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Why do you send unsolicited dick pics to girls?

  • I don't

    Votes: 73 89.0%
  • I'm an exhibitionist

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • To get free SPH

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Bitches love dick pics

    Votes: 4 4.9%
  • To get free dirty talk

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • My dick is just too nice not to share

    Votes: 1 1.2%
  • To get opinions on my dick

    Votes: 1 1.2%
  • Other (please elaborate in comments)

    Votes: 4 4.9%

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AerynShade said:
DeezNA said:
This might sound counter-intuitive but I'd be really interested to know if there were any models on here that haven't gotten unsolicited dick pics sent to them and, if so, why they think that is.
I don't think I've ever received an unsolicited dick pic. (Actually I don't think I've ever received a solicited one even.) I wasn't popular on MFC nor Chaturbate when I was active on those sites. Guess I wasn't worth the effort? I get all sorts of creepy fucking emails though.

That's pretty interesting. I'm not quite popular on any camsite, but I get the creepy messages all the time on SM, complete with dick pics and personal contact info. :woops:
 
I get about 20 a day on SM but because I have a standing rule about pictures sent to me I never even open them. My rule is, if you're going to send me a dick pic you also have to send a picture of a kitten just in case your dick is traumatizing. I've had maybe 10 people in two years follow the rule.

I think the idea seems to be that I love masturbating so obviously I'm just starved for cock when in reality they're two totally different things and pretty much every woman I know that's even remotely interested in dick agrees. Sex toys and dick are not the same and just because you enjoy one doesn't mean you want the other. And then there are the guys that seem to be teetering between proud and self conscious that just need to be reassured by as many women as possible that their dick is okay. Like, dude, I have no clue what your dick is like, it looks like a dick so yay...you're probably not a mutant/alien?
 
Diana Blake said:
I get about 20 a day on SM but because I have a standing rule about pictures sent to me I never even open them. My rule is, if you're going to send me a dick pic you also have to send a picture of a kitten just in case your dick is traumatizing. I've had maybe 10 people in two years follow the rule.

I think the idea seems to be that I love masturbating so obviously I'm just starved for cock when in reality they're two totally different things and pretty much every woman I know that's even remotely interested in dick agrees. Sex toys and dick are not the same and just because you enjoy one doesn't mean you want the other. And then there are the guys that seem to be teetering between proud and self conscious that just need to be reassured by as many women as possible that their dick is okay. Like, dude, I have no clue what your dick is like, it looks like a dick so yay...you're probably not a mutant/alien?

I feel SO much better after reading your last sentence. :lol:
 
mutantdonut said:
Katrina Jade's snapchat game
The last time a cam girl tweeted (or retweeted) a ton of dick pics there was quite a harsh negative outcry from her other followers, lol.
 
AmberCutie said:
mutantdonut said:
Katrina Jade's snapchat game
The last time a cam girl tweeted (or retweeted) a ton of dick pics there was quite a harsh negative outcry from her other followers, lol.

Totally Random Interjection:

Everytime I hear about something like that happening (and it's happened to me once in a vaguely similar capacity) I think of that scene from Vanilla Sky where Cameron Diaz is driving like a maniac and basically threatening to kill both herself and Tom Cruise because they "MADE A PROMISE WITH THEIR BODIES"

Some gentleman genuinely consider the unsolicited gifting of dick pics to be a sacred interaction and it's a rude awakening when the recipient of their dick-blessing does not mirror that sentiment.
 
AmberCutie said:
mutantdonut said:
Katrina Jade's snapchat game
The last time a cam girl tweeted (or retweeted) a ton of dick pics there was quite a harsh negative outcry from her other followers, lol.

My initial reaction to her doing that was WTF and then I started laughing and thought it made her point really well.

In Katrina's case the threat is probably ok, but actually doing it is over the line. At minimum she is violating copyright law (he sent her the picture not the right for her to republish it) but more importantly it quite possibly violates state cyberbullying laws. While generally these laws exist to protect school kids from cyberbullies (If you don't do X, I'm going to post the naked pictures of you on social media.) they are increasingly being expanded to cover adults.
 
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HiGirlsRHot said:
My initial reaction to her doing that was WTF and then I started laughing and thought it made her point really well.

In Katrina's case the threat is probably ok, but actually doing it is over the line. At minimum she is violating copyright law (he sent her the picture not the right for her to republish it) but more importantly it quite possibly violates state cyberbullying laws. While generally these laws exist to protect school kids from cyberbullies (If you don't do X, I'm going to post the naked pictures of you on social media.) they are increasingly being expanded to cover adults.

It's entirely possible I'm totally out of the loop here but are you saying that someone got an internationally recognized copyright on their dick pic?
 
AmyLemon said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
My initial reaction to her doing that was WTF and then I started laughing and thought it made her point really well.

In Katrina's case the threat is probably ok, but actually doing it is over the line. At minimum she is violating copyright law (he sent her the picture not the right for her to republish it) but more importantly it quite possibly violates state cyberbullying laws. While generally these laws exist to protect school kids from cyberbullies (If you don't do X, I'm going to post the naked pictures of you on social media.) they are increasingly being expanded to cover adults.

It's entirely possible I'm totally out of the loop here but are you saying that someone got an internationally recognized copyright on their dick pic?

Pictures are copyrighted automatically, doesn't matter if it is sunrise over Half Dome, or a limp 2 inch dick it's an artistic expression.

Under the Federal Copyright Act of 1976, photographs are protected by copyright from the moment of creation.
 
HiGirlsRHot said:
AmyLemon said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
My initial reaction to her doing that was WTF and then I started laughing and thought it made her point really well.

In Katrina's case the threat is probably ok, but actually doing it is over the line. At minimum she is violating copyright law (he sent her the picture not the right for her to republish it) but more importantly it quite possibly violates state cyberbullying laws. While generally these laws exist to protect school kids from cyberbullies (If you don't do X, I'm going to post the naked pictures of you on social media.) they are increasingly being expanded to cover adults.

It's entirely possible I'm totally out of the loop here but are you saying that someone got an internationally recognized copyright on their dick pic?

Pictures are copyrighted automatically, doesn't matter if it is sunrise over Half Dome, or a limp 2 inch dick it's an artistic expression.

Under the Federal Copyright Act of 1976, photographs are protected by copyright from the moment of creation.

TOUCHE! I never, in my life, thought I'd ever have a conversation on a sexy forum about Berne Convention being applied to dick pics. Lets all take a moment and recognize what a magical world we live in :lol: :lol: :lol:

 
Never have and I probably never will. Only time I considered it was because of a contest idea where everyone would paint or dress up their dick in character form, I thought that was kind of a cool idea and was considering popping a viagra and having a friend go to town painting it up, then finding toy costumes for it! It probably wouldn't have even been recognizable as a penis with my plan. The contest never happened and it turned out to be humorous riffing of an idea so I never went through with it.

I used to always think that women didn't find the penis that attractive (which I get, I'm not the least bit interested in a vagina flash without seeing the whole picture), until my friend would show me texts from his girlfriend (now wife) begging for him to send her dick pics. I'm still leaning more toward her just placating him and trying to sound "naughty" as a teasing technique, but I don't think one can say that every girl hates dick pics, there has to be a few that have that as a fetish. Obviously it is also likely a lot hotter if you love the person of said dick pic, rather then random creepy dude on the internet's dick, which this thread seems to be in regards to.
 
:lol: :lol: :lol:
I have had several discussion of the finer points of the Berne Convention on Copyrights on this forum, including with a capper who was claiming that because MFC was streaming their feed unencrypted it didn't qualify for copyright protection. I was tempted to call my good friend an IP lawyer to see if the capper was smoking dope or there was some actual case law.

No the irony wasn't lost on me.
 
ACFFAN69 said:
Never have and I probably never will. Only time I considered it was because of a contest idea where everyone would paint or dress up their dick in character form, I thought that was kind of a cool idea and was considering popping a viagra and having a friend go to town painting it up, then finding toy costumes for it! It probably wouldn't have even been recognizable as a penis with my plan. The contest never happened and it turned out to be humorous riffing of an idea so I never went through with it.

I used to always think that women didn't find the penis that attractive (which I get, I'm not the least bit interested in a vagina flash without seeing the whole picture), until my friend would show me texts from his girlfriend (now wife) begging for him to send her dick pics. I'm still leaning more toward her just placating him and trying to sound "naughty" as a teasing technique, but I don't think one can say that every girl hates dick pics, there has to be a few that have that as a fetish. Obviously it is also likely a lot hotter if you love the person of said dick pic, rather then random creepy dude on the internet's dick, which this thread seems to be in regards to.

Accurate point - if someone that I'm banging sends me a dick pic, I have experience with that dick, I know what it can do for me, and it's a turn on. Someone I'm planning on banging - sure, I don't mind knowing what to expect. Random strange peen, on the other hand? Nope, gross, go away.
 
VeronicaChaos said:
ILikeUonTop said:
I have sent dick pics to ladies but only after they have asked me for one. I would never send one just to send one. I have heard too many girls complain about dick picks to want to be "that guy". Plus, I know dicks aren't that attractive. Most ladies want to see one if they are really horny or something, but don't want to just look at it and admire it and say "Wow, what a beautiful penis." No, pussies are beautiful, dicks are just awkward to look at. Don't even get me started talking about balls.
False.

I meant if they want to see one, that's when they will want to see it.
 
HiGirlsRHot said:
AmyLemon said:
HiGirlsRHot said:
My initial reaction to her doing that was WTF and then I started laughing and thought it made her point really well.

In Katrina's case the threat is probably ok, but actually doing it is over the line. At minimum she is violating copyright law (he sent her the picture not the right for her to republish it) but more importantly it quite possibly violates state cyberbullying laws. While generally these laws exist to protect school kids from cyberbullies (If you don't do X, I'm going to post the naked pictures of you on social media.) they are increasingly being expanded to cover adults.

It's entirely possible I'm totally out of the loop here but are you saying that someone got an internationally recognized copyright on their dick pic?

Pictures are copyrighted automatically, doesn't matter if it is sunrise over Half Dome, or a limp 2 inch dick it's an artistic expression.

Under the Federal Copyright Act of 1976, photographs are protected by copyright from the moment of creation.

I'd like to see a man who sent an unsolicited/unwanted picture of his penis to a woman (which is a form of sexual harassment/cyberbulling in and of itself) try to take her to court for infringing on his copyright of said dick pic. Pretty sure he'd get laughed out of court, Federal Copyright Act or no. :p

As for dick pics, I get sent them quite a bit. Maybe 3-4 times a week, but generally as attachments on SM messages that I choose not to open (it's easy to know it's a dick pic when the message is 'let me know what you think' or 'u like bb??') These have never come from anyone who has tipped me, pledged for a show, or gone into a Private with me, it's always just some random guy who decided to send me a 'present'. I usually reply and say that I don't open picture attachments, but they can take me Exclusive sometime and I'll watch their cam. Not a single one has taken me up on that offer. It's like they think I'm a camgirl because I love looking at their dick... when in reality, it's 'cause I like something that's a couple inches longer, several shades greener, and with far more staying power. :lol:
 
Recently, I've been regularly getting dick pics from 2 guys on my Snapchat list.
Yesterday I sent a snap of me looking a bit grumpy in front of the customs office with a caption that said that I've had to spend a long time there. (I like to show some everyday things on my Snapchat as well as sexy pics/vids.)
One of the 2 guys sent me a pick of his dick in his hand with the caption 'Maybe this will make you smile ;)'.

They paid for it, so I'm not quite sure how to handle it. x__x
This is the first time that anyone who's spent money on me has been sending me dick pics.
 
It I were to guess, big dig porn is searched out more for the visual of the vag. Sensation aside, you can get the best angles and the most exaggerated stretching and movement with larger penises, which looks more intense on film.

What feels good in real life and what looks good on camera are rarely the same.
 
This is the internet. All sorts of twisted things live here. Maybe sending dick pics feeds into a fetish for some. Chances are a lot of them are just trolls being assholes in a way that often gets what they want, a reaction. Either way, this falls into the same category as other types of "free speech" in my opinion: you can be into whatever you like (fetishes, religion, politics, selling stuff, whatever), but your right to put it out there ends at your neighbor's door. If you get in my face with something I didn't ask for, you forfeit your right to expect respectful treatment from me. My default attitude is that everyone gets respect until they demonstrate that they don't deserve it. This counts as a demonstration of that.

As to the original question: did you honestly think a large percentage of guys have done it? Seriously, I get that it happens and that when your profession involves being a sexy woman in public, you're going to get more than your share of it (no, you are not asking for it, but guys who do think that way will come out of the woodwork), but this is not a page out of the "average guy's handbook." Sometimes I get kind of frustrated with all the talk about bad things guys do. Some guys do bad things, but most guys are not any more bad than most women are. The problem, I think, is that the loudest, most attention-demanding people also tend to be the least reasonable, and bad behavior evokes more public reaction than good behavior. This tends to give the impression that an obnoxious few are actually representative of many more people than they really are.
 
I've never sent dick pics, but I've received some from people who didn't look further than my androgynous nickname on some websites. I don't get the appeal of close up of genitalia, male or female ones, so I don't really understand what they expect. I'd rather receive a good butt pic.

edit: And apparently, I've blocked around 40 dudes with dick avatar on Tumblr, which is less than 0,4% of my userbase.
 
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JoleneBrody said:
It I were to guess, big dig porn is searched out more for the visual of the vag. Sensation aside, you can get the best angles and the most exaggerated stretching and movement with larger penises, which looks more intense on film.

What feels good in real life and what looks good on camera are rarely the same.
This and I think a lot of guys are slightly sadistic. A lot of porn is degrading (not saying that's a bad thing) but even just vanilla porn the girl gets slapped in the face, spit on, choked. So it's no surprise to me that men want to see her pussy being stretched open, too. Even if she seemingly enjoys it, there's still a little pain factor there. :twocents-02cents:
 
HarmlessSquirrel said:
This is the internet. All sorts of twisted things live here. Maybe sending dick pics feeds into a fetish for some. Chances are a lot of them are just trolls being assholes in a way that often gets what they want, a reaction. Either way, this falls into the same category as other types of "free speech" in my opinion: you can be into whatever you like (fetishes, religion, politics, selling stuff, whatever), but your right to put it out there ends at your neighbor's door. If you get in my face with something I didn't ask for, you forfeit your right to expect respectful treatment from me. My default attitude is that everyone gets respect until they demonstrate that they don't deserve it. This counts as a demonstration of that.

As to the original question: did you honestly think a large percentage of guys have done it? Seriously, I get that it happens and that when your profession involves being a sexy woman in public, you're going to get more than your share of it (no, you are not asking for it, but guys who do think that way will come out of the woodwork), but this is not a page out of the "average guy's handbook." Sometimes I get kind of frustrated with all the talk about bad things guys do. Some guys do bad things, but most guys are not any more bad than most women are. The problem, I think, is that the loudest, most attention-demanding people also tend to be the least reasonable, and bad behavior evokes more public reaction than good behavior. This tends to give the impression that an obnoxious few are actually representative of many more people than they really are.
I would have totally agreed with this before I signed up for Tinder and vanilla dating sites. I made no mention I was a sex worker and literally hundreds of guys spammed me with dick pics.
So it's really hard for me to think that the majority of guys don't do it.
 
I wouldn't say Tinder is a dating site. It's a hook-up site. Sending sexy pictures is expected.
 
eclipse76 said:
I wouldn't say Tinder is a dating site. It's a hook-up site. Sending sexy pictures is expected.

Plenty of my friends use Tinder as a dating site - and successfully so. Meet a guy, chat, date etc... Not a one time hookup. Just normal dating. Maybe its different in the UK though :think:

I also have plenty of friends who have casually dated guys once or twice, not had sex with them and still received dick pics through snapchat. My girlfriends were sending "me at the pub drinking" pictures the guys sent dick pics in return. So its in no way just cam models who get inundated with them...
 
GracieHart said:
eclipse76 said:
I wouldn't say Tinder is a dating site. It's a hook-up site. Sending sexy pictures is expected.

Plenty of my friends use Tinder as a dating site - and successfully so. Meet a guy, chat, date etc... Not a one time hookup. Just normal dating. Maybe its different in the UK though :think:

I also have plenty of friends who have casually dated guys once or twice, not had sex with them and still received dick pics through snapchat. My girlfriends were sending "me at the pub drinking" pictures the guys sent dick pics in return. So its in no way just cam models who get inundated with them...
I agree. I think many guys use tinder as a hook up app, but all the girls I know who use it are actually trying to get a steady relationship out of it. But that's why I also mentioned the vanilla dating sites I was on. Because it happened on there, too.
 
PlayboyMegan said:
GracieHart said:
eclipse76 said:
I wouldn't say Tinder is a dating site. It's a hook-up site. Sending sexy pictures is expected.

Plenty of my friends use Tinder as a dating site - and successfully so. Meet a guy, chat, date etc... Not a one time hookup. Just normal dating. Maybe its different in the UK though :think:

I also have plenty of friends who have casually dated guys once or twice, not had sex with them and still received dick pics through snapchat. My girlfriends were sending "me at the pub drinking" pictures the guys sent dick pics in return. So its in no way just cam models who get inundated with them...
I agree. I think many guys use tinder as a hook up app, but all the girls I know who use it are actually trying to get a steady relationship out of it. But that's why I also mentioned the vanilla dating sites I was on. Because it happened on there, too.

I agree, while Tinder was designed off of Grindr for sexual hookups it has now definately become more of a dating site.
Word on the street is, if you want the hookup action nowadays it's back on POF. Especially for the hot middle age women. :whistle:
 
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This and I think a lot of guys are slightly sadistic. A lot of porn is degrading (not saying that's a bad thing) but even just vanilla porn the girl gets slapped in the face, spit on, choked. So it's no surprise to me that men want to see her pussy being stretched open, too. Even if she seemingly enjoys it, there's still a little pain factor there. :twocents-02cents:

You may be right about this, or at least, the makers of a lot of porn seem to believe a lot of guys are slightly sadistic. This is part of why it's hard for me to watch a lot of that stuff. I get it that some people (of both genders) do get into the slight violence and degradation thing, but I hate it. I have a hard time believing that that is really what most people (or even most straight guys) really want. I have the feeling that a generation is growing up being taught by porn that that is how you are supposed to have sex. I won't hit a woman, ever, even if she wants me to. I would feel horrible. Ditto for choking. Spitting is just gross. If you need it for lube, do it quietly on your hand and then apply it. And the number one thing that gets to me is, EVERYTHING has to end with the guy cumming in the girl's face. Why? I like to see women. If it's a b/g thing, I'm hoping the guy is silent and as close to invisible as possible. Even if that's the case, it ends up with the guy jerking off for 5-10 minutes, with the girl kneeling on the side waiting to be a splooge target. I don't want to see a guy jerking off ever, and it seems incredibly disrespectful to the girl. You've got a beautiful, willing girl there, and your orgasm of choice is with your hand? When/how did this get to be a thing?

/end rant -- for now

PlayboyMegan said:
I would have totally agreed with this before I signed up for Tinder and vanilla dating sites. I made no mention I was a sex worker and literally hundreds of guys spammed me with dick pics.
So it's really hard for me to think that the majority of guys don't do it.

I have no personal experience with those sites, but from what I've heard of Tinder, I suspect eclipse is right that there's more of an expectation that that's acceptable there than in random communications. Not sure about regular dating sites. I guess it's possible that more guys do it than I believe, although it's still hard for me to believe any of my friends would do it. I still tend to think it's mostly explained by a) on any dating site some guys will think it is implied that that sort of thing is more allowed than it is elsewhere, b) the pool on dating sites mostly doesn't include the guys who are too shy to even consider doing that, and c) a relatively small percentage of guys are sending these pics to as many girls as they can. Humor me. I need to have some hope for my gender. :(
 
HarmlessSquirrel said:
PlayboyMegan said:
This and I think a lot of guys are slightly sadistic. A lot of porn is degrading (not saying that's a bad thing) but even just vanilla porn the girl gets slapped in the face, spit on, choked. So it's no surprise to me that men want to see her pussy being stretched open, too. Even if she seemingly enjoys it, there's still a little pain factor there. :twocents-02cents:

You may be right about this, or at least, the makers of a lot of porn seem to believe a lot of guys are slightly sadistic. This is part of why it's hard for me to watch a lot of that stuff. I get it that some people (of both genders) do get into the slight violence and degradation thing, but I hate it. I have a hard time believing that that is really what most people (or even most straight guys) really want. I have the feeling that a generation is growing up being taught by porn that that is how you are supposed to have sex. I won't hit a woman, ever, even if she wants me to. I would feel horrible. Ditto for choking. Spitting is just gross. If you need it for lube, do it quietly on your hand and then apply it. And the number one thing that gets to me is, EVERYTHING has to end with the guy cumming in the girl's face. Why? I like to see women. If it's a b/g thing, I'm hoping the guy is silent and as close to invisible as possible. Even if that's the case, it ends up with the guy jerking off for 5-10 minutes, with the girl kneeling on the side waiting to be a splooge target. I don't want to see a guy jerking off ever, and it seems incredibly disrespectful to the girl. You've got a beautiful, willing girl there, and your orgasm of choice is with your hand? When/how did this get to be a thing?

/end rant -- for now

I agree completely.
I hate that it's sold to us as sexy. I hate the entire idea of disrespecting a girl I respect and am sleeping with.
Most of all I especially hate that I absolutely love it when a girl loves it sexually when in the moment.
 
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