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Pant222 said:
I believe PlayboyMegan is making chocolate vaginas... You can even marry one if you really want to.
Haha, you're the cutest!AedanRayne said:
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That shouldn't be anyone's dream or hope in the first place :|Pant222 said:
If someone browses MFC with the intention of finding a model they can marry, they're going to have a bad time.
But I think everyone else has already said that. Sorry for not contributing anything helpful. :|
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Do forgive me, but this reminds me somehow of a stern nun at some kind of evil boarding school that secretly experiments on the students :angry-devil:JoleneJolene said:
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C'mere little girl... I have a new ruler that needs breaking in.Evvie said:
I guess where I'm coming from is an uninformed (in this case) over informed (in past cases) point of view. I could be 100% wrong but when I first started on MFC my first regular left after deciding he was going to marry a studio girl from Romania. This may not be the case here but in his case everything is lining up and ended in heartbreak. I'm sure she is a nice girl but she was instructed to play into these types of situations, down to saying she didn't want his tokens because the more she acted like she didn't want them the more he tipped.
In the end he discovered she was "gonna marry" at least three different members. I guess I'm a little jaded.
Now pull your britches down and face the wall!
JoleneJolene said:C'mere little girl... I have a new ruler that needs breaking in.Evvie said:
I guess where I'm coming from is an uninformed (in this case) over informed (in past cases) point of view. I could be 100% wrong but when I first started on MFC my first regular left after deciding he was going to marry a studio girl from Romania. This may not be the case here but in his case everything is lining up and ended in heartbreak. I'm sure she is a nice girl but she was instructed to play into these types of situations, down to saying she didn't want his tokens because the more she acted like she didn't want them the more he tipped.
In the end he discovered she was "gonna marry" at least three different members. I guess I'm a little jaded.
Hopefully that's not the case. And it is cool that she announces in public chat that she loves me, is my gf etc, so hopefully if there are any other gentleman callers for her hand there, it would be very well known. But.... time will tell. And even though (in the words of Dave Mustane) "time has a way of taking time", it always tells all... somehow lol.
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There's an MFC premium who used to come in my room and ask me when we're getting married, and he'd post his phone number in the room. Every time he came in the room, it was all he'd talk about. One of my regulars PMed me to tell me that he's seen him in several other rooms doing the same thing...telling that model that he wants to marry her. :roll:
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I have to admit, when I see talk of models telling members they are to be wed, it reminds me of a Dateline episode about internet scammers. The scheme was to get someone in the USA to fall in love with an internet persona, and after they agreed to be married, the internet persona would ask the USA citizen to accept business packages on their behalf (which was actually merchandise purchased with stolen credit cards).
My point here is not that models openly and happily scam members, but rather that it is insanely easy for someone to get extremely connected with another person online, with no real face-to-face interaction - even when there is serious concern that the online partner may be using them for financial gain.
Right now, Mr. Evvie and I are talking to a lovely young lady who has never met us in person or even Skyped with us, and she is half-way serious joking about moving in with us when she comes to visit for the first time next week. I may argue that Mr. Evvie and I are not out to use her for financial gain, however, after about two hundred text messages and a few e-mails, she is ready to abandon her life and move out of her geographical region to live with two people whom she's never met. If she told this story to anybody I'll bet you they would say, "are you crazy? They're just using you for sex or to work for them... stay away from those crazy people! Get out!"
I think sometimes we like to judge members and models alike for getting too easily or seriously attached to someone they've never met in person, but it is a very easy thing to do, and I don't think most people do it on purpose or even realize it's happening.
My point here is not that models openly and happily scam members, but rather that it is insanely easy for someone to get extremely connected with another person online, with no real face-to-face interaction - even when there is serious concern that the online partner may be using them for financial gain.
Right now, Mr. Evvie and I are talking to a lovely young lady who has never met us in person or even Skyped with us, and she is half-way serious joking about moving in with us when she comes to visit for the first time next week. I may argue that Mr. Evvie and I are not out to use her for financial gain, however, after about two hundred text messages and a few e-mails, she is ready to abandon her life and move out of her geographical region to live with two people whom she's never met. If she told this story to anybody I'll bet you they would say, "are you crazy? They're just using you for sex or to work for them... stay away from those crazy people! Get out!"
I think sometimes we like to judge members and models alike for getting too easily or seriously attached to someone they've never met in person, but it is a very easy thing to do, and I don't think most people do it on purpose or even realize it's happening.
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He was mad that I took him off my friends list, and that he couldn't PM me. He was like "You got all these guys in here who aren't tipping, but I always tip you." Um...tipping me 10 or 20 tokens once every century does not equate to "always tipping me." Nice try though!
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I know zero about any of it but it is possible her life there is so fucked up she sees any move as a total improvement and a stepping stone to a better life or situation.... and IF some mutual orgasme can be added to the mix... Yipee! :thumbleft: :mrgreen:
JoleneJolene said:
Someone once said "a man without hope and a dream is an empty shell and without a soul..."
Just puttin that out there...
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ok ok.. I promise I'll start tipping you more next time. 25 tokens sound good? LOLOLOLOLOL
But seriously, the times I'm able to do it, nothing makes me happier than to tip a model 1000 tokens just to watch the look on her face. Especially when its a tip that no one see's and she doesn't have to do anything for it but just be happy. I hate it when there are a room full of guys saying crap or tipping lots and lots of pocket change like she's some sort of vending machine ready to pop out a soda. It just feels good to make someones day a little better from someone they dont even know for no reason at all. Wish I could do it every day.
Quoting just this line because it rings very true.Evvie said:
The very unfortunate thing is, once one party realizes what's happened, it's too late to fix anything without hurt feelings and days/weeks/months/etc of regret or hostility toward whomever it was that ended it.
I like seeing this happen on ACF:
Member posts something that sounds silly.
Models poke fun at him incessantly.
Either the member takes it in stride and learns new things, or gets frustrated about it and laughed out of the forum. I'm glad this one went the former way.
But yeah, when it comes to matters of love, lust, and camming, you can't always control your feelings. If you fall for someone, you fall for someone. It just isn't wise to go LOOKING for it from cam models, and you need to be aware of what is happening in your specific circumstance before you can move forward, one way or another.
Member posts something that sounds silly.
Models poke fun at him incessantly.
Either the member takes it in stride and learns new things, or gets frustrated about it and laughed out of the forum. I'm glad this one went the former way.
But yeah, when it comes to matters of love, lust, and camming, you can't always control your feelings. If you fall for someone, you fall for someone. It just isn't wise to go LOOKING for it from cam models, and you need to be aware of what is happening in your specific circumstance before you can move forward, one way or another.
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Not this one, her life is okay. I've actually found that the worse someone's life is, the more they feel compelled to stay and try to fix it before leaving. I say abandon all responsibility and gtfo, but some people are all responsible and snizz.SoTxBob said:
Mr. Evvie and I are in the situation where we can fully fulfill the depraved fantasies and life desires of many a woman, so we end up getting a lot of people that are willing to leave all behind and just do kinky shit forever.
Well I just got my bubble burst by her just now and its all i can do to even see the keyboard. I never saw it coming and I dont understand it. I wish there was a world where a nice guy like me could have the same fun but not get burned. I guess thats just not in the cards. I'm probably going to take a break and just sleep for a while, try to figure some things out.
This is the internetz, the only fun you can have on here is looking at LolCatz, and thats with decent spyware software
Seriously though, I'm sure its happened to a million guys on MFC, not that that will make it better now, sleep on it, reflect and get some perspective on your friends on MFC
Seriously though, I'm sure its happened to a million guys on MFC, not that that will make it better now, sleep on it, reflect and get some perspective on your friends on MFC
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Hey dude, I'm sorry. It's not your fault. toying with peoples emotions for personal gain is just fucked up and wrong and I'm really sorry you had to be a victim of it.Pant222 said:
Just to clarify something I said before. I'm not a mean grinch who hates the world. Everyone should have hopes and dreams, the trick is to dream and hope for things in the right place and right time.
Hope and dream to meet your perfect woman someday, but protect yourself at the same time and don't let just anyone in so easily.
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From my experience observing humanity, both sides of anything (romantic or otherwise) often view the same events in very different ways.
You see her practically throwing herself at you, she sees herself being nice to some poor guy in her room... And no matter how you explain to me the events that happened, someone without rose colored glasses would have seen them unfold differently. I've seen it happen plenty of times in person, watching friends have the same thing happen. It's gotta be even worse when the girl is a cam model, doing all sorts of things in front of you - FOR you...
And not to sound mean, but looking at fantasy girls online and thinking it really will turn into this wonderful real life love affair just isn't very realistic. Learn from the experience, that's all you can do...
Thanks guys... Well, the latest.. It seems that Google Translator is not the best thing for an English challenged Romanian. But patience often is. So, tonight I went to her room and she didn't look too cheerful and was really happy I dropped by. So, after making several guys type "? helllooooooo" when she was talking to me the whole time, we took our time with simple, easier to understand sentences instead of long drawn out paragraphs with someone who speaks the same language and understand the same slang. And, I sang to her a Beatles song that she loved. It was funny hearing my voice in her room over her speakers and I'm sure the guys in chat had plenty of "WTF" in their heads. But music is a universal language as are some things. So, we had a very realistic chat about some things and she's going to let me know in one week if she wants it to continue. Its going to be a long week lol.
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I don't mean to be crude, but is your lady by chance a studio model?Pant222 said:
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Its going to be a long week FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Honestly get over it, You were lamenting lost love at 04:03am and are "taking it as it comes at 07:03
You are getting played, made to look a fool and if you don't nip this in the bud I fear you are going to get taken for all you have
If its too good to be true then it often is.....
I'm really sorry that you are going through this. I think the people over at another forum might be able to help you with the why's a bit more than us. Go here http://camgirlnotes.15.forumer.com/ explain your situation with full transparency, and I think they will be able to give you all your answers.Pant222 said:
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I'm just going to type this out here, because some fellow in the future might be in a similar situation, or what have you. Not saying it pertains to this specific situation, but you never know.
It is fairly common knowledge that studio models are often instructed to say or do whatever it takes to keep a customer. And this does include things like never mentioning a boyfriend or husband waiting at home, or her kids, or the fact that she's really a lesbian.
Often times, when I stumble upon one such room on my premium account, the model never looked happier to see me; she sends me an inviting PM and asks me how I'm doing and what's up. If it's a slower room and I start to tip, she'll probably treat me really, really well and shower me with the loves.
And of course, the next time I go in her room, she's going to be even happier to see me.
I would say that this is probably a common M.O. of many models, or just how we behave naturally; we like to see premium members and we like to have friends who come to see us. The difference is that some women are specifically instructed, "never tell him you won't meet him. Never tell him you have a boyfriend. Never tell him you won't move to America some day," while many other models feel more comfortable putting up boundaries beforehand.
To me, it says nothing about the model, but only their situation. Along with the language barrier, it may be possible that some of these models have no idea that their favorite members are in love with them and planning to visit them. MFC is their job, and they do what their bosses say, like we all do when we work under someone.
I think it is very, very difficult in some situations for a member to tell the difference between a model who is excited to see them because they're awesome, an a model who is excited to see them because the model is in love with them. Because essentially, they look exactly the same, right down to the communications involved. A cool guy comes in to my room who tips a lot and is super funny; he always improves my day. Of course I'm going to be excited, and send him a PM right away saying "hi". Of course he is special to me. But all that excitement and happiness and attention can easily translate, for some members, in to "she is really attracted to me, she loves me". The line is further fucked when I won't say "no" to, "are we going to meet some day?" (and perhaps, depending on whom I'm working for, I might say "yes") or when a member asks me, "how do you feel about me?" and I know my boss will bitch at me unless I say, "I really care about you bb, you're very special to me in a lot of ways".
We get a lot of posts on here about members falling for models and then getting straightened out/fucked over (depending on who reads it), and from all the cases I remember it was a misunderstanding. The member read something on her profile, or mistook her friendliness for attraction, or "read between the lines" and assumed the model was available for dating or sex. Yes, a few times models do intentionally and maliciously manipulate members to continue tipping, but I think for the rest of us it's a misunderstanding, and in the case of studio models, they don't have a choice.
...I feel like I'm going to get a lot of disagrees on this one. :twocents-02cents:
It is fairly common knowledge that studio models are often instructed to say or do whatever it takes to keep a customer. And this does include things like never mentioning a boyfriend or husband waiting at home, or her kids, or the fact that she's really a lesbian.
Often times, when I stumble upon one such room on my premium account, the model never looked happier to see me; she sends me an inviting PM and asks me how I'm doing and what's up. If it's a slower room and I start to tip, she'll probably treat me really, really well and shower me with the loves.
And of course, the next time I go in her room, she's going to be even happier to see me.
I would say that this is probably a common M.O. of many models, or just how we behave naturally; we like to see premium members and we like to have friends who come to see us. The difference is that some women are specifically instructed, "never tell him you won't meet him. Never tell him you have a boyfriend. Never tell him you won't move to America some day," while many other models feel more comfortable putting up boundaries beforehand.
To me, it says nothing about the model, but only their situation. Along with the language barrier, it may be possible that some of these models have no idea that their favorite members are in love with them and planning to visit them. MFC is their job, and they do what their bosses say, like we all do when we work under someone.
I think it is very, very difficult in some situations for a member to tell the difference between a model who is excited to see them because they're awesome, an a model who is excited to see them because the model is in love with them. Because essentially, they look exactly the same, right down to the communications involved. A cool guy comes in to my room who tips a lot and is super funny; he always improves my day. Of course I'm going to be excited, and send him a PM right away saying "hi". Of course he is special to me. But all that excitement and happiness and attention can easily translate, for some members, in to "she is really attracted to me, she loves me". The line is further fucked when I won't say "no" to, "are we going to meet some day?" (and perhaps, depending on whom I'm working for, I might say "yes") or when a member asks me, "how do you feel about me?" and I know my boss will bitch at me unless I say, "I really care about you bb, you're very special to me in a lot of ways".
We get a lot of posts on here about members falling for models and then getting straightened out/fucked over (depending on who reads it), and from all the cases I remember it was a misunderstanding. The member read something on her profile, or mistook her friendliness for attraction, or "read between the lines" and assumed the model was available for dating or sex. Yes, a few times models do intentionally and maliciously manipulate members to continue tipping, but I think for the rest of us it's a misunderstanding, and in the case of studio models, they don't have a choice.
...I feel like I'm going to get a lot of disagrees on this one. :twocents-02cents:
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