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:love5: evvie! That was so perfect and spot on.
mynameisbob84 said:When I go into a model's room they can smell the animal magnetism that exudes from every pore of my being as it rises from their computer like steam from a fresh dog shit. Then they lose control of their faculties, wailing about, desperately trying to profess their love for me as they're overcome with feelings they never knew existed. I may or may not be talking bollocks :?
:text-yeahthat:FrenshKiss said:A lot of my first regulars stopped coming into my room because I would not tell them more about me. I felt bad at the beginning but then privacy is a huge deal.
I know for sure that members can get extremely jealous :s but honestly, I still think romance might happen..! The connection just needs to be mutual and real. However, how can anyone know what is real when a cam girl is there to entertain and bring fantasy? Many of the cam girls struggle on daily basis but never complain about it online and are always smiling and have a great energy. Does it mean that they are like that all the time in their real life?
I might seem contradicting myself a lot, I guess I am just a helpless dreamer
Evvie said:I'm just going to type this out here, because some fellow in the future might be in a similar situation, or what have you. Not saying it pertains to this specific situation, but you never know.
It is fairly common knowledge that studio models are often instructed to say or do whatever it takes to keep a customer. And this does include things like never mentioning a boyfriend or husband waiting at home, or her kids, or the fact that she's really a lesbian.
Often times, when I stumble upon one such room on my premium account, the model never looked happier to see me; she sends me an inviting PM and asks me how I'm doing and what's up. If it's a slower room and I start to tip, she'll probably treat me really, really well and shower me with the loves.
And of course, the next time I go in her room, she's going to be even happier to see me.
I would say that this is probably a common M.O. of many models, or just how we behave naturally; we like to see premium members and we like to have friends who come to see us. The difference is that some women are specifically instructed, "never tell him you won't meet him. Never tell him you have a boyfriend. Never tell him you won't move to America some day," while many other models feel more comfortable putting up boundaries beforehand.
To me, it says nothing about the model, but only their situation. Along with the language barrier, it may be possible that some of these models have no idea that their favorite members are in love with them and planning to visit them. MFC is their job, and they do what their bosses say, like we all do when we work under someone.
I think it is very, very difficult in some situations for a member to tell the difference between a model who is excited to see them because they're awesome, an a model who is excited to see them because the model is in love with them. Because essentially, they look exactly the same, right down to the communications involved. A cool guy comes in to my room who tips a lot and is super funny; he always improves my day. Of course I'm going to be excited, and send him a PM right away saying "hi". Of course he is special to me. But all that excitement and happiness and attention can easily translate, for some members, in to "she is really attracted to me, she loves me". The line is further fucked when I won't say "no" to, "are we going to meet some day?" (and perhaps, depending on whom I'm working for, I might say "yes") or when a member asks me, "how do you feel about me?" and I know my boss will bitch at me unless I say, "I really care about you bb, you're very special to me in a lot of ways".
We get a lot of posts on here about members falling for models and then getting straightened out/fucked over (depending on who reads it), and from all the cases I remember it was a misunderstanding. The member read something on her profile, or mistook her friendliness for attraction, or "read between the lines" and assumed the model was available for dating or sex. Yes, a few times models do intentionally and maliciously manipulate members to continue tipping, but I think for the rest of us it's a misunderstanding, and in the case of studio models, they don't have a choice.
...I feel like I'm going to get a lot of disagrees on this one. :twocents-02cents:
FrenshKiss said:A lot of my first regulars stopped coming into my room because I would not tell them more about me. I felt bad at the beginning but then privacy is a huge deal.
I know for sure that members can get extremely jealous :s but honestly, I still think romance might happen..! The connection just needs to be mutual and real. However, how can anyone know what is real when a cam girl is there to entertain and bring fantasy? Many of the cam girls struggle on daily basis but never complain about it online and are always smiling and have a great energy. Does it mean that they are like that all the time in their real life?
I might seem contradicting myself a lot, I guess I am just a helpless dreamer
You have a good sense of humor, Pants.Pant222 said:FrenshKiss said:A lot of my first regulars stopped coming into my room because I would not tell them more about me. I felt bad at the beginning but then privacy is a huge deal.
I know for sure that members can get extremely jealous :s but honestly, I still think romance might happen..! The connection just needs to be mutual and real. However, how can anyone know what is real when a cam girl is there to entertain and bring fantasy? Many of the cam girls struggle on daily basis but never complain about it online and are always smiling and have a great energy. Does it mean that they are like that all the time in their real life?
I might seem contradicting myself a lot, I guess I am just a helpless dreamer
Where ever the reality is, is the reality to me. If it is real to me, it will have real consequences. I prefer the dream and if that means being in a coma for the rest of my life believing I'm really living in bliss with the most beautiful girl in the world, so be it. It sure beats having to clean the house or do the laundry. But, one good thing about loving cam girls, is that I've saved a ton of money having to wash my clothes. Towels.....??? well that's a different story altogether.
Evvie said:You have a good sense of humor, Pants.Pant222 said:FrenshKiss said:A lot of my first regulars stopped coming into my room because I would not tell them more about me. I felt bad at the beginning but then privacy is a huge deal.
I know for sure that members can get extremely jealous :s but honestly, I still think romance might happen..! The connection just needs to be mutual and real. However, how can anyone know what is real when a cam girl is there to entertain and bring fantasy? Many of the cam girls struggle on daily basis but never complain about it online and are always smiling and have a great energy. Does it mean that they are like that all the time in their real life?
I might seem contradicting myself a lot, I guess I am just a helpless dreamer
Where ever the reality is, is the reality to me. If it is real to me, it will have real consequences. I prefer the dream and if that means being in a coma for the rest of my life believing I'm really living in bliss with the most beautiful girl in the world, so be it. It sure beats having to clean the house or do the laundry. But, one good thing about loving cam girls, is that I've saved a ton of money having to wash my clothes. Towels.....??? well that's a different story altogether.
Crumb said:and just sayin here, that it's possible...
I know a couple of former studio models that found their men via mfc... ones married and soon to be living in australia, and one is soon to be married to another aussie dude. and another i know is "in love"
all three girls have quit their jobs as camgirls cause their new dudes didn't like it so much.
I know this contradicts all the well written posts in this thread, but it can happen.
Littlegringo said:Pants, you just seem to be building yourself up for a hell of a fall. It's one thing to hope, but you seem to be borderline obsessed with the possibility of something becoming reality. I'd really suggest trying to prepare yourself for this not to be what you want. Like, if you buy a lottery ticket do you walk around behaving as if you've already won? That's the vibe I get from how seem to be about whether or not this is going to be reality. It would be a lot healthier to prepare yourself mentally for the possibility it isn't going to happen, and if the unlikely does happen, then great, you get to legitimately be excited about it... It doesn't mean don't hope, it just means don't look at that hope as if it is the be all and end all of existence for you.
Crumb said:and just sayin here, that it's possible...
I know a couple of former studio models that found their men via mfc... ones married and soon to be living in australia, and one is soon to be married to another aussie dude. and another i know is "in love"
all three girls have quit their jobs as camgirls cause their new dudes didn't like it so much.
I know this contradicts all the well written posts in this thread, but it can happen.
Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
My thoughts exactly. :lol:
If those girls gave up their camming jobs to make their new guys happy, I sure hope it was worth it.
I didn't bother to mention the hypocrisy of it to themJust Me said:Crumb said:and just sayin here, that it's possible...
I know a couple of former studio models that found their men via mfc... ones married and soon to be living in australia, and one is soon to be married to another aussie dude. and another i know is "in love"
all three girls have quit their jobs as camgirls cause their new dudes didn't like it so much.
I know this contradicts all the well written posts in this thread, but it can happen.
Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
Two of the girls found australian guys, sometimes I can't help but to think it was a way to get out of Russia.The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
My thoughts exactly. :lol:
If those girls gave up their camming jobs to make their new guys happy, I sure hope it was worth it.
I believe this is why we often encourage members here to not pursue models.sweetiebatman said:The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
My thoughts exactly. :lol:
If those girls gave up their camming jobs to make their new guys happy, I sure hope it was worth it.
There is always the exception to every rule, It does not mean that rule is wrong
for every 1 true love story I am willing to bet the are 50 men sobbing after being cheated out of $$$
As said, I am sure there are people who have found love with a camgirl but to go out looking is just to set yourself up for failure and heartbreak
sweetiebatman said:The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
My thoughts exactly. :lol:
If those girls gave up their camming jobs to make their new guys happy, I sure hope it was worth it.
There is always the exception to every rule, It does not mean that rule is wrong
for every 1 true love story I am willing to bet the are 50 men sobbing after being cheated out of $$$
As said, I am sure there are people who have found love with a camgirl but to go out looking is just to set yourself up for failure and heartbreak
Crumb said:the one I had the "closer relationship" with, I advised to at least find another job before quitting camming, but she wouldn't listen.
The_Brown_Fox said:sweetiebatman said:The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
My thoughts exactly. :lol:
If those girls gave up their camming jobs to make their new guys happy, I sure hope it was worth it.
There is always the exception to every rule, It does not mean that rule is wrong
for every 1 true love story I am willing to bet the are 50 men sobbing after being cheated out of $$$
As said, I am sure there are people who have found love with a camgirl but to go out looking is just to set yourself up for failure and heartbreak
I said I hope it was worth it. Nobody said it's wrong. It's not wrong unless you're actually harassing models about it ("Come on...why won't you be my wife, bb?"). Then you're just straight-up creepy and desperate. There are matchmaking sites out there, you know.
If love happens to find you on MFC, that's one thing. But to hop from room to room looking for a wife is pretty unrealistic. Match.com would be the more appropriate place.
Nordling said:Very true, Evvie. In fact I knew a guy when I was in the Navy who married a filipino lady. Later at a party of sailors and some of their wives ashore, the lady admitted to the other wives (who later told their husbands lol) that she only married him to get to the US and out of the Philippines.
Pant222 said:Sometimes going pvt with a martini, smoked salmon, Bree cheese and some caviar helps lol.
Nordling said:Weed wisdom can be very wise sometimes.
Many years ago, while smoking dope with a buddy, we were discussing relationships, dating, marriage, etc., when he came up with this comment that always stuck with me...
"You should never say, I want to meet someone and get married. You should only say, 'I want to marry THIS person.'"
In other words, don't look for love, if love is meant to happen, it will find you.
The_Brown_Fox said:Just Me said:Their new dudes did not like them being camgirls and they met them on MFC or another camsite? Yes, I see those marriages working well. :lol:
My thoughts exactly. :lol:
If those girls gave up their camming jobs to make their new guys happy, I sure hope it was worth it.