Do we have what it takes?

[eeccrraaiigg]

@eeccrraaiigg
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Thanks for the award!! Hahaha, I have a job doing what I love but I'm off the books at a small shop doing IT and all tech related work, I am a total nerd haha, its just I'm not making enough money and I dont think even having a bunch of certifications and whatnot if I'll really be able to make it fro a company thats big and would do background checks lol, I'm still working on it though! I just thought might as well capitalize on me not caring about being naked in front of anyone lmao!

Yay!!! OP proved me wrong!!!

This is honestly just what I needed today

Hey I am glad I did!! I like to do that every once in a while lol

That being said we're still exploring this, I told her we definitely shouldn't just jump in this, shes right next to me right now actually lol. She is definitely still interested in doing this though but...lets wait a little while

 

[Blue_Skyes]

why is she against camming solo but not with you? genuinely curious

Hey, It's not that I'm against camming solo it's just that I myself don't find entertainment or excitement from playing with myself on cam like that. I would also really feel the sexual moment if my boyfriend was the one pleasing me instead of myself. It would be genuine and would reflect well on camera. Also, he has done this before so he has some experience and I would just really feel better with him by my side at this point. Also, if I was to do it solo, I would sometime down the road but I'm not saying I would 100% for sure, because I find my pleasure with my boyfriend amazing instead of doing it myself. He kinda knows what he's doing lmao!!!

So far, so good, OP! Come back and keep reading. Hopefully we'll get to hear from your gf, too...

Hey girl, so thank you for saying that we're both pretty!!! I love compliments when I get them hahaha! Also I have been on here a lot with him reading everyone's comments about all of this and I have done the research and I have found out what I need to do. Also, the thing with the jobs and careers and stuff, I have done the research and I am perfectly fine with it and I believe that if I am totally up for it 100% . But thank you anyways for your concerns about my future and everything. Also, thank you for being the one of the only one's to stick up for my boyfriend .

While I agree that so far he has been quite polite and pleasant, its actions like this though that worry me that he may not care that much about her well being. I hope OP obtained his gf's permission before he posted the photos otherwise that was a pretty risky and thoughtless thing to do.

Please prove me wrong OP! I want to believe!

But until then, yeah, I have some concern for his teenage girlfriend who he seems to want to groom for porn.

Hey girl, he did ask me before he posted pictures of me on here, so therefore he isn't risky or thoughtless for doing that. My boyfriend does really care about me and my well being, so I trust him with everything I got. My boyfriend honestly does not wanna groom me for porn, because he asked me a long time ago to look into this when I asked him about it (because he told me how he had done it for a little bit and made some money) and decide and he also told me that I didn't have to do this and that he didn't wanna make it seem like I had to do it because he had done it before, because if he wants to do it then he can go right ahead and do it if he wants i could care less.

Also this isn't just for you, this is for all the concerned members here. This boy have gave me a life that no one else could every given me. I met him and it was just instant sparks between us. When we first met though I lived at home with my parents in a different county than him. My parents weren't abusive but they were just treating me and doing me wrong and he loves me so much that he drove about 5 hours to come and get me and bring me to his house, where I could be safe and have a good/positive/bright future/life. As of right now, I have no job and he spends every penny that he has to make sure that I am always happy and taken care of and I couldn't ask or want anyone else other than what I have in my life right now. He has literally been by my side since day one and it is really hard to find a guy like that, I know that he cares about me because of the way he treats me and stuff (actions always speak louder then words). Personality also goes along way because when me and him are together it is really really amazing, because me and him click like I have never seen a couple click before. When me and him are together, we can literally just be ourselves and not have to hide the true weird people we are lmao because what's love if you can't act crazy around each other. Yes, we have only been together for a few months, but trust me we aren't anywhere near breaking up, because I look and read all the time about how he talks to his friends and family about me and how much he cares for me and wants to marry me in a few years and maybe start a family later on when we want, y'all can't come at someone like that before you really know what he has done for the person he loves. My boyfriend is one of the nicest, most sweetest guy that you will probably ever meet, because I honestly don't know anyone else that is like him or would have done what he has done for me like he has. He literally does truly care about me and my well being a lot or else he wouldn't have drove forever to come get me. He gives me stuff without me even asking for it. Sometimes he comes home with a gift or something on random days and surprises me which truly makes it positive for me that he thinks about me even when he isn't around me. Also, he knows how to treat me because he has never once talked to another girl or hurt me in any way. We don't argue like most couples if we do it is small and we end up being mean and calling each other names lmao. Honestly, it's the little things in life that you have to look at before you and go and judge a person. I'm not saying that anyone judged him or said anything bad towards him, but some of y'all did seem to target him as if he was a bad guy and was trying to use me to do this and make money off of it and not let me have anything to do with it at all, because that is not at all the truth because I wanna make money with my boyfriend (yes we would share it like we do everything else lmao) I would rather do camming with him and make money because I would be more pleasured then just to sit there and be bored while playing with myself trying to make money and not be happy doing it at all because if I am making money for camming and stuff I wanna make money and also be pleasured while doing it (if you get what I'm trying to say lmao). But trust me y'all you don't have to target and make it look like he is a scumbag and that he just wants to use me for cash or groom me for porn, because he doesn't. He loves and cares for me like no one could ever believe and honestly most of it I can't even put into words how well he treats me. But don't think he just put this on me, no I asked him about it and he told me and said I could do some research and see if maybe I wanted to try it, and yes I am going to do this and nothing is gonna affect my decisions. Also, thank y'all all for your concerns and comments. Talk to y'all soon!!!

 

[eeccrraaiigg]

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OMG!!!! There's my baby!! You just made me tear up reading this at work, I love you babe ...

Well ladies....She's all your's now!!!!!!!!! Good luck! lmao Just kidding ;P

 

[ZoeBanx]

it's great that you want this to be fun for you and for the sex to be genuine. there will be lots of real fun times and real orgasms but keep in mind it's also a job and you *will* be bored plenty of the time too. also people will ask you to do things and get into positions that aren't comfortable or pleasurable.. and of course you don't have to do anything, but if you're serious about making money with this it's something to take into consideration 'cause aside from the "real" factor, the other main reason people seek out and pay for couples cams is for the interaction and ability to have some control over the scene. good luck in whatever you guys decide to do!

 

[eeccrraaiigg]

it's great that you want this to be fun for you and for the sex to be genuine. there will be lots of real fun times and real orgasms but keep in mind it's also a job and you *will* be bored plenty of the time too. also people will ask you to do things and get into positions that aren't comfortable or pleasurable.. and of course you don't have to do anything, but if you're serious about making money with this it's something to take into consideration 'cause aside from the "real" factor, the other main reason people seek out and pay for couples cams is for the interaction and ability to have some control over the scene. good luck in whatever you guys decide to do!

Thank you for some solid advice! Now that my girlfriend is here, no one seems to want to talk now lol??? I thought everyone wanted her to come on so you guys could talk to her??? Either way you guys have been super helpful, thanks everyone!!!

 

[EmptyKins]

Have you tried recording any test runs yet? Not for uploading, just for personally seeing how you look on cam together?

 

[eeccrraaiigg]

Have you tried recording any test runs yet? Not for uploading, just for personally seeing how you look on cam together?

Yes we did a few test runs and we both agreed thaaaaaaat......it looks hot AF and we look really good together and the chemistry is so amazing, just like it was on the floor a second ago lmao....why the floor? because... that's just when it happened to go down and we were there!! lol ugh was so hot

 

[EmptyKins]

In my experience members tend to request a lot of different positions for the couple to perform. I wish I'd practiced with my partner ahead of time to avoid awkward webcam adjustments in a full chat room. I also wish I'd never cammed with a male partner at all because my fan base became more demanding and less respectful towards me. Some of my regulars even stopped watching my stream and instead requested solo sessions. Keep in mind everything you stream is being recorded, if you are still able to sleep knowing that fact, go for it.

 

[EmptyKins]

Thank you for some solid advice! Now that my girlfriend is here, no one seems to want to talk now lol??? I thought everyone wanted her to come on so you guys could talk to her??? Either way you guys have been super helpful, thanks everyone!!!

It seems like this thread was answered. @Blue_Skyes if you have further questions not answered in other threads maybe you should start a new one?

 

[Issa]

Sorry guys -- the models tend to hang out more in the Models Only section of the forum. I found this mostly by chance in the first place and only came back after I got a notification about someone rating one of my posts here a few minutes ago. I think most of the ladies here turn off auto-notifications for threads to prevent getting buried in new post emails. A new thread by @Blue_Skyes about any questions she has + a link to this thread will probably get more fresh replies.

Anywho.

Hopefully none of what I've posted thus far as come across as attacking. I try to stay on the useful side of the line between hard reality check and on the offensive. I think @eeccrraaiigg has been super receptive to input thus far and that puts him firmly on the list of people I'm happy to chat with. We get a lot (A LOT, holy crap, you would not believe...) of assholes around these parts who aren't coming from a place of concern/compassion for their partners. We also get plenty of dudes who'll post pics of/info about women without their permission in hopes of getting more 'dirt' to use against them, which is always a trip. We're all a weeeee bit suspicious until proven otherwise. No offense meant. We just try to protect those not necessarily around to protect themselves, since the public at large isn't known for defending those in our industry.

Anywho #2, good to see you @Blue_Skyes. This sounds like something you're really interested in pursuing, and more power to you for it. As personal and potentially unsolicited advice goes, you may want to consider clips more than live cam at this point. From what you've posted, you're looking for the one-two punch of having sexy times you enjoy and making money off of it. That'll be much easier via the clips/vids route. There you get to pick what you film, how you do it, when you do it, etc., which isn't how live cam goes. Live cam is predominantly customers telling you exactly what they WANT to see, and they don't care if it feels good for one or both of you, let alone feasiblity. You'll be expected to preform on demand, regardless, and I think @eeccrraaiigg can give you some real insight into how well dudes can pop a boner on demand for the 8th time in any given day. Couple stuff is all about the customer (pretty much always male) being able to imagine HIMSELF in the role of your boyfriend, who will be something of a stunt cock. Clips are far more in your control, given all of that.

TL;DR -- Clips are what you want, when you want, how you want. Cam is what the customer wants, when they want it, how they want it, and your input is rarely of concern.

I understand that you're not particularly interested in doing solo work, and that's cool. You'll make far less as a couple though, no questions asked. Customers just seem more interested in that one-on-one stuff, be it clips, cam, phone sex, sexting, or what have you.