ACF model, which would feel a little too stalkerish for my taste. Almost more so if I didn’t reveal I was from ACF, but that’s just my personality type.
Pretty much every model has an onlyfans, and that's a site that gives us a higher payout.
When Ingo to tip models from ACF, I always go to a site where they'll get the highest possible percentage like spankpay or OF. Or MV tip feature. But there is also reddit etc too, where models can get even more. I don't work reddit, but many models do.
I have multiple accounts on every official site. I feel like a total weirdo now hehe. Tbh it can get a bit overwhelming keeping track of passwords etc But I mean it's good for my mind to practice that stuff.
I've been asked by models from all over the world after spending a non trivial amount of time and money in their room. Some won't ask at all even if you get a decent conversation going, and some have sent me a PM and asked for my name well after I've logged off, either because there were so many other things to talk about or they had a sudden bout of absentminditis or something. Can't say I've seen a cultural pattern in it though, but that's statistics based on my personal dataset containing a microscopic amount of Russian models.My understanding is that Russian models are more likely than others to ask what your name is. And maybe it's a cultural difference but I would be suspicious that they/their studios are seeking user PI for no good reason.
Yes, I can't imagine me telling any of my friends who's fun to masturbate too either. Or what type of porn I've been watching etc etc
That's a bit much for me, and my personal boundary lines within friendships. But at the same time I've had fwb too, in fact I used to excel at those type of relationships. But they were people who the sex stuff started w first, and who became friends 2nd. Not friends first then fuck buddies. God... all of this is confusing and complex. Maybe I just fear a conflict of interests type situation, like I don't want someone pretending to listen to my problems, because they're secretly hoping for head afterwards. Too much for my ADHD mind to unravel and handle.
But at the same time, if other people can manage and thrive w that, more power to them. It's just not for me.
I was visited by someone on here and it made my day. I only knew who he was because he told me in a lovely tip note. I was (and am) very appreciative that he took the time to visit me, tip me, and mix in my room a few times even though I don't think I'm really his type. You're on this forum taking from other models. Why wouldn't you give back?
It's always strange to me when I see people who frequent this forum not visit any of the models on here. Sure, people might use different usernames (and probably do), but this sentiment of "I don't visit models from this forum" is something I've read a surprising amount of times. It's disrespectful and insulting towards every single model on here who freely gives their time and energy to make this place what it is.
I apologize for the harshness of my tone, but I really can't get this point across any gentler even though I've rewritten it many times.
I don't see my actions as disrespectful and insulting toward every single model on here
There's a different dynamic between models and users because it's paid entertainment.
Lastly, I take exception to your implication that I'm free riding in ACF. There's no subscription or cover charge posted here and I would pay a reasonable rate. I'm not aware of any express or implied expectation of quid pro quo in the form of patronising ACF members. And I think that on balance I am helpful and supportive here and even an occasional comic relief. If you don't consider it to be a positive contribution then you don't have to read my posts.