Cum shows in private, cam to cam

[Alcon]

I am a pretty shy guy as far as getting on cam. But I know that some models prefer cam to cam for private shows, and I can see why; it's awkward to be putting on a show for some user name existing only as text on a screen, especially if you are being asked to cum. Reciprocity, makes things more natural. My question is, do you ever cum in private shows without watching the members cam? If so, is it awkward? What are you thinking about during this time to arouse yourself? A partner/husband? Celebrity? Sorry if this is a dumb question!

 

[PlayboyMegan]

Actually, most cam models prefer no C2C or don't care either way. Some won't even do it. Others charge money to watch cams. So I'm not sure what made you think that?

 

[PlayboyMegan]

Oh, and girls are not as visual as men. I don't need a face to think about while masturbating. I don't even need to fantasize while doing it. All I need to do is make it feel good.

 

[StacyMoore]

I'm the same way I don't need visual stimulus .. if it feels good ill cum lol

 

[Bocefish]

Actually, most cam models prefer no C2C or don't care either way. Some won't even do it. Others charge money to watch cams. So I'm not sure what made you think that?

The OP is talking about c2c during private shows only. I know a lot of models that like to see who they're doing the show with. Hopefully they're being honest when they say that. IMHO (and non model) it's kinda up to the person paying whether or not he/she wants to open up their cam and if the model doesn't want to view it, that should probably be negotiated before the private show even begins. :twocents-02cents:

 

[Rose]

Megan nailed it on the head. I find cam2cam incredibly awkward and not sexy at all. It makes me feel like a deer in the headlights and makes it impossible for me to cum. I only watch cams in private and never when it's time to play. I actually can't fantasize at all during play time or I can't orgasm. If I think about anything other than what's going on then I just can't orgasm, even if I'm thinking of something sexual. I have to focus completely on the physical sensations or I'll end up laying there like a dead fish. Porn doesn't turn me on. Looking at it is fun and then reminds me that sex is fun but I don't start actually getting turned on until I have physical stimulation.

 

[Shaun__]

I have had several models ask me to turn my cam on after privates, but only one during a private. Several did it because they thought that was what premiums enjoyed and they had the most hilarious look of relief on their faces when they saw I was dressed. The others all just wanted to see what I looked like. One of those looked so sad after I told her my age. I guess she thought I was decent looking but a man in his early thirties was just too old to even fantasize about.

 

[Lacey Black]

Actually, most cam models prefer no C2C or don't care either way. Some won't even do it. Others charge money to watch cams. So I'm not sure what made you think that?

Exactly. I can't think of any model that prefers c2c. Every time I get asked to c2c I tell them to go view the members cams and see why I don't anymore.

 

[LilyMarie]

Reciprocity, makes things more natural.

No, not at all. It makes things more unnatural, because it involves more acting and more concentration. If I have to pay attention to what the guy is doing, and to be responsive to his actions, that's much more difficult for me than just getting myself off.
It's extra work, that's why I charge extra to view cams, unless the guy has already been in the private for more than 5 minutes.

My question is, do you ever cum in private shows without watching the members cam? If so, is it awkward? What are you thinking about during this time to arouse yourself? A partner/husband? Celebrity? Sorry if this is a dumb question!

It's not a dumb question at all, I can see where you're coming from, because men are structured differently than women. Like PlayboyMegan already said, we don't need visuals to get aroused. All kinds of things will do.
Also, It's much MUCH easier for me to cum in a private if I'm not watching the member's cam, i.e. not having to concentrate on something that I don't find arousing! And seeing a stranger's penis is never arousing. Don't let any cam girl tell you differently.
I already explained some of that in a different post, I'll just quote myself.

The majority of the guys who want me to watch their cam (and go on and on about it) are clearly under the impression that I want to see their dick as much as they want to see my vagina. That's not the case. Women are structured differently and more complicated than men, their sexual arousal can not be influenced by images as easily. And no woman I know thinks that the penis is the most attractive body part of a man. No wonder we can see a fully clothed guy in a magazine or on the street and immediately be totally attracted to him just because he has that certain look in his eyes, or beautiful hands, or just charisma.

Just in case anyone's still under the wrong impression... Please stop thinking that seeing a stranger's dick instantly makes us horny or hornier. It's not that easy.
I feel bad when I tell someone "no, I don't want to see your rock hard 27365 inch dick, stop talking about it", but it really just doesn't do anything for me. It would probably disgust me.

 

[Jessi]

Here's why I don't like cam2cam
I have to pretend I find the guy attractive, and 9 times out of ten, I don't.
Looking at someone I'm not attracted to, combined with the mental strain of faking arousal kills my lady boner, making it REALLY hard to act sexy, let alone have an orgasm. Turning the guy's cam changes it from "Me masturbating for someone" to something mutual and therefore closer to sex. And maybe I dont want to have sex with you?
Its going to sound harsh, but if you ask a girl to watch your cam and ask her if she likes it, there's a good chance shes lying to make you feel better, or she's worried you will end the private if she doesn't watch.
When I flick the bean, I like to think about hotties or great sexual experiences Ive had in the past.

Don't get me wrong, I love watching guys masturbate and cum...just cute ones. I love looking at a big, hardcock...its like instant wet for me. But it has to be a nice looking one (and chances are yours isn't as magnificent as you think). Make any sense?

 

[PlayboyMegan]

Actually, most cam models prefer no C2C or don't care either way. Some won't even do it. Others charge money to watch cams. So I'm not sure what made you think that?

The OP is talking about c2c during private shows only. I know a lot of models that like to see who they're doing the show with. Hopefully they're being honest when they say that. IMHO (and non model) it's kinda up to the person paying whether or not he/she wants to open up their cam and if the model doesn't want to view it, that should probably be negotiated before the private show even begins. :twocents-02cents:

I know what he's talking about. But just look at the girls answers. If I see he already has his cam on, I'll ask if he wants me to view it. Maybe guys think that means I WANT to view it, but I don't care either way. I don't know any models, personally, that PREFER c2c. I'm sure there are girls that say they prefer it, but it's usually because that's what a lot of guys want to hear and it is a job.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

Several did it because they thought that was what premiums enjoyed

Yup. I can't speak for all models, of course, but that's what I mostly hear from girls.

 

[MadisonLeigh]

Disembodied dicks do not really do it for me, but I muuuuch prefer a dick over a cam focused on a member's face. I do not want to make awkward eye contact with you while I'm trying to cum. It does turn me on to think about being watched, but it is definitely distracting to pay attention to a cam while I'm trying to get myself off. :twocents-02cents:

 

[HeidiTruelove]

personally I LOVE to watch cams during private shows. The fact that there is visual proof that I am turning someone on really does it for me and actually makes me feel more at ease and natural in my show. It makes me feel like I'm good at my job.

Whether the guy is fat old and hairy or the hottest guy I've ever seen. No matter what the weenie looks like, I love it! Sometimes I'll ask a regular to give me a show while I am in public because it makes me so happy.

Maybe I'm a weirdo.

 

[Alcon]

Thanks to everyone who replied. I have a much better idea of models' perspective now. It also just goes to show that there's a variety of possible reactions to this and not every model feels the same way.

 

[Jessi]

Some models like it, many don't. Everyone is different, so its best to ASK and make sure the girl doesn't feel pressured.

 

[Loslonelyboy]

I have only ever been asked by one model to turn my cam on and now I keep it on for her regularly but I never even considered turning it on until she asked me! And even that took some convincing since I am such a shy person. Now I love turning it on for her! I almost think I would turn it on for more models if they really wanted to see me but no way will I even attempt to ask them if they want me to turn it on!

 

[ComicOzzie]

So you models are saying that I should STOP asking you to watch me wank on cam to help you cum?

:lol:

 

[BettyBallistic]

I like c2c for the most part, unless the guy is doing something crazy like trying to stick a chair leg in his ass or something.

 

[Alana Cruise]

I have had several models ask me to turn my cam on after privates, but only one during a private. Several did it because they thought that was what premiums enjoyed and they had the most hilarious look of relief on their faces when they saw I was dressed. The others all just wanted to see what I looked like. One of those looked so sad after I told her my age. I guess she thought I was decent looking but a man in his early thirties was just too old to even fantasize about.

Early 30s my god I would love that. I get the grey old grandpas 55+. Tho I am 31 even if I were 19 I dont think I would consider early thirties old.

 

[Rose]

I have had several models ask me to turn my cam on after privates, but only one during a private. Several did it because they thought that was what premiums enjoyed and they had the most hilarious look of relief on their faces when they saw I was dressed. The others all just wanted to see what I looked like. One of those looked so sad after I told her my age. I guess she thought I was decent looking but a man in his early thirties was just too old to even fantasize about.

Early 30s my god I would love that. I get the grey old grandpas 55+. Tho I am 31 even if I were 19 I dont think I would consider early thirties old.

I have yet to get anyone under 60 who wants to cam2cam with me. If I had someone who was actually clean and younger I might not mind it so much. A 300lb version of Billy Bob from Bad Santa is an accurate description of what I see on cam2cam. I've yet to see anything nicer...

 

[CassieRamone]

The OP is talking about c2c during private shows only. I know a lot of models that like to see who they're doing the show with. Hopefully they're being honest when they say that. IMHO (and non model) it's kinda up to the person paying whether or not he/she wants to open up their cam and if the model doesn't want to view it, that should probably be negotiated before the private show even begins. :twocents-02cents:

i usually ask everyone to turn their cams on for me, well, at least everyone thats been in my room more than once. its fun. and they usually know im not trying to get cock bombed if were all just talking and hanging out and i ask em to turn it on for me. buuuut, during pvts, it depends who it is. im always open to it though! i mean, maybe im a huge pervert or something lol. but i dont pretend watching some dude (young, old, fat, skinny, whatever) touching his 8==> is THE contributing factor to my orgasm... i mean... its probably not doing much for me either way. Not that i dont love dick or wahtever, but like, men and women are different. from what ive seen here, the models seem to agree that we dont need visual stimulation to cum, whilst we all make our money/are primarily (generally speaking) here AS visual stimulation (unless youre like me and youre primarily there making a fool out of yourself and laughing... lol). hmmm. it was crazy that i read "most cam girls prefer no c2c" but judging by the responses i suppose thats right.

hmmm. very interesting. ima go make everyone turn their cams on tonight. lol. love you guys, this forum fucking rocks.


:twocents-02cents: (or rather... $1.20, sorry i talk so much)

 

[caireen]

Disembodied dicks do not really do it for me, but I muuuuch prefer a dick over a cam focused on a member's face. I do not want to make awkward eye contact with you while I'm trying to cum. It does turn me on to think about being watched, but it is definitely distracting to pay attention to a cam while I'm trying to get myself off. :twocents-02cents:

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BUT- i'm also one of the few (it seems!) that likes c2c. it's not that i see a random penis and am instantly aroused, it's just that i have more of a sense of the users reactions to things. i'm not only cumming for myself, but i'm doing a show of some sorts, so i want to know his responses.

 

[LittleLezboUK]

The majority of the guys who want me to watch their cam (and go on and on about it) are clearly under the impression that I want to see their dick as much as they want to see my vagina. That's not the case. Women are structured differently and more complicated than men, their sexual arousal can not be influenced by images as easily. And no woman I know thinks that the penis is the most attractive body part of a man. No wonder we can see a fully clothed guy in a magazine or on the street and immediately be totally attracted to him just because he has that certain look in his eyes, or beautiful hands, or just charisma.

Just in case anyone's still under the wrong impression... Please stop thinking that seeing a stranger's dick instantly makes us horny or hornier. It's not that easy.
I feel bad when I tell someone "no, I don't want to see your rock hard 27365 inch dick, stop talking about it", but it really just doesn't do anything for me. It would probably disgust me.

completely agree! they do go on a bit some of them! I sware they think when we see them we are gunna fall instantly in love or somthing! guys there is a reason my username is LittleLEZBO!!

 

[thebanditx]

I know this topic is for the girls to answer I just wanted to toss in my c2c experience lol
I'm pretty much a shy guy so during on of my first and few privates the girl asks to if I have a cam for her to watch and all of a sudden my mind was filled with a million things. Holy crap let me comb my hair.... Is my shirt ok....maybe I should clean my bedroom.. How do I smell.. Wait why do I need to smell good it's just a cam... Maybe I should do a few pushups to make my chest and arms pop a little...should I point the cam at my face....clothes off or on already.. Make sure i look cool...I was actually nervous lol so I just answered no and let her pretend I looked like David beckham or something lol
Just wanted to share I know I'm a weirdo

 

[LittleLezboUK]

we have to think of these things every time we go on cam band!

 

[Jupiter551]

I was once in a group show, last one left in there, model asks me to turn cam on bb, repeatedly, pms me about it and when I don't she ends the group lol. I dunno, being watched masturbating doesn't really do it for me, plus I use a tenga fliphole so the model wouldnt see anything anyway, and half the time I'm on MFC I have bedhead or just look like a total slob...so no thx for c2c for me unless I'm just shooting the shit clothed with a model I consider a buddy.

 

[thebanditx]

we have to think of these things every time we go on cam band!

Guess i would make a horrible cam girl then lol

 

[sxycherrypie]

Sometimes i need visual stimulation in order to cum and at other times such as ovulation time I do not need it at all I will cum just by thinking how good it feels.

 

[Jessi J]

I like to watch guys masturbate. Small cocks, large cocks, whatever. I don't want a massive cock in my vagina, but the fact that they are turned on by what I am doing is awesome. I have seen some guys during my shows brush their teeth, eat sandwiches, laugh at pms they are getting, clicking all around their computer, etc. Now THAT isn't sexy!

I don't wanna see them do weird things like putting stuff in their butts while I am trying to masturbate. I am a model that watches certain guys deep throat dildos and try to fist their ass, but not while I am trying to masturbate. They just intrigue me in a weird way. I am a curious creature

When I am masturbating I like to watch their cock and their face. It makes it easier for me to think about things. If they are just sitting there watching me it makes it weird. It feels like they are watching me masturbate just to make me happy, but it doesn't. I want to know that what I am doing is actually turning me on.

That being said if he is 400 pounds and looks like he has been tarred and rolled around in hair, then it doesn't interest me. If someone like that asks me to view their cam while we go private, then I usually leave the cam open but minimize it, there's no need for me to be rude to them if they want to pay me to watch them masturbate.