If you don't mind, I would like to just provide a bit of feedback on this and maybe you'll find it helpful. First, the average Joe isn't going to tip for something you are already doing for free. This isn't true in some cases, and some models make huge tips by doing their public shows, but they've already established a following and are getting a lot of hype from the members/regulars. Sometimes it even becomes competitive for the members in her room, because they are trying to top each other to get the model's attention or impress her.''
My suggestion, and please take it with with a grain of salt because it's still your room, but maybe back off some of the play, and at most limit it to teasing and getting to know the people that drop into your room. If you can establish a connection with them, then there's a good chance they will tip at some point, especially if they find you attractive. Truth is, us guys can get curious, but if you're catering to that curiosity for free, not many are going to tip for it.
My next suggestion is this, find a niche or a gimmick for your room. Being different draws A LOT of attention. Let me give an example...
A lot of guys nerd out on Star Wars and video game stuff. I know that sometimes I like going in the rooms just because of something like this that a model is using as a theme. In truth, I don't even have to be attracted to her physically if I like her style and how she has her room setup. People will drop tips for being cool and different. Also, if you follow what is happening in the entertainment industry, you should be able to ease into this type of thing really well. Of course, this is just my idea. Figure out something you like outside of camming and integrate it into your room. You could even do a modeling cooking exhibition if that's your thing. Hopefully you're getting what I'm saying. Different is good when you're competing with 1,200 models at the same time. But your advantage is that you will stand out because you are doing something different than those other 1,200. Truth is, you can see some someone showing off their butt and everything else at any time on MFC, but if you do something unique, you can't go to just any room for it.
Definitely have great respect for your patience and perseverance through this. Wishing you the best and happy holidays.