Nordling said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
Guys is is possible to cut the new members a bit of slack. Or do we want to continue abusing all new male members, who have not read the official ACF etiquette manual until they leave? :angry4:
MFCtourist, when I was younger I could certainly understand your viewpoint. But the main reason we don't say negative things about specific models is they could very well be members of ACF, and would not be particular pleased to read that comment. On MFC or other cam site they put up with comments like that and far worse, the thing is they are being paid to do it MFC, on this forum they aren't.
I wasn't aware that making douche comments about groups of people (race, religion, age, ethnicity) was only considered rude here. There is nothing unique to this forum that calls for anyone to get a special manual for respecting other humans. Also, I don't consider what I posted as "abuse." I simply said it was an unnecessary comment, and he elevated it all on his own.
Well now you called his comments "douche". Since routinely provide definitions here it is
a word to describe an individual who has shown themself to be very brainless in one way or another, thus comparing them to the cleansing product for vaginas.
What did he exactly do he to warrant his comments being called a douche?.
MFCtourist said "No offense intended to older women or older models, but if she's 57, I'm kinda glad she chose to be non-nude :-D"
He is stating his opinion which is almost certainly shared by 90+% of the guys on MFC. It is no different than camgirl who say they charge an extra 100 tokens to watch a guys cam who is over 200 lbs and other 100 if they are over 50. A statement which pretty much everybody with a sense of humor, including those of us who are both over 50 and over 200 lbs, finds funny. Eventhough it could be certainly considered offensive for those us horizontal and chronologically gifted
(i.e. old and fat).
He stated his opinion about as mildly as possible. You decided to play White Knight galloping to rescue of the poor helpless camgirl (although at 57 I quite sure she is a woman and fully capable of defending herself). He said stop being so politically correct. At which point three other member jumped on the new member, although they stop short of calling the guy a douche.
So yes I count 1/2 dozen posts directed a member for stating his opinion, which is normal everyplace other than ACF, as a abuse.
Now I'll admit I am being a bit of white knight, cause I am tired of new member come here get slammed and disappear after making a post that some folks consider offensive.
