Dating a camgirl and I need some advice

[Dan Epstein]

Hope you brought your Chianti back home at least.

I was a gentleman till the end, left it in her apt and drank a Stolichnaya in the dark, but I wanted to leave the following good impression:

Okay, somebody stop me from my off topic tendencies please.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

I was a gentleman till the end, left it in her apt and drank a Stolichnaya in the dark, but I wanted to leave the following good impression:
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Okay, somebody stop me from my off topic tendencies please.

But yours is the only solid advice in this thread!

 

[Just_A_Guy]

I was a gentleman till the end, left it in her apt

Nice move. Always keep it classy. Regardless. Guess she finished off the bottle that very night as soon as you left.

 

[Dan Epstein]

We should have a thread about dating, just dating, it’s complex and tricky enough and justified in my humble opinion.

 

[BiancaBaker]

We should have a thread about dating, just dating, it’s complex and tricky enough and justified in my humble opinion.

Here ya go: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/help-about-situation.29491

SUPER FACE PALM...

 

[Dan Epstein]

Here ya go: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/help-about-situation.29491

SUPER FACE PALM...

So true, sharp as always

 

[BiancaBaker]

So true, sharp as always

I want like a super face palm sometimes LMAO. Maybe for April fools we will get one hahaha.

 

[Dan Epstein]

I want like a super face palm sometimes LMAO. Maybe for April fools we will get one hahaha.

I know one thing for sure, this forum and community are way safer than many dates. I feel safer with people like you around, because you’ve seen a thing or two and kept going on. It inspires me, truly does. Am I being sentimental again? I guess I am.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

Sorry, I just felt like changing the vibe by adding a good story.

The "food porn" thread never got created. Do we need to add a "Dating stories" thread to the list?

 

[slazenger]

Empirical? Show us the evidence to support your argument please, and no wikipedia is not a viable source.

Will do.

I just posted the following question in the General Discussion Forum on camcontacts: "Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?"

Unfortunately, not many forums like this on the sites I'm familiar with (I could expand the base of models to ask), but we'll see what responses roll in. I saw a similar question posed a while back (but there's no search function so I can't find it) and there were many "yes" responses. But let's see if it's similar this time around. Inquiring minds...

[Edit: Just used the search function... on this very site and found this: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/models-meeting-members.4988/#post-124219 Looks like several models from this single thread either have met clients or know models who have met clients in real life. So there's that...]

 

[a_haze420]

Will do.

I just posted the following question in the General Discussion Forum on camcontacts: "Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?"

Unfortunately, not many forums like this on the sites I'm familiar with (I could expand the base of models to ask), but we'll see what responses roll in. I saw a similar question posed a while back (but there's no search function so I can't find it) and there were many "yes" responses. But let's see if it's similar this time around. Inquiring minds...

[Edit: Just used the search function... on this very site and found this: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/models-meeting-members.4988/#post-124219 Looks like several models from this single thread either have met clients or know models who have met clients in real life. So there's that...]

Keep in mind many members do meet models but it's at conventions. A secured and controlled fan meets cam girl experience and not a "hey we're gonna date now" experience.

If you spent as much time meeting real women as you did attempting to find stats on cam girls meeting members or trying to somehow sneakily get a cam girl to meet you, you wouldn't need to do all that crazy shit I just mentioned because you may actually have a real girlfriend.

 

[SaffronBurke]

Will do.

I just posted the following question in the General Discussion Forum on camcontacts: "Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?"

Unfortunately, not many forums like this on the sites I'm familiar with (I could expand the base of models to ask), but we'll see what responses roll in. I saw a similar question posed a while back (but there's no search function so I can't find it) and there were many "yes" responses. But let's see if it's similar this time around. Inquiring minds...

[Edit: Just used the search function... on this very site and found this: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/models-meeting-members.4988/#post-124219 Looks like several models from this single thread either have met clients or know models who have met clients in real life. So there's that...]

Meeting members at a convention or other special event, and actually dating them, are two massively different things.

I can think of hundreds of models who meet folks at events. I can think of four who have dated a member. Of those four, zero of the guys were TRYING to date a camgirl, the relationship just happened. Your chances aren't good, bro, just start hanging out in bookstores and chatting up babes with similar interests, you'll have better luck.

 

[Dan Epstein]

Will do.

I just posted the following question in the General Discussion Forum on camcontacts: "Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?"

Unfortunately, not many forums like this on the sites I'm familiar with (I could expand the base of models to ask), but we'll see what responses roll in. I saw a similar question posed a while back (but there's no search function so I can't find it) and there were many "yes" responses. But let's see if it's similar this time around. Inquiring minds...

[Edit: Just used the search function... on this very site and found this: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/models-meeting-members.4988/#post-124219 Looks like several models from this single thread either have met clients or know models who have met clients in real life. So there's that...]

There's is a better icon to match this post, it's a thing we middle eastern people do, it's called a Hamsa (it means five in Arabic, as in five fingers). It's meant for luck but it also means face palming someone else...So here is your Hamsa, good luck in your quest:

 

[Ms_Gingersnatch]

There's is a better icon to match this post, it's a thing we middle eastern people do, it's called a Hamsa (it means five in Arabic, as in five fingers). It's meant for luck but it also means face palming someone else...So here is your Hamsa, good luck in your quest:
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That is the most lovely facepalm icon ever.

But... in your part of the world it's permitted to facepalm someone other than yourself?! Maybe I'm envisioning this wrong, but... is that just smacking someone on the forehead for their foolishness? Or if you have bad aim, perhaps just slapping them? I know cultural appropriation is bad, but that sounds like something worth adopting...

 

[Dan Epstein]

That is the most lovely facepalm icon ever.

But... in your part of the world it's permitted to facepalm someone other than yourself?! Maybe I'm envisioning this wrong, but... is that just smacking someone on the forehead for their foolishness? Or if you have bad aim, perhaps just slapping them? I know cultural appropriation is bad, but that sounds like something worth adopting...

It's an amulet originally, some put an eye in the center for enhanced protection from the evil eye. Even the most brutish Israelis (like myself) don't face palm strangers though.
A Hamsa can also mean a slang for a full handed slap
If you wish to learn some of the funniest slang on the planet, you need to get in the Sababa zone, a facepalm feeling is guaranteed:

The other used term is Cafa or Kafa by the way, which basically means a slap in Arabic.

 

[slazenger]

Dan Epstein said: ↑
Empirical? Show us the evidence to support your argument please, and no wikipedia is not a viable source.

Will do.

I just posted the following question in the General Discussion Forum on camcontacts: "Models: Have you or a (cam) friend ever met a member in real life?"

Unfortunately, not many forums like this on the sites I'm familiar with (I could expand the base of models to ask), but we'll see what responses roll in. I saw a similar question posed a while back (but there's no search function so I can't find it) and there were many "yes" responses. But let's see if it's similar this time around. Inquiring minds...

[Edit: Just used the search function... on this very site and found this: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/threads/models-meeting-members.4988/#post-124219 Looks like several models from this single thread either have met clients or know models who have met clients in real life. So there's that...]

So, here are some of the many responses from my query on camcontacts:

I did,actually i had two long term relationships with people that i've met on the sites . Of course that doesent mean im going to meet all my members )

This site has been working for ages and I think the answer on this question is obvious... yes.

Personally, I find it interesting how many times this question comes up in the forums. Clearly, there is more than a virtual relationship going on in some guys' minds, and fantasy blurring with reality. But for some it is a reality. For some a disastrous one. For others a successful one.

happens all the time just that many of them don't log in on here anymore because its not healthy for a relationship to be hosting and .. so on so those girls are not going to answer you.

so to answer your question yes it happens quite often like on any other online platform...

Of course many hosts have met members. It's been happening since these sites started appearing in the late 90s. In the bad old days, for every happy ending there was some other guy who was stood up, extorted, used etc. I get the impression things have got better though.

i know 2 gals who have! one of them is engaged to the guy.

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I could go on and on but I think you get the point. Sorry, but I'm right. Probably just dealing with it is your best course of action at this point.

 

[a_haze420]

So, here are some of the many responses from my query on camcontacts:

I did,actually i had two long term relationships with people that i've met on the sites . Of course that doesent mean im going to meet all my members )

This site has been working for ages and I think the answer on this question is obvious... yes.

Personally, I find it interesting how many times this question comes up in the forums. Clearly, there is more than a virtual relationship going on in some guys' minds, and fantasy blurring with reality. But for some it is a reality. For some a disastrous one. For others a successful one.

happens all the time just that many of them don't log in on here anymore because its not healthy for a relationship to be hosting and .. so on so those girls are not going to answer you.

so to answer your question yes it happens quite often like on any other online platform...

Of course many hosts have met members. It's been happening since these sites started appearing in the late 90s. In the bad old days, for every happy ending there was some other guy who was stood up, extorted, used etc. I get the impression things have got better though.

i know 2 gals who have! one of them is engaged to the guy.

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I could go on and on but I think you get the point. Sorry, but I'm right. Probably just dealing with it is your best course of action at this point.

No you really aren't because if you take the percentage of cam girls who actually meet and date members. It is still the rarity not the norm.

You really need a hobby btw.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

So, here are some of the many responses from my query on camcontacts:

I did,actually i had....

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I could go on and on but I think you get the point. Sorry, but I'm right. Probably just dealing with it is your best course of action at this point.

Something strangely familiar about your writing style. I like it.

Anyway, whether you are trolling or not, I think you are right on this point. Few more for you...

1. Model met a member; felt he was too 'clingy' the weekend they spent together. Fortunately she had another member she had been cultivating as a potential suitor, met him shortly after, they are a happy little item now.
2. Model met a member to cam with him; set up an account together, he wound up screwing her out of her money.
3. Model met a member, blatant escorting set up. Started drinking at the bar, back at the hotel she slipped him a mickey so she wouldn't have to f*ck him. Very sinister, but funny because she managed to string him on for a while after that as a tipper, reassuring him the sex was good (he couldn't remember).
4. Model met a member just to get a dinner and a night out on somebody else's dime. Actually had the gall afterwards to bitch about "guys getting the wrong idea", never mind that she had bragged before hand to others what she was up to.

Models 1 and 2 were new models, while 3 and 4 were jaded, schemin' hos.

It is unfortunate for the more professional models who would rather not see such things encouraged, but webcam models do meet.

 

[Dan Epstein]

Another thread revival? I’m only glad that @justjoinedtopost the post is back.

 

[slazenger]

No you really aren't because if you take the percentage of cam girls who actually meet and date members. It is still the rarity not the norm.

Yes, which is exactly what I already said (and have never suggested otherwise):

Anyway, I guess he's one of these special snowflakes and I imagine there are plenty of others out there, in absolute numbers if not percentage terms.

I'm at a loss as to why folks are finding this so difficult to understand and accept... but the planet keeps spinning, so no big whoop.

 

[a_haze420]

Yes, which is exactly what I already said (and have never suggested otherwise):



I'm at a loss as to why folks are finding this so difficult to understand and accept... but the planet keeps spinning, so no big whoop.

No you were saying it happened ALL the time and was common place. Which it is not.

 

[slazenger]

No you were saying it happened ALL the time and was common place. Which it is not.

Ummm... no, I did not (see below). I'm not sure how you're misinterpreting, "In percentage terms, not very much." That means that I do not believe it's commonplace. There's no other logical interpretation of that sentence. To use a separate example, there are a lot of professional baseball players in absolute terms (almost 1,000 in the US major leagues alone); but in percentage terms (relative to those that would like to be professional baseball players) there aren't very many. You're welcome.

Ok, got it now. I'm not saying I know better, but I am saying that empirically - factually - clients meet models. In absolute terms, a lot. In percentage terms, not very much. But it absolutely does happen. So how I'm "wrong" on this issue remains unclear to me. But, ok, if you say so...

But since you're so sure of your position please feel free to quote the post where I said it happens "ALL the time and is commonplace." I'm curious myself.

 

[AudriTwo]

 

[a_haze420]

Ummm... no, I did not (see below). I'm not sure how you're misinterpreting, "In percentage terms, not very much." That means that I do not believe it's commonplace. There's no other logical interpretation of that sentence. To use a separate example, there are a lot of professional baseball players in absolute terms (almost 1,000 in the US major leagues alone); but in percentage terms (relative to those that would like to be professional baseball players) there aren't very many. You're welcome.



But since you're so sure of your position please feel free to quote the post where I said it happens "ALL the time and is commonplace." I'm curious myself.

Pretty certain every single model told you it happens on occasion but not as often as you made it sound. I really honestly don't care enough to go back through your posts because im truly bored of you haha.

Please get a hobby get out of your computer room and go meet some actual humans instead of caring so much about model member meeting stats.

 

[Dan Epstein]

Where do you draw your numbers from, is it the Cerebro?

 

[justjoinedtopost]

This needs to be told.

Hopping from room to room one night, I stumbled across one where the chat was absolutely hopping. Turns out the model had offered their address for 1000 tokens iirc and the chat room was waiting for the guy to show up. He did, and after an brief, unspectacular, dimly-lit rendezvous he left. The model did not appear to be at a convention.

I could have believed it was one of those bullshit theme shows, except while broadcasting the model lost the ability to receive tokens (was on Chaturbate). Model chatted with the cam off after that, blasting everyone for being snitches. Chat remained entertaining for a good while after the model left. I couldn't figure out why the account didn't get banned outright instead of just losing verification.

There is a very low probability that I will witness anything like that again. It just doesn't happen.

 

[AudriTwo]

This needs to be told.

Hopping from room to room one night, I stumbled across one where the chat was absolutely hopping. Turns out the model had offered their address for 1000 tokens iirc and the chat room was waiting for the guy to show up. He did, and after an brief, unspectacular, dimly-lit rendezvous he left. The model did not appear to be at a convention.

I could have believed it was one of those bullshit theme shows, except while broadcasting the model lost the ability to receive tokens (was on Chaturbate). Model chatted with the cam off after that, blasting everyone for being snitches. Chat remained entertaining for a good while after the model left. I couldn't figure out why the account didn't get banned outright instead of just losing verification.

There is a very low probability that I will witness anything like that again. It just doesn't happen.

she fucked a "random internet dude" for $50. she should of charged more. that's not even close to incall escort rates unless you are under a bridge.

 

[Phoenix4987]

Just came to sip some tea and laugh a little to myself.

 

[SaffronBurke]

she fucked a "random internet dude" for $50. she should of charged more. that's not even close to incall escort rates unless you are under a bridge.

I used to slut around on hookup sites and this one dude kept asking if he could pay me $50 for sex. Uh, no. I mean, I was on this site to bang people for free, but if you're going to pay, you're going to pay the going local rate ($200-300 in my city), not some low-ball, barely covers the cost of a date price. And, frankly, if you can't afford $200 for a mid-range escort, which is fucking CHEAP, you need to just stay home and whack it to Pornhub.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

I used to slut around on hookup sites and this one dude kept asking if he could pay me $50 for sex. Uh, no. I mean, I was on this site to bang people for free, but if you're going to pay, you're going to pay the going local rate ($200-300 in my city), not some low-ball, barely covers the cost of a date price. And, frankly, if you can't afford $200 for a mid-range escort, which is fucking CHEAP, you need to just stay home and whack it to Pornhub.

Maybe he was thinking the $50 would be the same as dinner at White Castle, a movie and a couple of $1 tap beers afterwards?