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I’m gonna sidetrack the original topic to “exchanging warm-fuzzies”, since actions can feel like indirect compliments....
Before my favorite model was ever deemed as my favorite, the model had sent me an unexpected mfc mail while i was on camsite hiatus. She had asked what i have been up to, that i’ve been noticeably absent, and even said things didn’t feel quite the same when i wasn’t around. It wasn’t an insincere customer service ploy in attempt to finagle more tokens, but a genuine letter that really gave me a sense of how much she appreciated me as her regular. I didn’t realize it up until then. When i had finally shown up again, she almost immediately sent me a pm with a “i’m glad you’re back” message. I couldn’t tell you how much that made my week. To me, it was a gestural compliment that signified an appreciation for being part of her room; that i’m not some member made of tokens. Best feeling i ever received from a camsite.
Before my favorite model was ever deemed as my favorite, the model had sent me an unexpected mfc mail while i was on camsite hiatus. She had asked what i have been up to, that i’ve been noticeably absent, and even said things didn’t feel quite the same when i wasn’t around. It wasn’t an insincere customer service ploy in attempt to finagle more tokens, but a genuine letter that really gave me a sense of how much she appreciated me as her regular. I didn’t realize it up until then. When i had finally shown up again, she almost immediately sent me a pm with a “i’m glad you’re back” message. I couldn’t tell you how much that made my week. To me, it was a gestural compliment that signified an appreciation for being part of her room; that i’m not some member made of tokens. Best feeling i ever received from a camsite.
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People asking to wife/marry me always gets me. I know it's not true, but still. Gets me every time.
Also compliments about my eyes are always awesome. I had a BJ show recently where someone said when I look at the camera, it makes their heart stop, or something to that effect. I like that
I get complimented all the time on how I pronounce 'butt' and that always makes me smile :lol: I'm Irish so maybe it sounds funny to others, idk. But it never fails to be pointed out!
Also compliments about my eyes are always awesome. I had a BJ show recently where someone said when I look at the camera, it makes their heart stop, or something to that effect. I like that
I get complimented all the time on how I pronounce 'butt' and that always makes me smile :lol: I'm Irish so maybe it sounds funny to others, idk. But it never fails to be pointed out!
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Um... well... you could tell her you think she's beautiful. Like radiant. That her smile disarms you. That the mere thought of her eyes makes it hard for you to walk straight. You could tell her you love her personality. That she makes you laugh. That when you talk to her, all your worries and all your troubles just get pushed into the background and don't seem so important. You could tell her she's the highlight of your day. You could tell her she stirs something primal in you, that she makes your willy go all hard and stuff. Buuuuut none of that would mean a thing, because all you'd be doing is repeating generic sentiments that some guy on a message board reeled off that were purposely vague and could therefore apply to anyone, even someone he'd never met.
Asking for compliments you can use to compliment someone we don't even know is a little odd, sir
We don't know what you like about this girl. We don't know how she makes you feel. We don't know what it is about her that makes you want to compliment her in the first place. Only you can possibly know that, ya know?
Why are you wanting to pay them a compliment? Surely a compliment follows a moment of genuine admiration that you felt and in that moment wanted to pass on to the person you just admired. It doesn't sound sincere at all the fact you are asking folk on a forum to think up compliments to some random we don't know. Wat.Ambers Troll said:
Ambers Troll said:What compliments work for you?
Obviously only genuine ones (preferably in tip notes
Was just reviving this topic, was in the mood to pay someone a compliment, but unsure on the approach....sorry for the confusion.... Is a tipnote the best? ... does it matter how a compliment comes?LailaBaise said:
[Backhanded compliment ? hmmm ]
Ambers Troll said:
Just be honest, nothing hurts as much as a false compliment.
Was just reading a tweet from a model where she was complimented as being 'seasonal' ....hmmm not sure about that one.
At least she also recieved a compliment on being elegant today, that is more like it .
At least she also recieved a compliment on being elegant today, that is more like it
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I like this topic. Strange, since I'm a grumpy old man and proud of it, but still, it's nice to have a topic on being nice.
Definitely, I agree with Shaun, it needs to be honest. I don't have a collection of lines I use when I want to give a compliment. I pay a compliment when I'm inspired to do so, and when I do, I mean it. If it's a looks-based one, it's usually pretty much because I just can't help it. It seems likely that models get told they look good all day long, so if I actually tell you how great you look, it probably means you just about made my brain explode. In any case, I try to say it in a graceful way. I've actually heard someone say "sweet hole, bb." I think he really meant it as a compliment too, but um, not my style.
More often for me, it's probably going to be something about them as a person. I'll feel like, damn, this lady really makes me smile, or she's so much fun to hang out with, or I admire how much she cares about people. In those cases, I can pretty much say it exactly the way I thought it because, hey, to me any of those things are high praise to begin with. I know I'd feel good if someone said them about me.
I think it makes sense to say it in a tip note. Two reasons: 1) if you feel that kind of burst of fondness it calls for a tip anyway and 2) I think a lot of models are inclined to doubt the sincerity of a compliment if you aren't tipping. It's probably not as important to do it in a tip note if you've already been tipping, since you've already shown some appreciation, but if you haven't yet, I think you probably should if you want your compliment taken seriously.
On the receiving end: I'm a sap. If a pretty lady says something nice about me, I feel all warm and fuzzy. Almost anything nice will do, although the thing that really makes me feel special is if she confides in me. I don't mean she needs to give me her home address and social security number, but if she trusts me enough to tell me something privately that she doesn't want to tell the whole room, that means a lot to me.
Definitely, I agree with Shaun, it needs to be honest. I don't have a collection of lines I use when I want to give a compliment. I pay a compliment when I'm inspired to do so, and when I do, I mean it. If it's a looks-based one, it's usually pretty much because I just can't help it. It seems likely that models get told they look good all day long, so if I actually tell you how great you look, it probably means you just about made my brain explode. In any case, I try to say it in a graceful way. I've actually heard someone say "sweet hole, bb." I think he really meant it as a compliment too, but um, not my style.
More often for me, it's probably going to be something about them as a person. I'll feel like, damn, this lady really makes me smile, or she's so much fun to hang out with, or I admire how much she cares about people. In those cases, I can pretty much say it exactly the way I thought it because, hey, to me any of those things are high praise to begin with. I know I'd feel good if someone said them about me.
I think it makes sense to say it in a tip note. Two reasons: 1) if you feel that kind of burst of fondness it calls for a tip anyway and 2) I think a lot of models are inclined to doubt the sincerity of a compliment if you aren't tipping. It's probably not as important to do it in a tip note if you've already been tipping, since you've already shown some appreciation, but if you haven't yet, I think you probably should if you want your compliment taken seriously.
On the receiving end: I'm a sap. If a pretty lady says something nice about me, I feel all warm and fuzzy. Almost anything nice will do, although the thing that really makes me feel special is if she confides in me. I don't mean she needs to give me her home address and social security number, but if she trusts me enough to tell me something privately that she doesn't want to tell the whole room, that means a lot to me.
Impressive post HarmlessSquirrel, a great reflection of what it feels like when you want to compliment a model.... just an awesome post...thanks
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Harmless, I love getting sweet,sweet compliments in tip notes. Sometimes that'll make me tear up more than the amount.
Guys who compliment models but never tip are usually saying the same damn thing to dozens of models every day, hoping to get noticed. :twocents-02cents:
Wanted to pay one over this eye matching (the outfit), eye catching (the woman), beauty yesterday....wow!
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